A List of Questions for White Women

the topic wasn't pointless at all. don't feel guilty for posting what you were feeling...even if it was "spur of the moment". it's okay to be insecure....you're young, very young....it's amazing how much more secure we get as we grow older and we get more life experience. so don't beat yourself up. :wink:

and maybe i haven't had the same encounters or struggles as you, but i do understand frustration, hurt, confusion, anger, disappointment, disgust, etc. just hang in there....life is tough. some people are just stupid - there's no nice way of putting it. you just gotta ignore them. :wink:

by the way, don't you have to be 18 to get on this site? how did you sneak through the cracks?

 

Hello Adolescent,
I am so sorry you feel the way you do. I can in no way know what you are going through. But I will say 17 is a hard age. It was a difficult time in my life as well. I know you say you don't fit -( I am not trying to diminish your situation in any way-but a lot of people feel like they don't fit in with any group at your age. You are a very good looking young man and highly intelligent. I know you are frustrated-but just keep believing in yourself and you will find people to be friends with. I think it would be a good idea to find someone to confide in to talk about your pent up feelings-a lot of people have lots of hidden feelings-and yes you need to let them out. I am really sorry people have not been kind to you-but you believe in yourself and I think you can do great things, make new friends, and don't let past negative experiences ruin your life. good luck.

 

If this paragraph is true (this is the internet, after all), then you need more professional help than what you are going to get here.

 

yeah right honey......

What the OP meant to say is-----The more black/white relationships--the greater the chances white people have of being completely whiped out from the face of this earth.....

So the real question should be-------would you want every single white woman on earth to do what you do???...yes or no

 

easy there kid-------SEEK PROFESSIONAL HELP

Your problem isnt race my friend- Its your attitude. Stop being a loser and go enjoy your life like the average 17 year old kid. If you feel depressed, youre not alone---trust me. Depression is so common these days, youd have to be abnormal not to have it.

Stop being a loner, stop being a loser. Join a sports club, if youre a geek,join a chess club. or JOIN ANY CLUB WHERE YOUR APPEARANCE WONT MATTER.

or just tell your school counselor exactly what youve told us.....and find yourself stuck in a mental ward for the rest of your teenage years

later

 

My homies would dig you too, based on your pics. But then again---they tend to recognize "easy targets"-in an easy kinda way. Im not saying you look easy, i am however observing your look, and identifying it with the type of white ladies my boys consider "easy".......

What ive learned while dating white women is that getting laid is 80% guaranteed most of the time (its 60% with black women). However, getting laid by a certain type of woman is 100% guaranteed. And if you dont know this already-black men love to fuck. Of course, this is not a generalization, it is a fact. We will fuck, anywhere, any time and anyday. If you ever saw a hole in a tree,,,,chances are a black man has been in there.....lol....some will fuck for food, some will fuck for money, as long as theres fucking involved......in the kitchen, living room, we dont care about your looks, cuz we aint looking at you while we be tearin it from behind.....now are weh?

Even my boys have co-signed with this idealogy, if you want to get laid tonight.....dont bother with that hot blonde at the water cooler, holler at that talkative, loud, and some what obnoxious white lady who looks like she might whoop your ass.....how wild is she??....thats the question you'd ask yourself,,,,,HOW FUCKING wild is she??...can i hit that??..i know she'll let me...

hahaha-----somebody had to lighten things up around here

 

Yeah, and the more interracial relationships, period, the more chance there is that eventually there will be very few people born who -aren't- mixed race, regardless of the makeup of the couple.

Why should I care? Honestly? I'm more concerned with people than skin color. Being in the minority in a group is just as easy based on any aspect of your personality as it is your skin color. -Anything- can set you apart from the people around you, even if it's not visible from the outside. Does it bother me that my choices, and the choices of other white chicks can eventually lead to less white people in the world? That's just silly. Why should it bother me?

I don't look like my family, except in very subtle ways. I have the same eyes as my brothers, but that's about where the similarities end. I'm the palest person in my family, I'm the only redhead, and I'm definitely the only person who sees the world as I do. Does the fact that the rest of my family doesn't look like me bother me? No. The Irish heritage fought the Native American in my blood, and won, so it made me different. My mother doesn't love me any less because her hair and skin are much darker than mine, or because I have brown eyes instead of green like her, or even because I date black men instead of white.

