College football player was talking to a local black radio station in pittsburgh and they had got into the dating questions and about athletes about interracial dating and he had said this: (I don't remember word for word but this is what he was talking about.) He said he don't date ww because alot of whitegirls will only date brothas out of curiousity and just to expirement with, because they won't be with a black guy all like that like they will be with a whiteguy...... Turned out he was a victim of what he just said. He went to a mostly all white school and the first whitegirl he dated in the school dumped him for a wm but he didn't really see it as a biggy he moved on then the second one did the same thing and then in his senior year it happened again but only this time he said he dated a big mouth girl who he overheard her talking on the phone when he was at her house one day while they were still together that she is only expirementing with BM to see what its like and mentioned something about wanting to be with a guy who was in the college she was going to. So the last time he was the one who got to dump her. I heard about these kind of whitegirls (I call them buji) Have anyone on here has ever gotten the expiremental treatment by a whitegirl? And vice versa for the ladies I know there are brothas that use whitegirls too. Me myself I have never been a victim of it before. I think that is what the post about white women not taking black men serious was about. Those kind of ww. (Like I said I call them buji. Look in the buji ho post if you don't remember what it meant.)
To be honest, it has not really happened to me. Why? Because i never took any previous "relationships" (if you wanna call it that) seriously. I just never did. I have heard of a number of people, especially black men, who have fallen victim to the whole "experimentation" trap and that's their luck really. No matter how smart a person can be, when they're trying to experiment, i've just got a sixth sense that alerts me. But hey, that's me. Its obvious the college player is not a very good observer. If he really were, he will not fall for the same thing 3 goddamn times.
:idea: You have to remember that it seems that in this case you're dealing with young and/or college aged white women so that doesn't surprise me any in that everybody's experimenting to a certain extent just to say they had a certain "experience". :wink: I wouldn't worry about that too much because females as a whole tire of that GAME quicker than males do and then they want something DEEPER :!: Also the thing is, if you've opened yourself up to the possiblity of being in an IR relationship, even a sexual one, then that increases the chances that you just might do it again. :wink:
I totally agree Chris. Something is wrong here. His spidey senses should have gone off and told him that maybe it has something to do with the kinds of white girls he's choosing to go out with if the same thing happened to him 3 times in a row. Maybe he's gone out with one too many of the teams cheerleaders...haha :lol:
I've been hinted before by some white women about it, only resulting in me shooting THEM DOWN instead. I too, am not so easy to fool, but you probably already knew that. :wink: 8) Ditto on that. Too bad though.
Thats why I believe we should all right books cause we know things about IR relationships alot of people who get into them don't. Alot of things on this website should be recommended to people(bm&ww) who date each other.
Thats why I put that in my post as well. Not too many white women want to respond to it or it just hasn't happened to them.
This happened to me only once. Sadly it was the only time I ever fell in love. Me and Kristen (yea I know you are all tired of hearing about her) were together for 3 years. She was from Atlanta and had the sweetest (and sexiest) Southern little accent. Everyone told her she looked just like Kirsten Dunst. Anyways, after 3 years of talking about how much she loved me soooo much...at the end...after 3 years of lies...she breaks up with me and says "I guess I never really loved u as much as u loved me, i just wanted to see what it was like to be with a black guy and you were the sweetest guy I've ever been with and the only one to treat me right and blah blah blah". yet she leaves me for white asholes who treat her liek crap and she complains to me about how there are no good guys out there. Umm there ARE...you had one and left him because you were scared your parents would disown you since he (me) was black. It just sucks and since then I have been very watchful of girls like this.
I truly mean no harm when I say this, but I laughed out loud at this post. Not at you, but at the actual story. :lol:
Yea SardonicGenie, i did too. :lol: But the thing i like about Pey is that he pulls no punches and is always straight up honest about his ideas, no matter how controversial they might be.
I agree. Although he says things that are far out from time to time, I actually like and respect him. I just don't always agree with him.
