American Black Men: USA or Foreign White Women

Great point, RestlessRita. Sorry if my statement sounded like a blanket denunciation. It wasn't meant to be that at all. I'm sure you guys have to kiss a lot of bums before you find the person you're looking for as well.

 

What you don't realize is that I see your point. I just don't think you see mine. If you compare NY women to women in Toronto you probably won't get an argument from me.

I'm not saying you are wrong to generalize. I'm saying you are over generalizing; that's why your statements are flawed.

 

"Over" generalizing? Nope.

Just simple generalization. But the initial question is a generalized question, why would the answers in the form of opinions be anything but that also?

 

Maybe the question was too simplistic to begin with. Maybe the real truth required that the topic evolve just a little.

I know you are not here often but let me tell you: most threads get derailed. We are doing good to still be on topic.

 

I agree. That's exactly my point. I'm not interested in working to make a relationship prosper. I have a job, why would I take another when I don't have to?

However you wish to frame it, foreign WW are overall easier to be with than American WW.

Why indeed.

I sincerely hope so

 

All American WW?

Your reading comprehension seems to be off. No one said "all".

And dudes posting with improper capitalization, horrible spelling errors and punctuation mishaps are looking e-lit-er-writ.

 

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Encourage one of the WW here to do that and see. Simple.

Personally, if a WW thinks the foreign BM are more suave, better looking more fit, more intelligent, more charming and they see a better future with them over American BM I say "go for what you know, baby". Simple.

If a WW thinks BM are cheap, not intelligent, a drag on them as humans, unrefined and have unrealistic expectations I say "don't fuck with us". Simple.

My feelings would not be hurt. Not one bit.

 

On the money, my brother!!

 

and dudes who think that their stock will go up overseas are cuckolds

 

Very large Ethiopian and Eritrean community here, Z.

 

actually , u were making those inferences.

whats the matter? no one in the states giving u play?

 

Aww shit. Have you "dated" Ethiopian women? I know I'm off topic but fuck it.

 

Perhaps, but I like simple stuff. It tends to cut through the bullshit. Yes, lol I'm trying to help keep the discussion on topic too because I think it's important. I would prefer a wonderful American WW in my life who had the characteristics that so many foreign WW seem to have. It would be great!

But I'm a pragmatist; I'm open to meeting that wonderful American WW and I believe they exist but they are like finding a needle in 12 haystacks. Until the collective appreciably changes, I will remain hopeful for American WW but put my energy into foreign WW. The return on my enegry investment receives a bigger potential payoff for me.

 

Even though I don't agree with your opinion, I can understand your logical approach to "dating."

 

cosign.

 

As humans we have a tendency to oversimplify that's why we have stereotypes. The media executives play on this fact and that makes it much worse.

 

just cause a woman would have those characteristics doesnt mean she going to be into you or she will be right for you. culture would never equal a good woman.

 

So much ridiculousness in such a short sentence:

1. Dudes didn't say their stock would go u by going overseas; dudes said their opinions and experience showed them that foreign WW overall were their preference over American WW.

2. According to http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/cuckolded a cuckold is "the husband of an unfaithful wife". Even if dudes thought their stock would go up if the go overseas how does that make them "the husband of an unfaithful wife."?

Improper capitalization, horrible spelling errors and punctuation mishaps? Eh, is posting up on this site part of an assignment for you to receive credit to pass your English as Second Language (ESL) class?

 

Lol I believe I now I understand why you have difficulty finding quality partners within a few thousand miles of your home. With the line of thinking you showcase above, I'd be very surprised to see you find success in any adult relationship. If you're not interested in working for your relationship, you probably shouldn't be in one. Relationships don't flourish and remain a success just by chance. It takes effort. I'm always taken aback when I hear someone try to refute that fact. We get what we give in life. If someone wants to take the lazy approach to dating, it's most definitely their choice to do so. They really don't have much room to complain though, when all that half-assing attracts is bottom of the barrel women. "Nothing worth having comes easy"