Rock Bottom Low Self-Esteem

Alright this is what ninety percent of all the drama/griping I see on this site is really about. There are way too many people, mostly men, who have practically no self-esteem and use everything from dating and love woes to an obsession with pornography as proxies for expressing a general dissatisfaction with life.

I am not a professional psychologist but it is as plain as day and you need to put it on the table.

 

lol...its not hard to spot...what worse when you try to encourage these mofos and lace them with advice then they get mad and curse you.

its funny as hell.

 

I'm going to ask that you sit your country ass down on this one son and let others with a steadier grip try to make this a serious discussion.

 

fool please you know whats gonna happen. the busted negroes who hate bw, hate women in general and the negroes who will come in and have a pity party...fuck that. men need to stand up and get a fucking back bone and stop blaming others for what happen to them.

fuck that pity party shit.

 

Damn son don't hold back or anything lol

Is low self esteem fair? I know for me its more discontentment, the older I get I realize this pretty much all bullshit. Nothing seems real except the bs. Maybe I think way too much.

 

the one thing paniro said rite....mofos need to stop whining.


mofos are about strong as wet toilet paper.

attention whoring and shit.

find your fucking dick and stand up. cry for 2 minutes then you need to man the fuck up.

stop bitching. you dudes are weak as hell.

 

yeah i said it.....same mofos want to project the short comings on other folks and then when they get called out...they cry about what happen in their past. thats bullshit and its weak.

signs you are a weak ass:

wanna wife up/gf up strippers and porn stars

hate on a dude because he has a hot woman (shes a gold digger. he wouldnt be with her if ______).

put total responsibility on some else (why should i pay child support...its her responsibility for not getting preggy)

mofos cool in bathing in self pithy. its cool to feel bad but stay there...find your nuts.

acting like you dont have a problem. true men get help and dont pretend.

stop bitching.

 

I have said this before and i applaud you for making a thread about it.

This will continue to fall on deaf ears...

Interestingly enough, non of the men on the forum from Cali have this issue.

 

my contribution to this topic

 

Great thread.

Becoming more self-aware will help in the quest to finding what "ails you" so you can work on fixing it so you can become a better "you".

 

Seriously...why is that? May be pure coincidence, but from my personal experiences and everything I've seen from members on this site, I'm resigned to the fact that we must just be different out here.

Attraction gets you in the door, confidence keeps her interested.

If you lack confidence because you don't have your shit together...make it your mission to change that. May not happen over night, but the more you work towards your goals the more confident you should become.

If you have your shit together and you still lack confidence...things probably aren't as "together" as you think they are. There's a reason you lack confidence...you should spend the time to figure out the root cause and work to fix it. Or stop complaining :smt061

 

I hope these dudes listen to you

True. Why would we have this issue when we're surrounded by attractive women, palm trees, sunshine and clear blue skies? Lol

 

Not me, I really have made no attempt to do anything with women yet. Not that I'm not confident or have no self-esteem. I'm not worried or hesitant about women at all.

My focuses right now are on other commitments, such as a career in computer programming (in the .net language) and striving to do well in the workplace environment.

 

exactly.....when people give advice they shit on it....so fuck them mofos and the shoes they walk in.

dumb asses.

 

The LAST time I 'teared' up about a breakup in front of my boyz...long time ago!lol.....I'm gonna give yall the message that was told to me;

WHAT YOU CRYING FOR BITCH!!????

CLeared my head totally the fuck up. Always gotta keep it moving.

Don't ever wallow in self-pity cause it gives you the stink of a loser.

 

I didn't create this thread to be another sounding board for "I can get women and you can't." rhetoric. I can see through that bullshit. You're nowhere nearly as talented as you think and that conversation is played.

Focus on what mental roadblocks are preventing you from having a higher sense of self-regard.

 

Do I have this problem?

 

No!! You're a southern boy who gets it!

 

Thanks babes. I was just asking for shits and giggles. I know I don't have self esteem issues. Lol.