I would never want "every single white girl" to do anything that I do, because I believe in choice above influence. If every white girl in the world woke up tomorrow and decided she wanted to date black men to, then so be it, as unlikely as it is to happen. I'm not going to sit here and pray to god that it does or doesn't happen, because that's ridiculous. Let people make their own choices. Maybe if the racial lines were a little less clear people would get along better. Or maybe it'd make things worse. We can only know if the time comes, and sitting around wondering is never going to produce concrete evidence until it happens.

I'mma do me, that's all I can do. I'll do what I feel is right for me until the day I die.

As I said in my previous post, after what you quoted: The only way you can almost promise certain physical traits in a child you create is by seeking out those traits in a partner. So if I really wanted to "preserve" and pass on my legacy of redheadedness I could easily find me a pure blooded Irish boy with redder hair than mine, with a family that all has red hair that dates back hundreds of years.

That just seems stupid to me, since I don't care. If I had a child with my boyfriend most like the kid would have the strong physical traits that run in his family...but at the same time the child could be a near carbon copy of me only with darker skin and hair.

My point is...why should that affect my decision to have children with him or not? I think it's more important to decide to have children with a good man who'll be a great father, not a man who fits a certain physical criteria of what I want my children to look like. That seems more like narcissism than "good, clear thinking" to me. I'd rather be good to a child I'm lucky to have, than create one based solely on wanting another me running around. The world can barely handle one of me in the first place.

I cannot, however, speak for anyone else, because the only person I know in this world as well as I possibly can is myself. Just because I'm white I cannot speak for all white people. Just because I'm a woman I cannot speak for all women. Just because I like the color pink doesn't mean I can speak for everyone who likes the color pink. And I feel that if I cannot speak on behalf of everyone, why should I want, or not want, what I have or choose for everyone?

I speak for myself, and that's all I can ever do, because that's who I am.

 

Now that's an alternate universe....if every....and I do mean EVERY white woman began to prowl for unsuspecting brothas...like lions trying to pounce on water buffaloes... :lol:

Somehow I don't think the "water buffaloes" would run away en-masse...

 

Where did all these confused, self-hating kids/thirsty, 20something negroes/shitty psuedo-intellectual-slash-passive-aggressive-white guys-who-are-really-cuckolds come from on this board? Must be the summer heat. Lucky most of the WW who post are taken already 'cause it sure ain't much to choose from here. A message board is no substitute for professional help. This guy sounds like one of the damn Trenchcoat Mafia :roll:

 

i guess your "homies" would have one hell of an awakening when they found out i wasn't givin' it up.....eh?

 

Have not read all the replies, but will answer your questions to the best of my abiltiy
1)Do you find it odd that there are more black men on this site than white women considering the fact that there are far more white women than black men in the world?
------No, as many white woman don't date black men due to family pressure etc. Also because at least in my ecpereince, it is the man who initiates dating

2)Do more black men approach you than white men? If so, do you personally think that your physical appearance has something to do with it?

Yes...way more black men approach me. I think it is because of my personality and the fact that when a handsome black man catches my eye, I flirt. I am average built and have a flat butt, so I don't think it is physcial.

3) What are your favorite or most prominent physical traits? If you answered blue eyes, blonde hair, brunette hair, red hair, straight hair, or light complexion, would you marry and have babies with a black man knowing that your child will most likely not possess any of these physical traits that you admire?

Tall, muscular, great smile,


4)Have you ever thought that black men might have an ulterior motive for desiring you?

I know that my first black boyfriend after my divorce only dated me because I am Irish and have red hair and blue eyes, as that was the only type he dated. However, my current boyfriend was married to a black woman and I am the first white woman he has dated, so I know it is for me

5)Are there any black men who truly annoy you, black men who you would never think of dating?

Sure, I would not date any man who was disrespectful to me.

6)Have you ever had doubts about dating black men, if so, when?

