The "Thank you" thread

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by Arwen, Jul 20, 2009.

  1. RestlessRita

    RestlessRita Well-Known Member

    Thanks for all the support.....so truly grateful.
    xoxox
     
  2. wtarshi

    wtarshi Well-Known Member

    it does get out there. there was a while back when we women banded together and disclosed to each other, the men who were making promises etc. it was quite surprising to see how many women were speaking to the same man or had an experience with the same man.
     
  3. RestlessRita

    RestlessRita Well-Known Member

    What I find particularly disturbing is he got me to send him photos, including some of my kids. I cringe when I think of this. I feel very violated.........This was the first site I felt comfortable participating in. Afther this experience, I was going to discontinue, but I decided I'm not giving him that power. Most men are NOT like him.
     
  4. 1449225

    1449225 Well-Known Member

    :smt052
     
  5. Ches

    Ches Well-Known Member

    Thank you to lippy, CN, SN and my lovely anon for your recent reps and comments.

    Lippy, I had no idea. But not surprised. Seems to be the nature of the beast. Yahoo me sometime....

    To my anon - your compliments warm my heart. I understand but hope you will someday tell me who you are. :)
     
  6. Mikey

    Mikey Well-Known Member

    I hope you find a way to get that sorted out. By the way, I never noticed you were even here!
     
  7. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    Many thanks to Unique, Bookie, and Anonymous for the much appreciated reps and uplifting comments. :freehug:
     
  8. curleyblonde

    curleyblonde New Member

    I am curious too, but I think he should be outed to prevent another new poster getting approached the same way. Why keep it secret if he is troll?
     
  9. Unique4ever

    Unique4ever Well-Known Member

    I'm so sorry you fell for him Rita.
    My future advice is: get a feeling for the person and how he behaves around men and women in the forum. Does he post pics? Does he talk about himself? Is he polite or rather rude?
    All the above gives you an idea on who you are dealing with before you open up and share too much with the wrong person.
    I'm a member for three years now and I saw a lot of trolls come and go.
    Some are easy to spot right away, some reveal there hidden agenda a little later.
    Your "Mr. charming" sent me a picture that looks like he copied it from the web which alarmed me right away.

    It looks like he might have left now. He was a quite new member anyway (May 2013).
    Whoever wants to know who he is, you just have to look at Rita's posts and see who offered her to chat ;)

    p.s. I'm wrong. He was online today.
    So when you read this you fake ass dickhead: FUCK YOU! :smt042
     
    Last edited: Sep 17, 2013
  10. Ches

    Ches Well-Known Member

    Great advice, Unique! I don't think this individual ever even posted anything to any of the forums. I tread carefully when someone that doesn't post contacts me. And I had someone who also sent me a pic copied from the web. I knew it because MS randomly posted the same picture (of a certain anatomy part) from the web one time as a joke. I'm wondering if this might be the same person under another username....
     
  11. Beckett

    Beckett New Member

    Those little things and thangs

    Thank you to Bliss and Sir Nose for the welcome and comments. It is a pleasure to be in such good company.
     
  12. Sir Nose

    Sir Nose New Member

  13. Ms. J

    Ms. J Well-Known Member

  14. pettyofficerj

    pettyofficerj New Member

    Hmmmmmmmmmmmm
     
  15. Cherok33

    Cherok33 Well-Known Member

    Trying to remember if this is the same guy who befriended me when I joined the forum initially....something fishy about that guy.
     
  16. RestlessRita

    RestlessRita Well-Known Member

  17. jaisee

    jaisee Well-Known Member

    I was going to say the same shit...
     
  18. 1449225

    1449225 Well-Known Member

    Same thing I was thinking. Everybody is avoiding this dude and walking on egg shells as if he's Debo or some shit.

    it's singleblkmale
     
  19. pettyofficerj

    pettyofficerj New Member

  20. jaisee

    jaisee Well-Known Member

    Dude has 7 bullshit ass posts and manages to wreak all this havoc on the DL...

    Honestly, I didn't even know he even existed.
     

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