13-YEAR-OLD COMMITS SUICIDE AFTER FATHER PUBLICLY SHAMES HER

Discussion in 'In the News' started by samson1701, Jun 4, 2015.

  1. samson1701

    samson1701 Well-Known Member

  2. 4north1side2

    4north1side2 Well-Known Member

  3. samson1701

    samson1701 Well-Known Member

    I think you're right. She was more troubled than her father new. Now, he has to live with his involvement in her death.
     
  4. 4north1side2

    4north1side2 Well-Known Member

    He'll never be able to live down the public shaming tho, It will torture him for the rest of his life. People are calling for prison but I think that is prison itself.
     
  5. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    People jump on these trends or band wagons instead of looking at things may have consequences.

    I feel bad for em though.....real bad
     
  6. andreboba

    andreboba Well-Known Member

    I still don't think this poor girl kills herself if her father didn't cut off her hair and post that shit on YT.


    There's disciplining someone and there's beating someone down to the ground psychologically until they can't get right on their own.

    Being in trouble with your parents as a kid is bad enough, but people really need to relax with public shaming.

    I would have lost my mind if my mother posted my shit on YT when I fucked up as a kid.

    Her dad IMO killed her by being an asshole.

    Now he'll carry his own shame and stupidity to his grave.
     
  7. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    To me ,sometimes, parents do this to get attention from the public to get that approval from others instead of being an adult


     
  8. Cherok33

    Cherok33 Well-Known Member

    It is very sad and unfortunate story

    this little girl was in an emotional turmoil in her world and her father made it 1000 times worse, making a spectacle of her in front of her peers and the rest the world

    unfortunately when we're children, especially young girls, we are very emotional young beings and when something bad happens in our small world the weight of it and the impact it has on our lives is so huge.

    I honestly cannot imagine growing up in the world the way it is today with you tube and cell phones to capture everything at every moment and anytime. We did a lot of stupid shit growing up and I cannot imagine humiliation this little girl endured. Her world fell apart and her father public shaming her sealed the deal.

    The pain and sorrow of losing a child is insurmountable. I cannot even imagine feeling like I had something to do with it, I don't know that I could live with that pain and guilt.

    I feel for the guy.
     
  9. Since1980

    Since1980 Well-Known Member

    I need to spread some rep around first but it's coming eventually.
     
  10. Bookworm616

    Bookworm616 Well-Known Member

    Agree 1000%.

    Public "shaming" of their pets is one thing, public shaming of teenagers or children is quite another.

    These parents who do that sound incredibly immature.

    Keep that crap in house.

    I don't feel badly for the father because, IMHO, whether she had previous issues or not, his actions contributed to what his daughter did.

    WTF is wrong with people today? Just because you can post anything and everything online for the world to see doesn't mean you SHOULD.

    I feel for this girl and I feel for the rest of her family and her friends, but I would be happy to see her father brought up on some sort of charges.

    This public shaming of impressionable teenagers needs to STOP.
     
  11. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    Yeah it needs to stop
     
  12. APPIAH

    APPIAH Well-Known Member

    No matter what my kids do, i would NEVER shame them publicly. This is sad:cool:
     
  13. 4north1side2

    4north1side2 Well-Known Member

    This train of thought is down right repulsive as the shaming. What lesson are you trying to teach when the family is already grieving and mourning. So you would like them to suffer more out of personal gratification, smh.
     
  14. Cherok33

    Cherok33 Well-Known Member

    Agree w your sentiment North.

    Did the dad fuck up? Yes! Does he regret what he did by publicly shaming his daughter? Hell yes! Was he wrong for doing so? Definitely.

    Who are we to judge him and wish harm to him? Having been in a situation like his own but different circumstances, I know his emotional state right now and that is a deep, sorrowful regret he will live with for the rest of his life.

    I cannot even begin to explain what that feels like to have people making accusations.

    There is no greater feeling than the loss of your own child. To feel as though you were part of the reason your child is gone is something I wouldn't wish upon anyone.

    I cast no judgement, rather pray for peace in his heart and prayer over his family and the loved ones who have been impacted by this terrible tragedy. Pray also that this is a hard lesson for all parents who have considered publicly shaming their child.
     
  15. pettyofficerj

    pettyofficerj New Member

    Dregs of humanity, of course

    With that said, whatever happened to just shamin ur kids in front of their friends or people on the block
     
  16. Bookworm616

    Bookworm616 Well-Known Member

    So, apparently, I'm the "dregs of humanity"?

    If this guy got drunk and drove his 13 year old daughter somewhere and got into an accident and killed her, would you all be singing a different tune?

    I never said I thought the guy deserved the death penalty, but he should be brought up on some sort of charges. His actions directly resulted in another person's death. That means he should be held accountable in some way.

    That's all I'm saying.
     
  17. pettyofficerj

    pettyofficerj New Member

    I was leaning more towards the scourge or bane

    Before anyone goes off the handle, I'm horsing around

    I love bookie
     
  18. Cherok33

    Cherok33 Well-Known Member

    No doubt Bookie is good people

    I don't know what the guy deserves. It's all very tragic. I will let the powers that be decide I am not going to place any judgement.
     
  19. pettyofficerj

    pettyofficerj New Member

    Good Christians would reserve judgement for The Lord..............or the nearest judge

    Sadly, people commit suicide for less...so blaming other people for someone else taking their life is very iffy

    I'll be damned if I go to jail over calling someone a twat
     
  20. Bookworm616

    Bookworm616 Well-Known Member

    I know you're just horsing around. I was giving you a hard time. :p

    :freehug:
     

Share This Page