Are WW really attracted to US or the Stereotype??

i know i dont like music of comedy central.

 

It's not a music network. It's a network dedicated to only showing Comedy, and everything on the network is either rated PG or up, and if you think about watching it with your family, then you're making a big mistake, LOL...

and, it used to be the laughing stock of cable when it started back in '95, but now it's one of the most influential TV networks in the world.

 

oh i wouldnt let my kid watch anything on television except certain pbs programs and old movies

 

Some do, alot don't. I think economics, environment, and age plays a huge factor.

I meet mature college educated women with careers, and it's a breath of fresh air (especially to mature black woman, you become a mosted wanted man out here) to them that I talk proper, my pants don't hang off my ass, and I don't try to game them but speak to them respectfully in genuine conversation.

I meet young uneducated chicks who grew up around poor black folks they are turned off by the properness, the form fitting clothes, I ain't giving them pet names and being all over them within 5 minutes.

I kinda sonned this chicks ass at the club tonight. She kept making fun of the way I talk so I said what do you sound like when you go to a job interview, she made her interview voice and remarked I know when to turn on and off the proper voice. I said the difference between you and me, I'm 100% me all the time. She was swole. :smt081

 

7 year old thread. Really?

 

Thank you for bumping it yet again.

 

Lol

 

It's all good, I always felt it was better to bump old topics then rehash them.

 

I can only speak for myself, if you are an intelligent, sincere, funny MAN who I find attractive, then it's not because of any stereotype. It doesn't hurt if you are bald and muscular..Mmmmmmmmm... Anyway, I couldn't give a shit what society thinks. It's MY life.

However, if you are an asshole, it doesn't matter what color you are.

 

hey...not all stereotypes are bad you know....


yes, I embrace the big dick stereotype. my shit is down to my knees...LOL

 

holy necropost lol

 

I know from my experience that I was not drawn to any stereotype. I fell for my boyfriend because of his personality and the respect he gives. He is a gentleman and doesn't follow any stereotypes anyway.

 

I wasn't attracted to my boyfriend because of his colour, or any of that stuff you mention. I was attracted to him because he had a lovely kind face and a nice smile, and he just looked like a nice guy (we met on a dating site).
I couldnt care less about stereotypes, he just looked approachable, and yeah, sexy as hell lol, so I messaged him and that was that!

 

A Black man who thinks a stereotype could get them WW could go so far but,not far enough since the expectation would turn them off. From the threads of the past the WW who go to the Black nations to just have sex with young Black males and then leave them are going by a stereotype.

 

Using this forum as an indicator, it would often appear to be the stereotype.


.... old ass thread...

 

This statements summarizes the thread. I've met some who only see BM from a gangsta perspective and either are attracted to them because of that or are completely turned off for the same reason, which puts us all in the same boat no matter how different.

A lot don't and only see a bm as a male who happens to be a different ethnicity, meaning they only casually date brothas.

 

An interesting dichotomy happens to me.

Here in Michigan…its very segregated…we were actually #1 until 2011 and now we are 4th. I have not been here long but I think most would assume I am the educated, intellectual type. But here I am only desired for one thing. They don’t care how much I know, my experience in life, the languages I want to learn, my degrees, all the books I have read. They just want to have fun and fuck. Which is fine…I am still a man.

Portland is the opposite. They seem interested in my intellectual side as much as the physical. I had given up meeting someone special years ago but now there is hope.

So I think it is a regional thing. The Midwest/South still have a long way to go.

 

Are white women attracted to Black men or the stereotype ... a good question.

I think it depends on the woman and I believe depending on the woman the answer would be yes to both. Then of course there are white women who are not attracted to Black men at all. Takes all kinds to make this world.

Me, I have always been attracted to the man. The way he walks, the way he talks, the way he looks. Can he talk to me with some intelligence, can he make me laugh. Does he make me feel safe when I am with him ... sometimes we met the wrong man, regardless of color, and must always be on guard.

Of course tall, dark and handsome always get my attention and my heart beating a little faster. And a Black man can do that just by walking in the room.

More often than not being with a Black man just feels natural. When we both just feel comfortable being together. And it does happen ... no expectations, no preconceived notions.

My experience has been that a black man can make a woman feel like a woman in many ways, not just in the bedroom. That too is something that you find in a man when you look at him and not through him to a stereotype.

I grew up when the stereotype was all that anyone spoke and it really made me sick. I've tried to always be better than that. So when it comes to men I look at him and the reality of him and me together.

I guess I got rather long winded here but it all comes down to knowing the Man, not some idea of a man.

 

I think that there are both types. I have encountered ones who were after the stereotype, but dating me was a disappointment for them, lol. I can't dunk, I'm not diesel, I have no swag and I am not cool. Hahaha.

 

Maybe some WW love the element of certain stereotypes and the masculinity surrounding it, but I don't think that's always the case.

I'm not severely offended by some element of it honestly because I'm probably guilty of it too to some extent.