Admitting your attraction/preference

No doubt, there are a bunch of United colors of Benetton websites but this site is about bm/ww. At least I thought.

 

And it still is.

 

Why do you find the need to continue this narrative on THIS site? You've done this for years. You were on here years ago whining about some issues with a white guy then this time around you say shit about some Asian guy you work with and then you come on posting pictures of non-black men. I'm sure there are Asian (or whatever other) lover sites out there.

There are such few places that are specifically for white women and black men.

No one said that there aren't beautiful people in all races.

smh

 

Actually, my original post was just answering Othello's comment that he thought only a small percentage of WW date Asian guys. I shared my experiences with seeing lots of those types and other types of couples. But, yes, I know that WW aren't allowed on this site to say anything about any other race but black men.

Black men are allowed to talk about any race of women, and that's a-OK. Don't worry, forum police, I'm done.

 

Personally, I think you are still stuck on that Asian guy you like at your place of work. She wasn't completely wrong. When it was a white guy that you were interested in, you often would take any potential opportunity to talk about the white guys you liked. Now it's Asian guys, due to the guy you like at work. No big deal to me, but, she isn't wrong.

 

Actually I'm not hung up on any guy right now. But, that's okay. Like I said, I'm finished.

 

Wow, did I just stumble into an online fracas?

 

Damn you looking real good

 

More of an “intervention”, m8t.

 

I am a shy and introverted girl and do not like to talk about relationships (and sex even less) irl with friends of family.
I have had a couple of boyfriends when I was younger but they were mostly "convenience" relationships and it never went further than kissing.

I had my first experience on vacation when I was 20 along with the inner discovery of my preferences in term of men.
This was a lot to take in for me (no pun intended) and as usual, didn't talk about it to anyone and kept it a secret.

Time went by and it became even more difficult for me to talk about it to anyone.
Also, the interracial aspect make me even more worry about other people's opinion

So for now, I would say that I haven't openly admitted my preferences

 

Well hopefully getting to know the people here at the site will help you gradually become more comfortable with your preferences.

 

Let's hope so, anyway the truth will have to come out pretty soon ^^
Also there are very interesting subjects on here

 

It`s no one`s business whom you like/prefer so don`t be in a rush to reveal your personal life.

 

lol , and you better not either .keep that sh*t to yo self , real talk.

 

Conversely, when a WW dates out, she's like fuck the white man, black men only lmao[/QUOTE]

You got that right!

 

well, sure I do no mean to say it like "hey I like black guys" lol that would be ridiculous.
But I think this is a good thing to be honest with what you truly like and not to care about if other people like it or not

 

The more they shame or question it, the more my preference strengthens.

People don't realize by making attractions seem taboo it only reinforces curiosity.
And since BM/WW gets the most push-back, the pairing will continue to skyrocket.