:smt081:smt081:smt081:smt081 Hey these comments are at a the very least making me laugh which I need right now
I agree, it isn't a great way to represent bm and there's no "perfect black buck" that only she can attract, that's too much. It doesn't mean that all bm fit into this category, but it does happen at times.
for some reason i really want some becky, i mean a women to provide me with oral stimulation somewhere specific on my body.
FYI the ONLY reason I called him that was to differentiate him from the other guys I was seeing at the time. And because I met him at a reggae festival, and he's from the Caribbean, and he listens to reggae music ALL of the time, and I don't want to tell you his damn name on the forum. NOTHING more sinister than that. When I'm around him, I call him by his name. I call him that only sometimes in fun. I do not objectify him - I adore him. I would love to be around him all of the time.
Thank you, Bliss - you hit the nail on the head. I was seeing different men, but they fell away, and it was just him. He was the consistent one, and he is the one who was starting to win my heart by his constant presence and reliability. When his presence stopped and he started to act out, my trust was shaken, which really threw my world into a tailspin... I really wanted to be monogamous and thought I was narrowing it down, but it seemed like my growing devotion was turning him off of me and he panicked, and I panicked. It was horrible. It hurt a lot. I probably lost 15 lbs over the whole thing in a month. If people want to bitch me out for "objectifying the black man" for some nickname to keep him anonymous on a forum, then so be it.
Wow, has this thread spiraled out of control. :smt104 Now back to our regularly scheduled program. I had the Giants to win in the confidence pool I run, but no, the Cowboys had to bring it tonight. ARGH. At least Tony Romo and DeMarco Murray performed well for my respective fantasy football teams. :smt023
My online class started this week and I'm having trouble getting into it. I'm so not in the school mindset right now. ARGH!!
LOL i know it ain't you, i just figured how who it was. She was stupid enough to use similar words in a post she made here quoting me yet didnt leave her name. How smart.
Well, look at the bright side. You are important enough to her for her to take the time to negatively rep you. There is a thin line between love and hate and maybe this is all foreplay. Granted I have no idea who this person is.
You ignorant Mother Fucker. Why the fuck did you give me a negative rep you stupid son of a bitch. Go fuck yourself in the ear with rusty pipe dipped in blue waffle!!!
I am a little nervous. Asked a black guy at my work if he would go with me to see Elle Varner at a majority black club in the west side of town this weekend. Really would like to go with a friend, and not all by myself, although I WILL go alone. This guy is someone I really respect, is a good friend of mine, I think... the only thing is that he is a devout Muslim, super black power, and I wonder if he would feel uncomfortable being seen with a white woman at a black club or anywhere. I know he's not against interracial dating if I want to do it, but I don't know he feels about it for himself. I know he finds me attractive - he practically ducks his head and blushes when he walks by me and nobody is looking - he is very handsome and a rapper of all things (I kid you not) - minor leagues but still he's not bad and has some videos that are not stupid. Anyway I asked him on Facebook and he hadn't seen it when I saw him at work today... I told him to check his FB because someone asked me if I was going to go to the concert, and I said I was... I have had no response as of 10:00pm tonight. A little nervous... he's probably going to say no. Either because he doesn't like Elle Varner or he'd be too uncomfortable to go with me. Are African American Muslim men really against dating white women? I don't know - it's just an assumption.
