Age differences between partners

now that's a man

 

For window shopping houses?

That's setting the bar pretty low isn't it?



NOTE: No disrespect intended to TDK, cause he is my dude when he's not saying shit that I disagree with. I'm hoping he does get that house so I have somewhere to stay when I go to that shitty city. Hell, I'd even be honored to offer my custodial services at minimal cost.

 

Master of the custodial arts huh Thurgood lol
Shit have you seen the bitcoin market lately? I might gave to bunk with you homie lol.
And window shopping is huge for a commitmentphobe like myself, but she's a good girl. Besides window shopping is free and I love free lol

 

You know what else is free?

Staying at her place.

 

Real Talk though man... I hope you get that dream house.

 

Thanks fam me too. We saw all these beautiful houses on the water and then reality slapped me in the face when we looked them up and all of them 7 to 8 figures. I have such a deep love hate relationship with NY. If I want to own something nice in an area worth raising kids in I might have to start selling on the corner lol

 

I love free too!

 

Aww, too sweet. Thank you so much! :freehug:

 

As much as I love my hometown (NYC), I realized I had to leave to live in a decent neighborhood, have a decent car while not have a fortune. I livein the Washington, DC suburbs, and love my life here. Yes, I do miss NYC, but it's just 3.5 hours away.

 

Dude that shit is just as expensive at least in the NOVA area.
What do you do?

 

:smt049 thanks TDK

Wish you all the best with your lady love :freehug:

 

It is, but I moved here back in '97, and my $$$ immediately went further. At the time my rent was $700 for a one BR apartment with amenities that you'd never get in NYC for that amount.

I now live in Rockville, MD, and I'm in the IT field (Network Administrator). Yes, it's expensive, but I definitely have a better quality of like than when I lived in NYC. Much cleaner too.

 

$700... damn! When I was looking at studio apartments near campus, they were at least $1400 each. Funny how fast things changed, just back in 2007, 2008... a lot of people were terrified to walk on H street. Now it's one of the hip places to be.

 

I've been trying so hard to get with an older Italian woman. It's just something about them.

 

Older Mediterranean women are gorgeous...

 

I have dated women as much as 10 years older than me and it's been fun, and dated as young as 8 years younger, but now that I am getting older and wanting to settle down I'm definitely relaxing on the age gap stuff. I want a woman who is mature, but also one who is young enough to still want children and so I find myself aiming for women around 6-12 years younger than me.

 

Well, it’s been over a decade. Any success?

 

Interesting thread. From my experience I started out attracting older when I was younger. In fact the first woman that had a crush on me in college was shocked to learn I just turned 18, she was I want to say 23-24. Now that I’m in my late 20’s I seem to attract women from 19-23. I don’t really have a preference as age imo isn’t a great indicator of maturity.

 

I've always found that much older men have been attracted to me. When I was much younger and not so aware of power dynamics in relationships I reciprocated but now for a much older man I'd need to know they weren't just into an age thing. I'd not say no or never to someone older but the interest from my side in a man for just "being older" is much less for me.