Dating a big while girl

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by Laimo_10, Feb 2, 2006.

  1. Laimo_10

    Laimo_10 New Member

    Why do big white girls like to date black man?
     
  2. jxsilicon9

    jxsilicon9 Active Member

    This question reminds me of that show "Fat actress" with Kristie Alley.The episode where she is big and goes to find black men. I think black men like women with curves or more. Also I see white men with big women also. I like a women with curves(shapely not round) but I do have my limits.
     
  3. tuckerreed

    tuckerreed New Member

    i love women of all sizes and I guess some of those women like black men because we tend to not judge their size as much and we like full bodies. also, after the WM have rejected them, many WW think the next best thing is a BM, but always second to a WM whom they all want
     
  4. 7Seven

    7Seven New Member

    Of course, I ALWAYS take into consideration the literal meaning of words. But, you forget its context, simply because "Ugly" impedes a cruelty. If you would have read my thread regarding the topic, you would understood I was not only talking about their physical appearance. I do not deny there is a correlation to physical appearance as I have repeatedly stated, but it also encompasses all things related to their person. That logic escapes you because 7Seven is a wicked man who hates women.

    Clear your mind and be free.
     
  5. tuckerreed

    tuckerreed New Member

    the question is , why do BM love to date Big White girls? its a two way street and brothas are out there doing it
     
  6. pkd

    pkd New Member

    LOL WTF!

    So you feel indignant about white women ruling out black men as romantic/sexual partners, yet you rule out dark skinned black women as partners???!
     
  7. tuckerreed

    tuckerreed New Member

    from the voices of some, not all the white women here--maybe I have been thinking wrongly. maybe Black women arent so bad after all and I should be dating and marrying them.

    since the WW here will date a WM just as soon as they will date a black man, maybe we are a bit too quick to dump our own

    i dont know if many of the white women are truly that sincere--seems like its a physical attraction thing or an experiment
     
  8. Katie

    Katie New Member

    I think it is because many of them are insecure and they think that a BM will love them no matter what. They may wrongly assume that BM are not confident enough to approach slim & pretty WW.
     
  9. leksie

    leksie New Member

    I don't understand how you can critcise other men's choice of women and then yourself be absolutely superficial in the same breath? Live and let live I say. Other man can't date someone who's fat, but you'd choose to ignore all those stunning ebony godesses because they aren't 'light' enough for you? Sounds like your complex is as deeps as what you claim these fatty loving men to have.

    I don't think anyone should settle for less than what they feel they deserve, but you really can't have the insight track into every other person's mind to see their motivations.
     
  10. leksie

    leksie New Member

    I got so fired up at that I posted without reading, not surprised someone else has pointed it out.
     
  11. MistressB

    MistressB New Member

    I searched for the thread last time you mentioned it but couldn't find it in the archives, only other threads referencing it. I have changed my mind, now I no longer think you hate women but you certainly don't have a clear picture of what all women are like, and I still think you overgeneralise.
     
  12. SardonicGenie

    SardonicGenie New Member

    I see white men with white women who have curves also. Not all white men want a woman like Paris, Britney, Lindsay, or Christina, but I can say that the majority of them do, since a lot of them masturbate to women like them.
     
  13. SardonicGenie

    SardonicGenie New Member

    This is what makes them Ugly Ducklings, and seeking black men as an outlet for loneliness is racist.
     
  14. SardonicGenie

    SardonicGenie New Member

    Um, this has been discussed throughout the forums over and over again. It's old news.
     
  15. SardonicGenie

    SardonicGenie New Member



    I am confident enough, in fact, I've done it before, and still do it.
     
  16. chocoluscious

    chocoluscious New Member

    A simple maybe not all-encompassing reason: Black guys are big too! Most of the guys in my family are over 200 lbs of mostly muscle.
     
  17. TheChosenOne

    TheChosenOne Well-Known Member

    No....my best friend always thinks of himself as a "real Ibo man." Quite a few of my friends are from there...either Ibo, Yoruba, or Edo...and they all take pride in their heritage. My Ibo friends debate about how they should have won "the war" (Biafra war) but instead fell victim to bad leadership.

    Don't worry about what others say....they have a right to their own opinion even though many may disagree...you used to be a model anyway so someone thought you looked good. 8)
     
  18. TheChosenOne

    TheChosenOne Well-Known Member

    Same here....I'm about the smallest man in my family and I check in at exactly 200 lbs. My deceased father would go to the gym and workout consistently and my mom says he looked his best at 250! Its true we like em a little more "juicy." I would hurt a girl under 140 quite honestly. Skinny is okay but it seems every girl I've dated has been sort of tall (at least '5-7") and healthy (150-170).
     
  19. Iffy'swifey

    Iffy'swifey New Member

    Oh I see, well you've certainly picked up the lingo rather well!

    I really couldn't care less what other people think of how I look, except Iffy maybe. I know I'm a healthy weight and certainly not "ridiculously over weight". I had my post natal check 2 weeks ago and my BMI was fine even then. True I'm not skinny, but I wouldn't want to be. I'm genuinely happy with my body and apart from a big arse I quite like it!
     
  20. chocoluscious

    chocoluscious New Member

    yeah "juicy" is right!
     

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