Age differences bm-wf?

While reading about a local California story of a 41yo male teacher who is dating a 18yo former student it got me to thinking how common it is that you find a older bm and younger white woman. While I sure have had my fun with some college age female students before, and currently have a 19yo college fwb, I don't think when it comes to age its a big deal as long as the person is legal age and the consent. I am 45yo professional and educated black man, who was actually approached by my 19yo hottie btw which how we met. I want to get the views of the women here would you consider being with much older man, have you been with, what age is too much of gap? And for the fellas, have you ever gone out or dated or been approached by much younger ( legally) woman.

 

If the couple like each other and don't care about the difference, go for it. It's all about the connection.

 

So when you were approached by that 19y/o where were you two exactly? Im wondering where someone your age and her age would bump into each other at if you dont mind me asking. Movies perhaps?? Beach??

I have been approached by younger women but for superficial reasons. Nothing serious and I never accepted any invite. More of a ... I will sex you if you protect me kind of thing. Im talking about military women in combat. They admire that guy who they know has a reputation for protecting women, especially outside of the wire. They just wanted to make it back to the USA to their loves ones. I dont flow like that. No soldier will be harmed if I can help it.

I have not been approached by any younger civilian woman like that. I am with a civilian woman who I had to approach and get her interested in me. But its serious so I dont look further, nor will I accept any offers from other women.

 

Anything over a 15yr age gap is a bit weird to me. I mean, if the couple is happy...that's all that matters and it's none of my business, but since you asked, that's how I feel.

I've been with a guy who was around 10yrs older and he was an asshole, that had nothing to do with his age though. My man is only 2yrs older and I like it that way.

One of the things that bothers me about the large age gap is, what happens when you're old? I mean REALLY old? Is the younger person suppose to become the aged care nurse to their elderly partner (while they're still young and full of life)? I don't know, I guess people don't think like that.

 

i dont mind an age gap, but i kind of have to agree with around the 15 year age gap.

cuz for me after that they are closer to my parents age..... and i think if you want a real relationship, that can start getting tricky

 

sin mari have to agree with you on this

 

The age gap isn't really weird to me. If a 35 yr old woman/man is with a 60yrs old man/woman- I really don't care. They are adults and know what they want and what they do.

I have an issue, if the spouse is a young adult. For me there is no difference , whether someone is 17,18 or 19yrs. A young person should be with people around their age and a 40 yrs old person should support them, not touching them, neither men nor women. My opinion

 

I assuming you don't have a teenage daughter , which would make having a 19 year old FWB a lot more awkward.

 

ha an older bm and younger ww would cause a shit storm, but i bet it does happen quite a bit

 

For a really young woman, under the age of 25, to be with an older man it does seem more like a child/parent type deal. But once a female hits 30, if she and her partner are physically/emotionally/mentally compatible I don't think it's much stress.

Like when I heard Scarlett Johanson was briefly with Sean Penn, that seemed a little skeevy to me.

 

People should date whomever they want, as long as its not pedo.

 

:smt023

 

I was with a woman who is 23 years older than me this year, we have a blast together. I must i do feel sorta embarrassed when we boo'd up together in public and young girls be clowning.

 

I try to put myself in another guys shoes. If I had a young daughter I wouldn't want someone my age dating them, that would just seem weird. 15 years does seem like a good cutoff age (for me) and that's pushing it. Having said that, fellas if this women approached you or someone as hot could you turn her away?



She's only 19.

 

Maybe in the UK, but I've never seen it here. When there's a May/December WW/BM relationship in the US, it's ALWAYS an older women with a younger brother.

 

When a hot 19 year old female approaches an older man who is more than twice her age sexually, clearly the older man would be flattered but the difference between maturity and immaturity is to think with your head and not your dick by not acting on your desire to sleep with a girl whose father could be your age mate.

 

Age ain't nothin but a number.
I'm 23 and my guy is 36.

People reach certain levels of maturity at different ages mostly based on life experience rather then YEARS.

 

I dont know how mature a 19 year old will be to handle a 42 year old man, most 19 year olds would be grossed out if a 42 year old approached them and it will take a special teenage girl to be comfortable with a man more than TWICE her age.

 

You are so right.

My coworker is 15 years younger then her husband they have been together since she was 20 and she is now 32 and they have 2 children together and plan on more. Love is Love.