Percent of WW that would date a black guy

I'd agree if it were an individual thing like if a girl didn't like me but like brah or didn't like him but liked Arch. We're all varying skin tones, height, and careers. That I understand and support but when its a dismissive attitude towards the entire race it does raise an eyebrow. Its not like any of us will lose sleep over this but it is worth mentioning.

 

We all know by now that you had more than your fair share. Anything new?

 

Silly. LOL!

 

Those who dismiss an entire race usually have had very little interactions with people of that race. Blind ignorance. I've known a few bm who always said they'd never date a ww. Their reasoning was simple...they didnt think they'd have anything in common with a ww. Enter this girl

People make assumptions and pass judgement every day. We should take it as a opportunity to try and open some people's eyes. At the end of the day, there will always be racist fucks who refuse to open their minds, but I'll be damned if that stops me from trying!

 

My main point is that it's easy to fix the issue technologically, so that women who don't want a black guy simply don't show up in search results when a black guy searches.

My point isn't that we should roll up in a fetal position on the floor and cry about it, although it's perfectly normal and healthy to feel slighted by it, especially if the woman's profile indicates that you two might otherwise be a pretty good match.

Is it racism for a woman to not want to date black guys? Not necessarily. There are a million and one perfectly logical reasons to stick to one's "own". Is it racism to be ready to date everything other than black? Not necessarily. Is it racist to put "no blacks" right there in your profile? Probably.

I haven't been on match.com in a long time, but back then, there was a section in every profile called "my matches," where visitors could see what kind of match you're looking for, including race. That's where you'd sometimes see every race mentioned other than black. Asians were also typically left out, probably more often than blacks even.

It probably comes down to imagination. When these women are "ordering up" a guy, like ordering a purse, they start picturing what kind of guy attracts them, based on often pretty limited imagination coming right out of the tv they watch. In real life, they might find a black guy attractive and even be ready to fuck him to see "if it's true...", but when they sit down and think about their ideal guy, they can't imagine a black guy might fit the bill, any more than they could design their own clothes, or resist the next big fashion trend.

...But mainly, I'm just saying match.com would never get a monthly fee from me, especially since I would have to click through profiles to see if these chicks list "black" among their matches.

As a bachelor, I used to sometimes grab a meal at the local KFC. The cashiers were rude and stupid, dirty looking and often didn't even get your order right. After a while, it dawned on me: the food is horrible for you, and the service sucks - why am I eating here? Their rudeness probably saved me from their artery-clogging trans fat.

Same with match.com. Having to be insulted by the racial stuff, when a simple fix would be easy enough, means I'll simply look for greener pastures than Match when I get back into the personals. (- e.g. the free sites).

 

Some people are just full of bad blood and are dedicated to spreading it. I hope she doesn't have mexican sons!

Personally, I wouldn't even tell a woman I'm dating that I prefer women of her race or culture, even if that were the case. I wouldn't hide it, but I wouldn't state it either. That stuff is kinda tacky.

 

interracialmatch.com

or...my favorite....

blackplanet (YES, blackplanet!)

you literally have your pick of non-black women on that site, with profiles and all kinds of shit there...

everything else is self-explanatory....i hope..

i mean..they ARE on blackplanet...looking for men...so...i guess they want blackmen???

:smt039

http://www.blackplanet.com/user_search/index.html?tracking=global_nav

try it...lots of white ladies registered as members with photos and all that

 

hell...i put in the zip code of a mainly white area in PA on the blackplanet search thing, and got hits containing WW

who woulda known

:twisted:

 

I have a profile on interracialmatch.com. I haven't gotten much luck even with my picture on my profile. I had the profile in there for over seven years. I have to decide whether or not to remove my profile or see what happens when I pay up for a month or more.

 

Dude a lot of those girls are a bit trashy

To date white women you're better off just doing it the old fashion way.

 

I thought we like trashy

It's like a crystal bottoms and Sara jay yard sale

 

lol.....you're crazy.

 

true!

yep! majority of the good ones arent on a dating site...

 

Unfortunately most dudes are scared to approach. Whats your approach fam?

 

Offline they are scared and online they tend to be vulgar :smt012

 

I guess a shit ton of rejection will do that to you. I hate dating sometimes I think some of these eastern cultures have the better idea. Have your parents pick when you are young and go from there.

 

im big on complimenting shoes, nails and purses. sometimes watches but ive gotten to the point i can tell how long its been since a woman has had her nails done.

compliments and chivalry goes a long way!

 

Lol maybe. I guess it depends on the girl and the guy involved. The girls I go fir are more artsy so knowledge of a book theyre looking at or having contact with the singer theyre enjoying usually works better for me. I know zip about shoes lol

 

A womans two cents...confidence is key. I'm more interested in how you communicate with me (eye contact, posture, "confidence"), then in what you're actually saying. I had a guy approach me in line at target this weekend, and while he wasn't my usual type, I couldn't help but appreciate the balls it took to do that in front of a line of people! Putting yourself out there and being vulnerable to some extent are parts of adult life. Men that have mastered those traits will always be more desirable then the men who sit around and wait for something to fall into their laps.