How Long Should Sex Take????

Haha..wise Mizz Lippy.

 

When you get short-changed you look at that watch. Lmfao

 

If you're timing the sex, someone ain't doing it right.

Unless your ass is somewhere you ain't supposed to be. Then, in that case, by all means time it. However, the threat of getting "caught" can make thing hotter. Sooo ... Anyway, carry on.

 

Those kind of dudes can bounce...don't let the door hit ya on the way out

 

exactly

except I'm pretty sure you would know if it was only a few mins!! LOL

 

Maybe someone else said this but...sex should take as long as it takes for a guy to cum....which is like a hot minute after a few cans of Budweiser??

 

What if the puss was that good to him?? No redemption?? Lol

 

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Something like ~80 percent of women fake it anyway, according to ABC

Might as well bust a nut without worrying about all this extra bullshit

 

Ok Confusious....

 

Disingenuous mofos... I just spent 20 minutes downstairs for what.....

Nah, just kiddin. You know the fireworks go off ever time. :smt025

 

I think a LOT of women have sexual issues when it comes to having orgasms during sex with their partner, and I suspect more than a few women struggle with cumming from penetration. One of the main culprits IMO is their partner not lasting long enough.

Some females can't cum from fucking unless your stroke somewhere along the way is rubbing against her clit. Other women can't get off unless they are extremely turned on, and women for decades have been telling themselves the looks and appearance of their partners don't matter.

LOL. Right.

I'm not saying you need to be a movie star with the bod of a pro athlete, but I see more than a few guys who are the ones out of shape in their relationship.
When you're in great shape a woman likes to touch on your body during sex, the more she pets on you the hotter she gets.

I can count on one hand how many grown women I've known who were satisfied after 7 minutes of fucking.
And when a female discovers she's capable of multiple orgasms, that 7 minutes is an appetizer.

15-20 minutes of straight fucking is probably a normal session for most women.
Still many prefer 30-45 minutes when the sex is good.:smt048

If you're going 60 minutes or more as your preference, I don't know you.:smt087

The women in the OP seem like they've settled and decided sex really isn't a major part of their relationships. :sad:

It's tragic to see young women approaching their sexual prime deciding as a group that sex is kind of overrated, which is what 7 minutes really means.

 

i am!!!!

the game is coming on.

 

Bahahaha! some women should be categorized as weekends only. After a long workday and 2 hours in the gym you will learn the value of planning. :smt081

 

You have a lot of really good points!!

I think that there are a lot of women who are really uncomfortable with themselves (and it has nothing to do with how great they look or how great their bodies are - many of the really hot women seem to be the most insecure!) Many of us didn't become comfortable in our skin until closer to 40.

It's true about many of us talking ourselves out of how important attraction can be. I think it's often not even about how in shape, it's general attraction...some sort of physical attraction.

Yes exactly when it comes to being multiple. But then in my experience men will usually want to keep going and doing whatever they can when a woman is highly multiple too.

I was really blown away to hear all that from younger women. I said something to a friend of mine who's older than I am and she said that she thinks most of us were that way around that time. Often we had babies or toddlers, etc and like the women in the clip, we were exhausted. But quite frankly too, many of us were with men we weren't really attracted to physically, didn't feel the best about our own selves physically, and for many of us the sex wasn't so great. Many weren't with men they were even sexually compatible with, and many had lost that connection they once had with their partner. Even those who started off hot and heavy, it's like they lose their way and life takes over. Some end up finding their way back and others never do. Lots of us sortof wake back up later on only to find that the male counterparts are then saying things about being too tired, etc

 

I think women who love marathons don't really expect that all the time. There's something to be said about a day or weekend in bed periodically.

 

I agree. I'm all for it, the kicker is that realism and planning are less fun and sexy as idealism and spontaneity. So while I balance this truth with priorities; I can't always expect the woman in my life to be cooperative. Just the way it is.

 

Yep....the reality of life can really take the fun out of things! But then those times when it all lines up make it so worth it!!

 

So...I'm sitting here eating chicken nuggets while in serious thought about the whole length of sex issue

One thing that I keep noticing all over the internets is the blame that men receive for sex being too quick (as if men by nature need to complain/feel bad about the joyous act of cumming). I've seen countless articles with women explaining to people how they 'train' their man to last longer or throw him out. I've seen countless supplements which promise to keep you 'harder for longer.'

One thing that stood out to me is how you NEVER see articles, pills, coaches and celebrities training women to cum faster and harder during sex. Where's the middle road? When's the last time you've seen a guy say 'babe, if you can't whittle your sexual pleasure down to xyz time, I'm leaving you.' When will we be able to say 'I want a one minute woman who gushes after 60 seconds and doesn't need me anymore'

 

:smt005 petty pondering how long sex should take