A List of Questions for White Women

Do your boys have any difficulties of any kind because of their being mixed?

 

They're still very young at 7, 4 and 2 but they haven't had any problems yet. We have decided to pull our oldest out of public school to home school for several reasons but one is that there isn't enough diversity. The school is about 90% white and we live in the Heart of Dixie. :roll:

 

Welcome to the site Allilyn11. Hope to hear more of you.

 

1)Do you find it odd that there are more black men on this site than white women considering the fact that there are far more white women than black men in the world?
I had no idea there were more MB than WW. Is that a statistic or an observation? I'm pretty sure none of us have that sort of information being a participant rather than an administrator or founder. And again, in the world? Statistic or personal opinion/observation?

2)Do more black men approach you than white men? If so, do you personally think that your physical appearance has something to do with it?
No, it seems about equal if not more leaning towards WM. My personal appearance? IDK. I am normal, pretty. I don't have a large but or big breasts or wide hips... I have a model/dancer body.

3) What are your favorite or most prominent physical traits? If you answered blue eyes, blonde hair, brunette hair, red hair, straight hair, or light complexion, would you marry and have babies with a black man knowing that your child will most likely not possess any of these physical traits that you admire?
In myself or someone else? In myself I'd say it would be my hair. I like my face but I don't have anything in particular I like other than it's petite and cute. I was really apprehensive about what kind of hair my child would have but she actually came out with the most gorgeous hair on a mixed baby that I've ever seen. It's soft, shiny, it isn't coarse at all, it's a dark brown and is pretty straight with a bit of a wave and can get a nice loose curl if you get it wet and scrunch it up some. That was my big fear. I also feared her coming out REALLY dark! I'm stark white. She came out gorgeous! Perfect! She looks like an island baby! Everyone lover her color and appearance. Her face is actually just like mine with a hint of her dad.

4)Have you ever thought that black men might have an ulterior motive for desiring you?
Ulterior motive? That's silly! LOL! ALL men do! It's called SEX!

5)Are there any black men who truly annoy you, black men who you would never think of dating?
Sure, I guess. But all races of men have obnoxious or unattractive men within.

6)Have you ever had doubts about dating black men, if so, when?
Yes. I guess. The usual that ppl talk about, whether they are "right or wrong", like: disrespect, using you for your credit card and car, cheating, being so racially sensitive and bringing up the "struggle" of a black man... But almost all of those can happen with any race.

7)Do you really find our nappy, knotted annoying and inextricably twisted hair attractive or do you just ignore it?
I personally am a little turned off by it once I actually go up close and personal. The BM I am with is the only BM I have ever been with and it may be just him but it seemed greasy and he never really made it look really good and really nice, until lately. His head never smelled fresh or fragrant- it smelled like grease and scalp. It's hard to describe. I was used to soft hair that I could run my fingers through.

Are there any white men you find attractive? (celebrities, businessmen..)If so, and if these men were interested in dating/marrying and settling down with you would you stop dating blacks?
Um, yeah! Lots of them! And yes, I'd marry or date them! If I settled down with someone I would not only stop dating BM's but I would stop dating ANYONE! But if we were to break it off then I wouldn't run to a BM, I would go out and see what happens.

9) What are your academic qualifications? (ex. Master in Psychology... Doctor of Philosophy in Chemistry)
I graduated high school and have technical training for a specific job because I spent time in the military and some of that also counts as college credit. I would like to pursue a degree in some form of Art.

I do sympathize with you and your struggle. We all have struggle and I say that to not minimize your feelings but to let you know that you aren't alone. Especially being a TEEN! Fitting in is SOOOOoooo important when you're that age and it's that period of time that you begin to explore things so one day you can really find out who you are. I didn't start to "know myself" until I was getting in to my 20's and even then I don't feel like I really fit anywhere, in just one spot. I'm a floater! Maybe you can be too! There's something so cool and diverse about ppl like you! One day you'll find that ppl really love that about you!

 

1)Do you find it odd that there are more black men on this site than white women considering the fact that there are far more white women than black men in the world?

I never really noticed, I don't really find it particularly odd, perhaps there are other non-members that view the site that are female.

