Addicted to White Women?

Discussion in 'The Attraction Between White Women and Black Men' started by Combichrist87, Feb 8, 2011.

  1. DudeNY12

    DudeNY12 Well-Known Member

    Yeah, I feel ya. My position now is... no one gets to decide whom I can be friends with and date. Funny thing is I can remember catching it from BW about other BW (one was very light-skinned and the other had very long hair) and Latino women I was dating. Sorry that you're having to experience this ridiculous behavior.
     
  2. orejon4

    orejon4 Well-Known Member

    I don’t get the dirty looks anymore (that I know of) because I must give off a vibe that makes me unattractive to the average bw. One thing I have noticed myself doing, however, is that I make a conscious effort to be pleasant to them as well, such as being sure to hold doors open, smile and greet them. My decision to date someone is not meant to be taken as scorning them, and I guess that is a common misconception. My gf also has several bw friends, which helps.
     
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  3. jmoney42

    jmoney42 Active Member

    I even get those looks :mad::confused:o_O if I’m just casually/visually flirting with a WW even if it’s just in passing or a general conversation. Sad honestly.
     
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  4. jmoney42

    jmoney42 Active Member

    Same no reason to not be courteous. Sometimes though it does lead to some :eek::oops::confused: if the same one happens to encounter me hanging with, talking to or even worse flirting with a WW. In some cases after they remain cordial, other times I get hit with a :mad: or :( every time paths cross.
     
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  5. denisemilanifan

    denisemilanifan Active Member

    Always be courteous, I don't really have anything against bw I just don't find them sexually attractive on a large scale, I still treat them with respect.
     
  6. orejon4

    orejon4 Well-Known Member

    Definitely don’t have anything against anyone because of who I choose to date. I think I just go overboard as some form of overcompensating due to an assumption about what I think people are assuming about me because of my relationship choices.
     
  7. jmoney42

    jmoney42 Active Member

    I used to do the same but I realized if they want to make false assumptions about me they will regardless of how much I go out of my way to overcompensate they will. I treat them with respect like I do others until it’s warranted I don’t but after that I’m at peace with whatever they think.
     

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