A Technique for the Hate Stare

I can't say I've ever experienced that.

That's why I pay them no mind.


As for a stare, I could care less about it.

 

a promise you must keep...i admire you for seeing the importance of nurturing your existing relationship...it all comes down to compromise...she is a lucky woman...i wish you the best!
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tyrone...lippy has missed you...she would love to plant those big juicy lips on some kimboslice:smt057 it has been so long since that snowstorm helped us get more acquainted in chicago

 

I say ignore it but if you don't want to do that here is a visual

If this happens


Do this....

 

I can definitly agree with ignoring- it doesn´t change anything..provoking is maybe funny, but I also don´t see a big change.

As long as some one stares at me, I need not to feel attacked. I know that I am alone with my opinion, but nothing confuses somebody more than if you are gentle and kind, if he was rude. It shows him or her, who is the better person, the better educated one.

If some one attacks physically, of course, there is no question about reaction.

But we made here in my country the experience that integration, an open hand, acceptance and tolerance makes it possible to live door to door.And a peaceful, well educated way and manners are very helpful. Don´t play in the haters´hand, when they maintain that we (IR) are aggressive and uneducated.

 

shorty in the background is lookin screw-faced like hell

the old geezer in the cut is lookin like 'cant believe this fine girl is with this n****r, fuckin shame'

I agree with many of the other posters tho....just keep doin you, and move it out...forget everybody else

 

I have the same philosophy and MO as you do when it comes to this.

 

Thanks for your support, Georgous!

 

Hmmm. I've been married to a WW for 20+ years, lived all over the US and many other countries. I have not had this negative set of experiences you describe CC. We have kids too and there is no problem.

We have had the glare occasionally from BW, but it has been a benign source of humor. It is a non-issue as far as I'm concerned.

 

+1, going on 19 years and two kids. Of course me being 6'5" and 230 pounds may have something to do with it.

 

well yeah, in the age of information (knowledge is literally obtained through the push of a button i.e. jiu-jitsu application), uneducated fighters and wannabe hardmen, still give more thought to physical size and build than they should. One of the benefits of being big. Except, of course, your potential opponent is bigger than you.

 

Hey now. My husband's no weakling little guy. He's plenty big and strong.

Since most of the people who have started stuff with us were Women, that didn't matter, because it's not like he's going to hit them.

I'm pretty tall, but I don't look tough.

I think the thing with us is that he is dark skinned and I'm blonde, and we stand out where ever we go. We attract attention. Including the negative kind.

 

I'm sorry you had/have to go through that Chi.

You have to put on that "don't fuck with me" attitude. People act like dogs and can smell fear. You work that confidence and show them you got this!

 

Thank you Sir Nose for your experience- I already had the impression America is full of hateful racism...

 

There are haters, but haters are usually also cowards, so I have no doubt that a lot of stuff has been said behind our backs. Not a concern of mine though, it is not against the law to hate privately.

 

6'5" and 230 pounds has everything to do with it.

Nobody wants to get bounced off the pavement.

 

You're the size of an NFL Tight End

 

LOL, I played B-ball in college, got limited looks from a couple of NBA teams, did not last long in camp, but its a good story to tell my kids. Back in my playing days I was 245 with 6% body fat. Of course that was a loooong time ago, I still keep in shape but i'm willing to bet I am a lot more 6% now.

 

yeah even tho you weren't running ball for seasons in the league, you still have a nice learning experience that not everyone can say they have. Stuff like that builds character. As for the body metamorphosis, 'Sir' Charles Barkley comes to mind.

lol

guy used to show up for camps overweight as hell

 

I'd love some jealous, bitter wench to talk smack to me.