A truly exclusive site to meet white women who want to date black men?

Sometimes I think people should think less and do more...

As long as you think about, can I, may I or what does she think or what will she answer me, you construct your own barriers, your own jail. And I mean it for both genders. It makes everything so stiff, already at the beginning.

You have to train it, just to do it.

I never had that problem, you smile at me? I like your charisma? I sit next to you and ask you, if we drink a cup of coffee together. Don´t be complicated. Souly!! That´s soooo easy..:lol:

 

Thanks!

 

Thank you!

 

Thank you!

 

Then God bless you because I definitely don't see that often enough.

 

I TOTALLY agree with you.

This is why I try to distance myself from internet romance, I like the more personal contact. However, women like you make it hard though. There is no doubt in my mind if the distance wasn't an issue you'd be someone I'd want to get to know. Your posts seem real, you don't try to fake anything, you tell it like it is the way you see it. I like that in a grown woman, straight honesty.

 

Sites to meet white women interested in dating black men

Actually, I gave up on the Interracial Singles site because it seemed the men on there weren't looking for a serious relationship and more than one turned out to be married.

 

Well I'd agree only I thought it was the women! I paid to at least chat with women interested in... One, men of my color. Two, serious about a long term relationship. I read a lot of profiles... but they were mostly interested in white guys/native americans or latino's! So I gave up on sites labeled interracial singles.
The biggest drawback, is that there are 'no' sites which allow a search for a womans, desired ethnicity in a male! Or vise versa.
:smt019

 

I gotta wonder is it really that tough? Is meeting a suitable mate such a herculian effort? I really don't think so but I do think in terns of interracial dating we just have to be a bit more bold and really work on ourselves first to stand out to people we really want. I personally think online dating is fastly becoming like shopping to people. No more than finding shoes online and hoping they fit just because they meet your asthetic needs. I think we should go back to trying them on first to see they fit before taking them out of the store.

 

have you been successful at meeting someone online ?

 

I see the parallel you've offered, and perhaps at some point shopping for people will get as easy as shopping for shoes has become. Just stick to what you know works. With shoes, if you stick with names you know, the fit is generally the same, therefore you can shop online for shoes and not have to worry about the fit. I love shoes, however I don't like trying them on in a store, and I honestly don't know why, but it's just something I don't do. But that's one of the benefits to online shoe shopping is that places like Zappos and Victoria Secrets allow you to return and/or exchange shoes at no charge with no restocking fee. With people, I'm the exact opposite, the online dating sites don't really interest me as I would prefer to 'try them on' in person.

 

I love how you get me and you totally followed my metaphor.

 

Glad to be of service Andrae.

 

I see Internet as one possibilty of many. But I am not on the search, maybe that makes it different- I have no expectations. I just love it to get to know different people and maybe the friends of them ( if I really see a reason in meeting this person in person).

Online dating sites are not interesting for me, too. But for sure I can understand. if someone uses it - and hopefully it works for one or another.

 

I met 2 guys that I really liked from an online dating site. One is kind of going by the wayside because of distance and he's so busy (which sucks because I liked him), but I'm dating the other guy and really like him.

Both were the same online as offline. I guess I got lucky.

Though there were some psychos on there. Luckily, they showed their psycho colors very early. :smt081

 

Although I've chatted with some cool guys from some dating sites and still do till this day, the ones I actually met in person turned out to be weird.

My best meetings/dating/relationships - were guys I met on Black Planet. I haven't met someone off of there in like 3 yrs.