2)Do more black men approach you than white men? If so, do you personally think that your physical appearance has something to do with it?

No, not really. I get approached by white men mostly, I think it has a lot to do with anytime I am out it's mostly in my hometown, rather than my nearest large city, if that makes sense. Because in my hometown there aren't as many black males here. When I'm out in a big city I do get approached by black men though. I don't know, my appearance is very average so I'm not sure why I attract who I do.

3) What are your favorite or most prominent physical traits? If you answered blue eyes, blonde hair, brunette hair, red hair, straight hair or light complexion, would you marry and have babies with a black man knowing that your child will most likely not possess any of these physical traits that you admire?
Without sounding negative I don't particularly admire any traits I have although I do have brown eyes and brown hair which I like as opposed to blonde hair. I wouldn't really mind which traits my child had, at the end of the day the kid is mine, despite hair colour, eye colour, facial features.

4)Have you ever thought that black men might have an ulterior motive for desiring you?

No, not black men in particular but more men in general. I'm wary of that hense why I haven't been in a lot of relationships.

5)Are there any black men who truly annoy you, black men who you would never think of dating?

My current boyfriend annoys me when he watches me put my make up on or rakes through my apartment. Or when he's being a little bitch in a bad mood.
I'm sure there's plenty of black males I'd never date - you cannot date someone solely on a persons looks, my last boyfriend was perfect in looks but we lacked chemistry and couldn't really speak about... well anything. So even though there was a physical attraction there there was nothing else.

6)Have you ever had doubts about dating black men, if so, when?

As much doubts as I've had about dating asian or white men.

7)Do you really find our nappy, knotted annoying and inextricably twisted hair attractive or do you just ignore it?

I like it, my boyfriend has a mini-fro thing going on and I like to comb it for him.
I find it attractive though, definitely.

Are there any white men you find attractive? (celebrities, businessmen..)If so, and if these men were interested in dating/marrying and settling down with you would you stop dating blacks?

Yep, lots. Although I'm more physically attracted to black males I've dated white guys and my son is white. His father is a dick, although there's no drama between us for my sons sake, he put me off men as opposed to white men so I don't hate white men as my son will be a white man one day. I've dated white people after I've dated black people. My first black boyfriend was at 15 and I couldn't stop thinking about him, he was perfect at the time. Ever since him I've always liked black men particularly. I've never had a strictly-black attraction to men but like I said, I am more attracted to black men.
In particular I think that Sean William Scott, Vincent D'onofrio (don't ask!), Wes Bentley and Jake Gyllenhaal are attractive.
If that person and I had good chemistry, attraction amongst other things then yeah, I could see myself settling down.

9) What are your academic qualifications? (ex. Master in Psychology... Doctor of Philosophy in Chemistry)
I'm currently studying Public Relations & Advertising at Aberdeen Collge for 2 years then I'm getting advanced entry to Media Studies or Corporate Communication at RGU 3rd year.

 

I'm not sure if there are more white women in the world...that's only the case in Europe, Australia and North America.

 

1)Do you find it odd that there are more black men on this site than white women considering the fact that there are far more white women than black men in the world?

did u check the numbers of the community?

2)Do more black men approach you than white men? If so, do you personally think that your physical appearance has something to do with it?

yes and no. I am appreciated by white ppl too.... under 10 or over 40 white ppl , lol. Old men always want to buy me when I work at the supermarket lol.
Black ppl approach me more because I think my attitude says "I like black men". And my body has a lot to do with black ppl approaching me. Like Disposableheroine said, not all black ppl have the same tastes, but black guys appreciate my booty, tights etc more than white men.

3) What are your favorite or most prominent physical traits? If you answered blue eyes, blonde hair, brunette hair, red hair, straight hair, or light complexion, would you marry and have babies with a black man knowing that your child will most likely not possess any of these physical traits that you admire?

I like my hair and my lips. for instance, if I love my child's dad, I would be pleased if my baby had my partner's traits! Having coffe and milk children is one of my dreams... even though u made me think about some difficulties I didn't consider. The only thing I wish my child could get from me r hair, but mostly because white ppl's hair r more easy too keep. What is more beautifull than seeing your love's traits in your baby?

