Age differences bm-wf?

Youre everyones type and you know it

 

I was dating guys 10 to 12 years older than me, but now it seems that they are getting closer to my age... or a tiny bit younger - it's a little strange but kind of nice. I'm trying to get used to it! (not having that father figure, but more of a peer...)

 

woooo weeeee:smt058

awwwwwwwww TDk, you always know how to make me smile and blush at the same time. Thank you (I wish though) but thank you.:smt058

 

For the person that left that "rep" about me and men my own age, all I have to say is that someone is butthurt as HELL around here! It makes me smile....

Men older than me, men younger than me, and men my own age must ALL be desperate. Men who cook me dinner, help me move, run to help me when I need it, smile when I walk past, yep, desperate - will fuck anything that moves... yep that must be it! :smt081

 

So happens that I do some consultant training and contracting with local colleges so we met by sure coincidence while in the student union. She is new to bm-ww interracial and I am her second bm experience...at first meeting it was nothing but casual conversation while standing in line at food court..seeing how I was much older she thought we would not have anything in common...however that soon changed with more talking and she is very open minded and very mature for her age too...her mother is a single mom close to my age range and who does not know her daughter is seeing me...for the most part this is just a fling for us both..we know it and understand each other on this level from very beginning..she knows I am much more attracted to women my own age but I can say she does love the great sex we have and things I teach and turn her on to...but I am more like her mentor and teacher than just her bf or lover..when we are out in public we both get stares and her more often than me...I took her once to VS for some lingerie shopping what a experience...

Also she has younger sister who is 17 starting college too and is now interested in her first interracial experience...

 

I dated 19year 11 month year old when I was 34 , set up by her mom no less....but she turned out to be really a baby mentally..I would say 15 mentally...so it didnt last long needless to say...she was very attractive though, I still have flash backs with that one...haha

 

I am 37, will be 38 in a couple of months. My current boyfriends?

that I see regularly and am contemplating a relationship with...

43
29
36

and more sporadically...

40
50 (the old boyfriend that started it all... he doesn't live here)

 

For me, with a sister that's soon be 19, and a dad that's in his mid 40s...it just seems "wrong" to me. An actual relationship, I can't see it working. Not because of the age range, but because of life experience and the stage of life both are in.

A 19 year old's still figuring things out while a 45 year old is likely much more settled. The biggest age difference for me and someone that I simply found attractive was... 19 years lol. He turned 40, I teased him saying that he was lying about his age and only 25.

I don't have any "plus 5, minus 5" things... (if I did the 'minus 5', I'd be breaking the law lmao), I've only dated someone younger than me once, and it was just a year between us. There weren't any feelings there, I just said yes because I was scared that he'd kill himself if I said no. I like older guys, it doesn't matter how much older they are .

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It's true though, women your own age would likely be very aware of her body clock's ticking.

I don't mean this as an age thing or whatever... I just love how you worded this.

 

I hear it from my single female friends all the fricking time. If your finances arent where you want them to be a child and a wife is a recipe for an early heart attack. Im man enough to know what I can and cant handle.

 

Still plucking them off the playground, I see.

Got set up on a blind date with a kid who was 26 last night. Had to make it clear to the person who set us up that if I wanted to play with kids, I'd run a damn daycare.

Clearly, a few weeks from 30 I'm tapping my feet to procreate, right? LMAO.

 

As someone who used to date with age gaps like that, i can tell you it is mostly a waste of time. It rarely works...for some it does... But a 19 year old girl Is likely looking for more of a father figure than a boyfriend. Nevermind that the human brain isnt even fully developed until 25 years old....you can be in for all sorts of surprises!

I will only date men around my age or a little older these days. 38 is about my limit, and I will be 30 in only a couple of weeks.

 

If you're born in the 70s, I'm happy to date you

 

What about the late 80s?