A night out - some observations

Soulthinker said:
Like I said Ronja you never bring out the stats pertaining to your country or even your region.

and you won't be getting them...

as for amy winehouse..

i feel sorry for a brotha who gets stuck with her nutty a$$

:)
 
Soulthinker said:
Like I said Ronja you never bring out the stats pertaining to your country or even your region.
I did. You've got the whole world in that link.

Anyway, do you speak any Scandinavian language? If not, It'll be rather impossible to find anything specific you even understand. English isn't exactly the official language here, so any official documents, newspaper articles etc, will be in our own languages. Since you claim to have been here, I simply assumed you knew that already.

However, if you do speak Swedish, Danish or Norwegian I'll happily find you some info. Hell, I'll even do it if you speak Finnish, or Sami!!!

Anyway, if that link I send to you was hard for you to read: you're the 9th fattest country in the world. We're number 90, 91, and 108...
 
Ronja there is just two words-translate them. I don't want to translate the entire thing just the ones the said of Black men who date White women in your country. Where does it rank? Some bros date a woman like Victoria Silvstedt and some date common women.
 
Soulthinker said:
Ronja there is just two words-translate them. I don't want to translate the entire thing just the ones the said of Black men who date White women in your country. Where does it rank? Some bros date a woman like Victoria Silvstedt and some date common women.

You want me to find stats over how many bm date pretty women vs ugly women in Scandinavia? :shock:

Sorry, we would never make statistics over such a thing. I doubt they would in US either... who's to decide who's pretty or not. Dear lord...
:shock:
 
rosa said:
Well,
I'm not gonna pass any judgements or judgements of judgements now, but what I've observed here in east london is not what has been described. When I chance upon a BM/WW couple, the girl is 90% of the time very pretty and modestly fashionable with long blond hair... and I've also observed that the guy is usually not dressed in streetwear but in a sharp/trendy Vogue mag sense. Or he is a dreadlocked rastafarian-style geezer.

Same goes for WM/BW couples in fact, in terms of dress sense.

I haven't seen many black guys with a street/hiphop style having a white chick in their arm except in clubs where it looks like it's gonna be an one-night thing. That's when I've seen white girls that are a bit more average-looking.

But basically I've never seen anyone with a female that doesn't have something going for her. I don't know what you people are talking about. And in the end it's a matter of taste. Some like their women to be big!

Thats because there arent alot of fat chicks over there.The U.S has one of the highest obesity rates in the world.
 
Soulthinker said:
Rosa,do some of those Black men date women who look like Amy Winehouse-before the punk look?

I don't really read the celebrity mags to know everyone she's been with, but no, I haven't seen any black guys with girls like her.

But cmon, although I don't listen to her stuff, you gotta admit that Winehouse has a cool voice at least.
 
rosa said:
Soulthinker said:
Rosa,do some of those Black men date women who look like Amy Winehouse-before the punk look?

I don't really read the celebrity mags to know everyone she's been with, but no, I haven't seen any black guys with girls like her.

But cmon, although I don't listen to her stuff, you gotta admit that Winehouse has a cool voice at least.

Scarlett Johanssen (spelling?), yes..

Natalie Rataliano (again, too lazy to look up spelling), yes...

Amy Winehouse......maybe after 1 bottle of vodka straight....5 pounds of cannibus, and a hit on the head with a 20 lb hammer...

:?

She's just a bit tooooo wild for me..

some dudes here would like that in a woman tho

:drinkers:
 
malikom said:
I answered all questions.

No, you haven't.

Ronja said:
You asked for a serious debate on this, and wanted explanations. Ours are obviously not good enough, so why don't you try to give us your opinion to this "problem"?
:roll:
I ask again:
why don't you try to give us your opinion to this "problem"?
And I'm talking reasons... not just "bm need to aim higher" *cry cry cry*
I do not believe you are correct at all. But assuming you are, what's the reason for bangin' chicks not wanting you. Well, you personally I can understand. You would probably have a problem getting BOTB-women as well...

Ronja said:
Anyway, as you have pointed out on several occasions, WW are attracted to ugly guys. You know, the ones black women, Asian women, and Latino women don't want. So I don't even understand your problem any more. Your complaint is that BM who are so ugly that they can't find any other women, start dating ugly white women?
Well, I shouldn't have to explain that question, should I?

Malikom, you're such a crybaby. Seriously. You wanted a discussion. You specifically asked for it, but only whine. Me and Karma are the only ones who have even tried giving you reasons. Even you haven't tried finding any. WTF? When you ask for a discussion, it's normal to partition in it. We can all start posting pictures if that's what you want. It won't lead us anywhere though.

When Karma answered, your only reply was "speak for yourself", like you are not speaking for yourself. There's perhaps 3 people who somewhat agrees with you, so I don't know who you are speaking on behalf of if it isn't you. It's certainly not the majority of people!
 
why don't you try to give us your opinion to this "problem"?
And I'm talking reasons... not just "bm need to aim higher" *cry cry cry*
I do not believe you are correct at all. But assuming you are, what's the reason for bangin' chicks not wanting you. Well, you personally I can understand. You would probably have a problem getting BOTB-women as well...

