do you play hard to get? is it a turn on for you?

research says playing hard to get works

http://shine.yahoo.com/love-sex/study-playing-hard-actually-works-190600756.html

is playing hard to get a turn on?

http://shine.yahoo.com/love-sex/is-playing-hard-to-get-a-turn-on-or-turn-off-2550238.html

what do you think ? do you play hard to get ? how far do you take it? does it work? is it a turn on?


do you like for a person to play hard to get and why?

when does it become a turn off? where do you draw the line?

 

Personally I don't like do play hard.
That does not mean that I chase the guy like a mad woman.
The expression play hard already indicates a game. You play a game= playing hard- and I don't like any kind of games when it comes to emotions.
The danger of a woman playing hard is that a man may only be into the process of hunting and chasing,and not really be all that interested in the 'prey',and once he knows he has your interest loses interest himself and drop you like a hot potato.

Working and going to school full time and having activities I enjoy doing,I only have so much time to give to a man anyway.
It's neither extremely difficult nor extremely easy to get me to invest the time I do have in you,if we get along.
If me expressing that I enjoy spending time with you makes you lose your interest ,as you don't see me as a tough challenge,that's a pity and ultimately your loss.
Two people both letting one another know they enjoy one another's company is a great thing. You always know what's up,don't have to wonder and worry,and can establish something great together.

 

A tiny bit... Most of the time I find it an aggravating game.

 

The games people play was a excellent book

I don't play hard to get.. and don't like women to play hard to get with me. if people are into each other and one party is playing hard to get i would think the person playing hard to get is into playing games,and playing hard to get is just another form of another game. "Catch me if you can"... Some people get off on playing hard to get,and the pursuing person enjoys it..Me personally:smt018I don't have time for the game.

 

Adults don't play games.
I am an adult and I date adults.
The moment someone play any kind of game, including playing hard to get, is the moment my interest dwindles to sub zero temps.

 

Agree....I have to have chemistry and the rest I let flow...now that does mean the panties drop on a dime

 

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I don't play games however i don't just give it up. there is a difference between playing games and not wanting to just give it up...

 

I have no time for any type of game. Its either a mutual interest between me and her or nothing. And for the people that don't know, some people are purely in it for the hunt. They are not in it to "feed".

 

^^This.

 

I don't play hard to get, I AM hard to get.

 

That aint what D and keith said.

 

Tricks and games are for kids. I have to say, building relationships with others is more rewarding when everyone makes an honest effort to get to know the other person. If the interest is there, I invest the time to allow that spark to turn into a flame. If I'm not all in, I don't feel the need to waste anyone's time.

 

I need the BOTH of them to keep your side of the bed warm for when Santa delivers you. They're just here early, to make sure that my idea would actually work

 

Damn so the rumors are true, your easier than cutting butter with a hot knife. :sad:













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I don't play because I'm not a player. And the last time I checked, women don't like players. It's also not a turn on for me because I feel like if a woman's playing hard to get, then she's not being honest. It's a different thing to not be ready, not want to rush into things, or just to be unsure, but if none of that applies, and we're interested in each other, then there should be no funny business.

 

Goodlove,I don't believe in playing hard to get which means a man or woman had to read each other's mind to find out. A woman should go after the man of her choice instead of having men she does not want go after her.

 

I don't play, I am hard to get.

 

In an era where women drop their pants quicker than it takes Usain Bolt to cross the finish line, it would take a very special woman to play stupid games and still command the attention of men who aren't losers.

 

Well,I have not seen or dated a woman who f&cks at a drop of a hat.