1 in 4 Overweight women don't know it.

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by Ymra, May 31, 2011.

  1. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

    http://health.msn.com/healthy-livin...omen-think-theyre-normal-size-study?GT1=31036

    1 in 4 Overweight Women Think They're Normal Size: Study - MSN Health & Fitness - Healthy Living

    1 in 4 Overweight Women Think They're Normal Size: Study

    Almost one-quarter of young women who are overweight actually perceive themselves as being normal weight, while a sizable minority (16 percent) of women at normal body weight actually fret that they're too fat, according to a new study.

    The study found these misperceptions to be often correlated with race: Black and Hispanic women were much more likely to play down their overweight status compared with whites, who were more apt to worry that they weighed too much (even when they didn't).

    Although the study looked mostly at low-income women attending public-health clinics in Texas, the findings do mirror other studies in different populations, including a recent Harris Interactive/HealthDay poll.


    Conversely, many normal-weight women believe they're too fat, Texas researchers report
     
  2. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    In other news did you hear the sky was blue?
     
  3. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

    ha! I was actually a bit shocked. I thought most if not all overweight women knew they were overweight.
     
  4. Max Mosley

    Max Mosley Well-Known Member

    You didnt post the fine print...



    This poll was taken at the Ridgecrest housing project in Memphis, TN
     
  5. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Not if you're in a low income area and all you see is fat people due to low cost unhealthy food and minimal exercise. It begins to become normalized. The problem for bw is they look so far from the popular standard of beauty in terms of facial attributes ie hair texture, skin pigment, and eye color it's easy to associate thinner body types with being white. People look for excuses to ignore the body mass index that will give you a range for what's healthy for your weight height and age. 5'4 and being between 125 and 135 is healthy not 180 even if it looks ok with clothes on. It's interesting how it's only happening here in the US.
     
  6. 11eleven11

    11eleven11 New Member

    Not really surprised myself. I think it can partly attributed to weight gain over time along with peer enablers and a tiny bit of denial.

    If a man says to his friends "Oh man, I've been eating so much and put on so much weight!" they won't say "No you haven't, you look great!" whereas if a woman says the same thing, they will generally try to make her feel better and tell her she's not fat or that she suits the extra weight, etc.

    When you glance at yourself in the mirror on a daily basis things like slow weight gain are easy to miss until one day...boom! Who's that fatty in those holiday pi...holy crap it's you! In my experience, a man's friends, family and girlfriend will generally comment if they've gained weight, while a woman's friends and partner will try to save her feelings(can't say the same for family though xP) or spare themselves the hassle and lie even if asked directly.

    It obviously doesn't help if your peers are also overweight because people tend to justify things in terms of "Well I'm not an alcoholic because John drinks twice as much as me and he's fine!" or "I might not be stick-thin, but I'm not a heifer like Marie."

    tl;dr: the problem is other people :B
     
  7. APPIAH

    APPIAH Well-Known Member

    C'mon guys the overweight thing is getting out of hand don't be mean y'all lol
     
  8. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Omg bless you a thousand times bless you beautiful

    :prayer::prayer::prayer:
     
  9. JordanC

    JordanC Well-Known Member

    .............and 4 out of 4 overweight guys would think they they "still got it". :p
     
  10. APPIAH

    APPIAH Well-Known Member

    NOOO fat guys know they are bottom of the barrel because they are mostly despised by every woman including big women so they know where they stand:cool:
     
  11. FG

    FG Well-Known Member


    That is silly, clearly overweight women get more shit than overweight men.
    Just look at this site.

    there was a study done a while back that showed that men tend to over rate their looks and women tend to under rate their looks..... Edit: in terms of weight.
     
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  12. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    That's so far from the truth. Overweight people in general normally suffer from low self esteem. Look at any of those weight loss reality shows, both men and women tell their life stories about rejection and not feeling good enough they all start crying waterfalls.
    I think fat man may appear to have more confidence because if a man wants a woman he HAS to be the aggressor in order to get one. And as far as this site is concerned FG there are not as many overweight guys as there are women and if there is they know the other dudes will lambaste them for posting pics. As I see it fat women usually don't get made fun of directly it's always a general comment about the topic a fat man will because our society doesn't like overweight people and it's ok to make fun of men because we're thought to have no feelings.
    Like I said before this entire country's attitude about what's big and what's not needs to change. But as I see it women need to stop LYING to other women. Xbox said it perfectly.
     
  13. APPIAH

    APPIAH Well-Known Member

    There are tons of website where bbws are admired how many of fat men sites do you have? I understand the shit part but you have fit mostly black men who sleep with big ,sometimes obese women but which fit woman will fuck a fat dude for real?:cool:
     
  14. saintaugusta

    saintaugusta New Member

    I am fully, painfully aware that I am overweight. However, I can still do 45 minutes on the elliptical, easily walk 5 miles, AND do the splits. And I still turn heads, but when I lose this 50 lbs I will be smoking hot again :D.
     
  15. FG

    FG Well-Known Member

    That is true, I don't argue that.
    However, that still does not mean that overweight women get more heat than overweight men.
    They are not mutually exclusive you know.
    Step away from the bm dating issue for a minute and look at a whole picture.

    If you look at the business world, an overweight woman have less chances of climbing the ladder as compared to her overweight male colleagues... the "lazy" etc stereotype is more so attributed to overweight women than overweight men, overweight men in business is often seen as pondus men w power. I'm not talking obese here, that is a completely different story for some reason.

    Besides, take a look how often overweight women get shit on here vs overweight men? Its about 20:1 or higher. Thats just an example... I think most here agree that men are more visually driven than men, therefore......
     
  16. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Damn well made point fam
     
  17. Nico

    Nico Banned

    I can't believe you actually have to argue and debate this.


    I truly don't understand what goes on in the heads of some of the people here:confused:
     
  18. Nico

    Nico Banned

    No shit.


    Just like you don't see porn sites for male actors with blonde hair.
    You don't see porn sites for guys with nice abs.
    There's no site advertising "Come here and watch hairy guy have sex with girls"
    There's no site that markets guys who are new to porn.


    The focus of beauty and standard is always on the girls which is why fat girls get more criticism then fat guys do.

    Did I really need to explain this?:smt090
     
  19. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

    I actually think it is far more acceptable for a man to fat, dumpy, slow, lethargic, and gaseous.

    ..Hell, I can't get a date here in Arkansas cuz, as one woman put it....I'm not a "Teddy Bear"..

    ...I'm too slinder.

    ...I need to eat.
     
  20. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Dude as someone pointed out a dude is more likely to settle for a big chick than the other way around.
     

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