Just simply going for better quality white women.Is that so hard to conclude?
mwaaaa would have a problem getting bottem of the barrel women? :lol:
I DONT WANT bottom of the barrel white women,so i see no problem there.Yuck.What right minded brother would lay with an obese or overweight white women?Oh thats right,NO right minded brother.All the insecure ugly bafoons would step over a hot black girl,for a balooga whale white woman.They take what they can get.Look @ the white dudes,they dont look twice @ ugly black chicks.They go for the good looking beyonce,rihanna,gabrielle union,halle berry types.An insecure brother would settle for a rosanne instead of going furthur for a scarlett johanson.

sad sad sad

Malikom, you're such a crybaby.

You're the one who keeps going ooonnn and ooon trying to argue with me.There is nothing to argue about anymore.What was said,was said.Get over it.

Even you haven't tried finding any. WTF? When you ask for a discussion, it's normal to partition in it. We can all start posting pictures if that's what you want. It won't lead us anywhere though.

Reasons for what?Why brothers date bottem of the barrel white girls?I already went over this.Alot of these dudes think that theyve accomplished an amazing fete.Just look at their faces and watch how they smile walking with their BOTB fat,ugly,white trash, looking chick.

When Karma answered, your only reply was "speak for yourself", like you are not speaking for yourself. There's perhaps 3 people who somewhat agrees with you, so I don't know who you are speaking on behalf of if it isn't you. It's certainly not the majority of people!

Heres how i see it.Any brother with his head out of the gutter ( :lol: ) will agree with me.Ive been to other boards and they have agreed with me on how black dudes need to step up their standards in white women,and women in general.The only ones who want to bump heads and argue,you guessed it,are dating or married to fat,ugly white women!

lmao!!!!
 
Ok, so getting back to my original question, I've picked out a few useful answers:

I'm not gonna pass any judgements or judgements of judgements now, but what I've observed here in east london is not what has been described. When I chance upon a BM/WW couple, the girl is 90% of the time very pretty and modestly fashionable with long blond hair... and I've also observed that the guy is usually not dressed in streetwear but in a sharp/trendy Vogue mag sense. Or he is a dreadlocked rastafarian-style geezer.

Nope, I have never noticed that it's like that here. But I think some of the things you experience can be explained by
1. age
2. they're exchange students...

1. A lot of young people (as you said, these people are age 19-23), have many and short relationships. There's nothing unusual about that. There wouldn't be here anyway. (When I was 23, I was still with my old high school BF, and was considered a freak because of it. Everyone were constantly telling me to go out and "live life".)

2. Many of these young Zim men will probably be going home afterwards. (Well, unless they get a job abroad.) Which means that for now they can more or less do as they please. Several of them are probably just fucking whatever they can, just for the experience and fun of it. (Just like a huge number of horny young wm do.) If these women are as "promiscuous" as you say, the Zim men are likely to have no respect for them what so ever. The huge majority of them will probably eventually end up with decent, Zim women their families will approve of.

If I'm going to stereotype and draw hasty conclusions with no scientific or statistic backup though, I'd have to say that the majority of women in serious relationships are educated, well-travelled, and somewhat politically active. Those who just hang around/sleep with these men however, all seem to be a bit slow

So you've got this huge bunch of unemployed, uneducated, poor, criminal men... Who's doing much worse in your society than any other group is. Including your own women. What do you think an average member of a group like that has to offer?

This one isn't quite so relevant.
So you've got this huge bunch of unemployed, uneducated, poor, criminal men... Who's doing much worse in your society than any other group is. Including your own women. What do you think an average member of a group like that has to offer?

For example, this past weekend I happily saw over 10 interracial couples - and every one of them BM/WW. Nary an overweight woman in sight, though why weight automatically equals trash to some of you is beyond me. Every single couple looked quite well turned-out, especially one who was dressed to the nines
Is this just in my city? I hardly think so. Everyone in their town can draw inferences about what they see

But basically I've never seen anyone with a female that doesn't have something going for her. I don't know what you people are talking about. And in the end it's a matter of taste. Some like their women to be big!

So, to summarise...
my learning from this are:
* The group of guys themselves are fairly homogenous
* It's (apparently) not a regular occurrence - only just here
(my comments on this are that we don't really have a "black" population and that all the "black" people here are either international students or refugees)
* They're from a demographic (perhaps) that is attracting these types
* Mix in the invariable human curiosity when crossing the colour barrier
* They're away from home for the first time, in a fairly relaxed environment
* They're all fairly young.

Things I still can't answer.
* There's not a single person, in a group of 100's, which is different enough to attract a differen type of chick.
* The one's here are at uni and are fairly wealthy, and have mostly come from private schools - why is the demographic they're picking up so "low". Guys I know from here in that category would never date or hang out with these chicks.
* Whether there is some other cultural thing going on here.

Ok - keep debating about fat chicks now! ......
 
Malikom,here is a woman who demands answers to questions you have already reponded. Like I mentioned time and time again she never resonds to things pertaining to IR in her country. Is she too lazy to find the stats of brothers in her country who date women who are the bottom of the beauty chain?
 
Soulthinker said:
Malikom,here is a woman who demands answers to questions you have already reponded. Like I mentioned time and time again she never resonds to things pertaining to IR in her country. Is she too lazy to find the stats of brothers in her country who date women who are the bottom of the beauty chain?

this is from a man that can't get a date anywhere in the us or europe...leave ronja alone or i will have to ninja kick your butt to another continent :axe:
 
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