Actor Shamar Moore and his new Lady

lippy co-signed that she does think they are dating nor do i think they will start dating...if you remember right i also pointed out the double standard...you guys were cheering on kyle who is clearly over weight...let me say that i have dated big men and i like the teddybears...but in the interest of fairness i thought perhaps we should all be concerned about kyles health and the growing obesity epidemic the same way it is expressed when speaking of women...that's all...have a nice evening:smt061

 

Oh, so you were just concerned about his health? That's why you laughed at me calling him rerun and Krispy Kreme? That shit is weak. Own up to your hypocrisy like a real broad or STFU.

 

ever heard of sarcasim...a bit slow are we...how about irony...too big of words for you? the double standard can go both ways...fat ww women are burned at the stake....fat bm with big bank accounts are cheered on...ww with an attractive bm is never good enough...all bm are good enough just because they are bm....especially if they have money...i'm sorry but there is a serious disconnect on the logic here

 

That's not true. There are couples on this forum who don't fit the ideal archetype but they're definitely cheered fat ww fat bm whatever. The reason I(I'm not gonna speak for all men on the forum) can cheer on a fat dude(even though that kid from that's so raven is just chunky in my mind) is because money and status make almost any woman available to a man. Maybe some of you don't feel that way personally but it's hard to deny just look around. If you're referring to the Kirstie Alley thing the reason that stuck out to me was because men are incredibly visual creatures. No matter how and cool a woman is will always be trumped by how she looks in the beginning. If that were the case Roseanne would have dudes lined up around the corner. 20something guys will rarely if ever go after a 60something woman regardless of talent and personality because when she takes off her clothes she's still 60 and from a young guys perspective I can't see someone claiming her as their girl. Just my 2cents

 

perhaps someone else would like to take a stab at this with you but at the risk of not wanting to be redundant...we will have to agree to disagree...

lippy did have to laugh when you mentioned that kyle is chunky...is that the man word for fat? women get the smack down here for using the word thick:smt042

 

No the difference is you guys consider every overweight woman thick.









See how Kyle doesn't have a huge gut nor is he spilling out of his clothes. He just has a really chubby face. Hence me calling him chubby not fat.

 

is that pre dancing with the stars or post? if you look at kirstie pre vs.post...big difference...in fact huge difference...same with the osborne girl...

 

Not my fault if your e warrior sisters post unflattering pics of old girl. I can't deny there's an improvement but I don't see her as the sex pot some of you try to make her to be. But that's just my taste.

 

There are rules for dressing slim. Wear dark colors and a jacket or vest to hide your mid section. Monotone helps too.

I have no dog in this fight but in that pic Kyle is "dressed slim". In fairness you should find a pic in casual clothes where he can't hide it.

 

Fair enough but he's what I'd still call chubby not fat the way others are trying to potray him as.

 

it would appear that this has been resolved with the additional pics of kyle...lippy doesn't think anyone expects you to view kirstie as a sex pot...just in the same respect i would never consider kyle to be a hunk o burning love

new ww/bm terms

man belly fat - chunky

 

You're so full of it, Andre. There isn't one woman on here that says EVERY fat woman is thick. Not one.

 

So as far as we're concerned Kyle is our baseline for fat? Just want to know for future refernece.

 

Those aren't words I use.

If I was fixing him up with a girlfriend say, and she said what does he look like? I would say big guy. That is more ambiguous that chubby or fat, I guess. That is just what term I would use. Meaning not buff or skinny to me. :smt102

 

Stacey is my favorite and one of the better dancers. She doesn't nearly get the respect she deserved. They barely give her shine in the press. Unbelievably, bloggers say she's fat.

They did the same to Cheryl Burke.



It got so bad Cheryl had to publicly respond for people to give her time, that she would lose the weight as time progressed. Unreal. :smt104

This is why I told you the nasty side of America doesn't acknowledge thick/chubby/plump...you're either fat or you're not.

 

bottomline, lippy has dated men as big or bigger than kyle so i don't really care...we don't talk about big men around here...it is not a factor...i don't think that bristol will date kyle based on who she is more than what color he is...the only reason the subject of kyle being a little chunky came up was to prove that there is a double standard...i'm sure he is a sweet kid and i enjoyed watching him on dwts:smt061

 

This I can agree with it. It's crazy that anyone would call that woman fat. And I totally agree with you that America views everything in extremes. Either you're tall or short, pretty or ugly, rich or poor there are no in betweens. Everything is judged by the top 1 percent or bottom 1 percent.

 

Nice deflection lol

 

thanks:smt051

 

Flattering photo, except for the arms... I'd say Kristie and Kyle are pretty even in terms of how good their bodies are. Granted, I don't know how many layers of spanx it took to make this photo possible.