No, never, sure I got annoyed with the stare downs and looks at first, but now I don't care. It is my life not their's

7)Do you really find our nappy, knotted annoying and inextricably twisted hair attractive or do you just ignore it?

I think it is beautiful....

8)Are there any white men you find attractive? (celebrities, businessmen..)If so, and if these men were interested in dating/marrying and settling down with you would you stop dating blacks?

I think Dave Beckham and Matthew McConaughy are hot, but I would take my boyfriend over them any day

9) What are your academic qualifications? (ex. Master in Psychology... Doctor of Philosophy in Chemistry)

I have a BS in Education and a BA in History. I am 2 classes shy of my Masters' in History[/b]

 

I have a cosmetology degree-an associates in police science-and an associates in corrections science....

 

1) Are you white?

2) If you are white, how white are you?

3) Are you a white woman?

4) If you are a WW, when did you discover that you were a white woman?

5) What are the advantages and disadvantages of white womanhood?

6) How does your femininity affect your interaction with white men?

7) Is there a point where you would no longer consider yourself a WW?

8) Do you believe that I am making a mockery of this thread?

9) Do you believe that I should quit?

10) If you want me to quit, how would you coerce me into doing so?


(Yes I'm bored and no I don't give a flying, five finger, French fuck.)

 

Somebody needs to give Chosen a deck of cards, stat.

 

What does that mean? Could you explain, dh? I know what a set of cards is. But they are used for playing, what do you express by saying what you said? Thank you.

 

He said he was bored, so I was implying that he should play a game with some cards to entertain himself!

Sorry for confusing you!

 

I so sorry that you are struggling. As a mother of three interracial sons I felt heartbroken when I read your post. I hope that you can find peace.

1.)Do you find it odd that there are more black men on this site than white women considering the fact that there are far more white women than black men in the world? No, I don't. I expected as much when I joined.

2)Do more black men approach you than white men? If so, do you personally think that your physical appearance has something to do with it? My husband was the first black man who ever approached me. My appearance had everything to do with it but my appearance was not the only thing about me that has kept us together for the past 8 years.

3) What are your favorite or most prominent physical traits? If you answered blue eyes, blonde hair, brunette hair, red hair, straight hair, or light complexion, would you marry and have babies with a black man knowing that your child will most likely not possess any of these physical traits that you admire? I'm not sure if you mean what are my favorite physical traits about myself or what are my favorite physical traits at which to look. Either way, I wanted to have children with my husband, I knew I would love my children no matter who or what they looked like.

4)Have you ever thought that black men might have an ulterior motive for desiring you? Again, I've only dated one black man, but, sure, he had an ulterior motive. He wanted to get into my pants. I wanted to get into his. He was a gentleman and I resisted his advances for the right amount time, we finally had sex and we fell in love.

5)Are there any black men who truly annoy you, black men who you would never think of dating? I guess you are talking about different stereotypical black men, but there are certain types of people--of any color--that annoy me and I wouldn't date them.

6)Have you ever had doubts about dating black men, if so, when? No

7)Do you really find our nappy, knotted annoying and inextricably twisted hair attractive or do you just ignore it? My husband shaves his head. I've only seen him with hair once and that was after his beloved grandfather passed away. Seeing his hair growing made me sad because I knew he was doing it as a way of expressing his deep pain over the loss of his Pop. My sons have curly hair but the texture is the same as mine. I really don't have a lot of experience with coarse, tightly curled hair.

8)Are there any white men you find attractive? (celebrities, businessmen..)If so, and if these men were interested in dating/marrying and settling down with you would you stop dating blacks? I find lots of white men attractive. If something ever happened to my husband and I began to date again, I wouldn't rule anyone out based on race.

9) What are your academic qualifications? (ex. Master in Psychology... Doctor of Philosophy in Chemistry) I have a BS in Psychology and Sociology. I am working on my Masters degrees in Family and Marriage Therapy and Professional Counseling.

 

I sense a kin soul! :smt058

 

Thanks for explaining! And dont mind confusing me.
Always happy to learn something. :wink:
I just thought it was a idiomatic expression I did not know yet.

 

Nice to meet ya!