Are the French Better at Sex?

We don’t have these dating rituals; we just start with sex! And then, if the sex was good enough or we feel connected somehow, then we would try to build a relationship.

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Ilived in france a long time ago for a few months. I was not a fan of the women out there, both in and out of the bed.

 

I think the French have a better understanding of pleasure. They simply go with the flow. They focus on what pleases themselves(food,wine,clothing,etc) and what might please others(the opposite sex). If, say a French woman meets a man at a party, and they hit it off, there is a good possibility that these two will have sex that night. The French also do not understand the process of dating like we have here in the U.S.A..

I once worked with a woman from Paris. She was so cute. She was married and had two sons. And she had stories to tell about her life in Paris. She always mentioned them when she clocked out. A year later, she left her sons and husband for another man. I was puzzled about this, but I simply shrugged it off because none of us really knew the truth about why she left in the first place.


At my back in 1995, I had a visit from an escort. She stood at 5'6, short brunette hair and blue eyes. She asked about a guest staying in a condo. I called the room to confirm the identity of the guest. The guest confirmed his identity and I sent her up to the room. I noticed that she walked bow-legged and I asked if she was all right. "I'm fine," she said. "I've been working all night." She must've had a very busy night.


I met a French-Canadian woman at my job and we became friends until the contract ended. She was married and had children but she cared about me.

I met two French-Canadian women at another condo resort. We had just gotten to know each other and after a half hour we said our goodnights and the two women each kissed my cheek.

I had met another French woman who was dating a local cop. She was very attractive and friendly.

I think that at the end of the day, they are who they are just like the rest of us. Perhaps not as extremely picky.

 

LOL...hell NO!:smt043

The french women are pretty proud and feminine, not so much emancipated as i.e. german women. They love High-Heels and want a charming man. There is a big competition between italian and french men, indeed. Both of them think they are the best lovers. The french men are more playful, more romantic in my experiences, they come with flowers and presents, fine dining etc..but at the end,you cannot generalize, it's just my personal experience.

 

It's good to have a European perspective on this, so you would say that there is (more often than not) a period of courtship before sex?

 

It is hard to understand them since I think they are tired of brothers since the 1970's. They don't have the same interest in us than German women.

 

Of course, it depends on the person, but in general, a french woman isn't easy to get. As mentioned, they are proud, a little bit "old-style", what is nice in my eyes and I assume the reason, why french women are so much wanted and desired. They take very much care of fashion, styling, make-up- they really look like a woman, not like a man, as in many other european countries. They seem soft and mild. Germans i.e. are proud of being able to carry a 100 pound of cement, they don't need a man- a french woman would never imagine to think about that. But you have to experience the french way of life - drinking wine, dining, romance and love are in their mentality. Germans are workers, very disciplined, but without huge phantasy. And french men love to spoil their girls, to tell them compliments to enjoy their women and to woo. They say, "The italians just talk about love, the french men get the women"

 

Among their own color the French are romantic but,I don't know of
the French woman's reaction towards brothers are the same if the French Africans do the same like the French men.

 

:smt118

Test drive before the relationship...Paris sounds even more fascinating than I imagined...

 

I was thinking the same thing

 

The difference with the French women I have dated wasn't their sexual performance, it was the aura that I perceived them having when interacting with them. It wasn't hyper sexual, just relaxed and comfortable.

 

I've just come back from Paris, from what I saw French women are not tired of BM at all.

 

I once roomed with a french female when I worked at a Vegan retreat. She was very demure. Took her a while to open up.

:smt043 love this!

 

Soulthinker will be very happy to hear this

 

Not sure where he got his idea from seeing as France has far more black people than the UK, its bound to happen in cosmopolitan Paris. Its not just BM and WW there either, my cousin over there is engaged to a white guy. I have a mixed Black/white cousin who has twin girls with his French/Spanish/Arabic girlfriend.