4)Have you ever thought that black men might have an ulterior motive for desiring you?

What kind of other motive r u talking about? Talking about african immigrant, someone could think that they r looking for money. But i'm broke, so.. ^_^

5)Are there any black men who truly annoy you, black men who you would never think of dating?

Of course. Ppl think I like ALL black men. Wrong!!!! I have very difficult tastes! And, to answer the questions, there r a lot of BM i don't like, for eg. some unpolite gangstas u meet at the club sometimes. There's bad ppl in every kind of race (i hate using this word).

6)Have you ever had doubts about dating black men, if so, when?

yes, and i still have doubts. and that's because... BM r fucking selfish and mean! lol. Well that's just my experience obviously. ButI can't help it, I still like them.

7)Do you really find our nappy, knotted annoying and inextricably twisted hair attractive or do you just ignore it?

The only thing I like about white ppl more than black ppl is hair. For the rest..... black is better . Still I like to rub black guy's hair. They give u a good feeling.


8) Are there any white men you find attractive? (celebrities, businessmen..)If so, and if these men were interested in dating/marrying and settling down with you would you stop dating blacks?

There r hot white men of course (and asian and indian and south-american bla bla bla). I love Brad Pitt, George Clooney, Raoul Bova (alien VS predator) lol. But still, if T. I. asked me for a date.... . and anyways if i met a white man who i really get along with and there's love, why should i say no and wait for a black one?

9) What are your academic qualifications?
I have a bachelor degree in Social Work, 110/110, 220 pages of research thesis about "Social integration of Albanian people in Pordenone". enough? lol. What do u care? R u making a sociological research?

 

GOT-DAYYUUMM WOMAN.......Bring that phat ass on over here and marry me, I LOVE your responses.

 

oh hooooooo Disposable Heroine, u have a gladiator at your feet

 

this too shall pass...

Wow, im sorry for all that you've been through at such a young age. I have a 6 yr old son who hates that he is biracial. He asks me on a weekly basis why i made him black and i respond by telling him that black is beautiful. He attends a private school and is the only black child in his grade. I always thought that biracial children had the best of both worlds but I now am seeing that it is still a white world. Like Barack Obama, you seem to have hostility towards your black side. I think that as you age you like everyone of every race will feel like you finally found yourself and feel comfortable in your own skin.
-I don't find it odd that there are more black men than white women on this site because black men are blunt and open about what they want and that is why white women love black men so much.
-I have never been aproached by a white man in my entire life. From what I understand it;s not the physical features but the eye contact that bring us all together
-I have dirty blond hair and green eyes and my son may not have those features from me, he looks like a brown ME and I love it!
-Any man of any race can have an ulterior motive when desiring me.
-There are several black men that I would never think of dating. Just because i love black men, that doesnt mean that I don't have a type of black man that i look for.
-I have never had doubts about dating black men however, I have thought about how much easier my life would be if I chose to be with white men.
-BLACK is BEAUTIFUL and everything that comes with it. I love the hair of a black man!
-Mark Wahlberg aka Marky Mark could definitely get it! He is the only white man that I find attractive, and I would marry him if he asked... lol
-I am a registered nurse. I have a BSN and am currently working on my MSN.

Love, embrace who you are and everything else will fall in place. Don;t beat yourself up over things that you can't change, embrace them!

 

Adolescent, I am sorry to read about the troubles that you are experiencing. People can be just awful to each other, but as you have said that is a generalization and not universally true. Celebrate your uniqueness - I know that is challenging while you are learning to define yourself, but consider that the most amazing minds and spirits in our world completely broke the mold of preconceived notions.

Being a person of mixed heritage, I understand how challenging it can be to find an accurate label for oneself. I quickly realized that I don't want a label which would place me within strict boundaries of behaviour and being. Instead, I have surrounded myself with loving and compassionate people that support me spiritually and mentally and I follow my inner compass with little regard to what anyone else thinks.

1)Do you find it odd that there are more black men on this site than white women considering the fact that there are far more white women than black men in the world?
Actually I wasn't aware of that as I've just joined.

2)Do more black men approach you than white men? If so, do you personally think that your physical appearance has something to do with it?
I am not convinced that my appearance is strictly the only thing that attracts someone to me. For sure it's a part of the initial attraction, but there has to be a deeper connection once I start talking with someone.

3) What are your favorite or most prominent physical traits? If you answered blue eyes, blonde hair, brunette hair, red hair, straight hair, or light complexion, would you marry and have babies with a black man knowing that your child will most likely not possess any of these physical traits that you admire?
My favourite physical traits are having two legs, two arms, a beating heart, lungs that work perfectly, a brain that is flourishing and endless love in my spirit.

4)Have you ever thought that black men might have an ulterior motive for desiring you?
I don't know, do you think so? What might that motive be?

5)Are there any black men who truly annoy you, black men who you would never think of dating?
There are people of all shapes, colours, etc that can annoy me and that is usually because I recognize something in them that is within me that I do not enjoy.

6)Have you ever had doubts about dating black men, if so, when?
No

7)Do you really find our nappy, knotted annoying and inextricably twisted hair attractive or do you just ignore it?
I think it's great.

Are there any white men you find attractive? (celebrities, businessmen..)If so, and if these men were interested in dating/marrying and settling down with you would you stop dating blacks?
Yes anyone can be attractive to me if they are a great person. I wouldn't stop dating a certain skin colour because that is not what completely makes the person who they are inside.

9) What are your academic qualifications? (ex. Master in Psychology... Doctor of Philosophy in Chemistry)
I have a diploma from a two year college, I am in my last year of a 4 year undergrad degree with a major in Biology and minor in Native Studies and am starting medical school next year. Currently I have 6 years of post secondary education complete and by the end of my medical education I will add another 7 years to that.
But time spent in the academic tower does not define a person exclusively. I am only doing it because to be a physician, I need to learn quite a bit more than I knew in High School. :smt002

 

This post is a fraud

I hate that this is my first post on this site, but I am a longtime lurker who just had to weigh in and say that this guy strikes me as a total fraud.

All of the telltale signs are there.

The clear agenda to illustrate a common racist hypothesis that white women who like black men must be under-educated... otherwise, why ask women about their educational background?
The repeated insulting of black women (not as attractive as white) and black men (dull-witted, knappy headed, etc.) - PURE racist propoganda.

The attempt to draw out answers that clearly imply white women who like black men either are never interested in ANY white men (ideologues or fetishists) or would dump a black man if a white man (probably like him) ever graced them with a booty call.

The whole EMO...I hate myself routine is so disingenuous. And on the slight chance that he is genuine, (and by that I mean not playing a baiting game, even if he IS interracial), he is so freaking insulting that I just have to call his ass out.

Some of you are so sweet for giving this guy the benefit of the doubt - I mean it, real sweethearts - but I just couldn't do it.

I have interracial kids in my family, one of who is the president of his class, second string in the orchestra and a kick-ass tennis player. He OWNZ his school. The other is a cheerleader and also very popular. So I'm not trying to discount that some interracial kids have problems, but it's far from clear what those problems are and what causes them. If its the reception by their peers, that seems more of a reflection on where they are being raised than the fact of their heritage.

Nontheless, these issues are real and these kids are real and I don't like this fool disrespecting them in this way. (Intentionally or unintentionally)

What's funny is, all of your beliefs about interracial dating/mating are complete bull---- and you don't even have the courage to just come out and say what you think. What does that say about you?

The real answer to you, real or phony, is the same. Stand up and have the courage to be yourself. This world is not for whiners. All of us are different. All of us have to find our place. Plenty of people have it far worse than you..they have real, not imagined disabilities. Instead of worrying about what others do with their lives, have the courage to make your own life the best it can be. Because even if you are an interracial kid who is having these troubles, you're just learning a lesson you would have learned eventually, black, white or blue: People who only like you because of your physical appearance aren't interested in friendship, they are interested in exploitation.

And the kind reaction that you received by most posters here actually proves just how worthwhile they are...chump.

Victor

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Beauty, love and peace.

 

1.)Do you find it odd that there are more black men on this site than white women considering the fact that there are far more white women than black men in the world?

Never noticed. But now that you've pointed that out. Nope, I don't. Maybe it just has to do with computer access and not knowing this site exists. I found it by accident.

2.)Do more black men approach you than white men? If so, do you personally think that your physical appearance has something to do with it?

Yes, and I don't know why, if it has anything to do with my physical appearance or what. Couldn't tell ya, sorry.

3.) What are your favorite or most prominent physical traits? If you answered blue eyes, blonde hair, brunette hair, red hair, straight hair, or light complexion, would you marry and have babies with a black man knowing that your child will most likely not possess any of these physical traits that you admire?

I love the color of my eyes - they're like a bluish, greenish, grayish color. It wouldn't bother me if my child's weren't the same. None of my child's physical traits would bother me. My child would be my beautiful precious jewel to me no matter what he/she looked like.

4.)Have you ever thought that black men might have an ulterior motive for desiring you?

Yea, once or twice.

5.)Are there any black men who truly annoy you, black men who you would never think of dating?

Yes.

6.)Have you ever had doubts about dating black men, if so, when?

No.

7.)Do you really find our nappy, knotted annoying and inextricably twisted hair attractive or do you just ignore it?

I think it's attractive. If I'm with a man I love, I learn to find everything about his appearance so very attractive and mostly it just comes natural too (for me to do that). I cherish my man I love and every aspect of him.

8.)Are there any white men you find attractive? (celebrities, businessmen..)If so, and if these men were interested in dating/marrying and settling down with you would you stop dating blacks?

Yes. And if a man (even a white one) was interested in dating/marrying and settling down with me and I felt the same (and I could feel the same for a white man too) then I would stop dating other men altogether no matter the race of my soon to be Hubby. I don't date other people when I'm in a relationship.

9.) What are your academic qualifications? (ex. Master in Psychology... Doctor of Philosophy in Chemistry)

As of right now, I have a degree in Astrology/Parapsychology and still plan to further my education and academic qualifications in a many number of ways/subjects.


Why do you ask?

 

damn, shoot him down did u? lol

 

interesting thread. will sit and watch

 

Good post, man. I thought Adolescent09 was a genuine poster. After reading this, I've changed my mind. Again, good post. We need you here more often. Also, major kudos to the guy who thread dived through old threads to bump this one up.

 

A List of Questions...

I agree with VictorMitchell,


Adolescent09 is a fake and full of sh*t...

In posing his question on this thread, he describes himself as biracial but on another post (May 10th, 2011), he described himself as a black male...


"Howdy folks, I'm a black male who pretty much loves all races of women so I'm not sure if this question is pertinent to the members of this forum but I was simply curious...

I understand that many black men prefer to be with white women and that is perfectly cool but I was just thinking.... My sociology professor recently told me that there are more black women in college than black men (at my specific school there are almost twice as many bw as bm) and they tend to have much higher GPA's, are much more likely to finish their education, to be more independent, wealthy and educated, yet they find it very difficult to find/attract black men. I've run into a lot of black men who complain that there aren't enough successful/sophisticated black women around but if you look at virtually ANY college campus, university campus, or p.h.D program in the country you would realize that that is basically hog shit. They are literally crawling out of bookstores, libraries and campuses, so my two questions are as follows:

(1) Do black men sometimes try to cover up their aversion for women of their own race because they are embarrassed/shy to admit they prefer white women or other light-skinned women?

(2) Are black men willing to settle down with a gorgeous bw who is educated and well-off without having to deal with the societal hastle of coping with and IR relationship. Or are they more willing to settle down with a gorgeous ww who is educated and well-off, while having to deal with a litany of racial insults and abuse from white male counterparts?

I'm posting this because I'm interested in what people have to say, and because I need to come up with creative answers for my final exam :razz:"

The boy has issues and a hidden agenda....

 

fucked up OP, fantasizing about killing people?

 

I guess so. Check this thread out, by the way. Where do you think these pictures came from? I looked it over, it's hard to tell what intent they were created for, although I don't think it was for pornographic reasons.

http://www.whitewomenblackmen.com/forum/showthread.php?t=12158&page=6

 

FYI : The OP last posted here over a year ago. Safe to say he was more than likely run off or finally just left on his own after being called on bullshit one too many times. :smt102