Covered that already. I like to think I spare my partners the gory details of my past relationships. There are certain things that just don't need to be brought up in a relationship.... among those are: "Am I the best?" "Am I the biggest?" "Have you ever been with a ____________ before?" "Have you ever done (or had done) ___________?" "HOW MANY PARTNERS HAVE YOU HAD?" Leave the past in the past, I don't need to know the specifics... especially where the specifics reaches the hundreds... and yes, she DID say 'hundreds'.
Most people do ask but my point is aren't you "pretending" they are virginal if you go the ignorance is bliss route? It doesn't change how many they slept with. It may let you pretend you have found a lily white virgin. But you are just........pretending. :smt102
Nope, not pretending anything. I KNOW everybody has a past, I just don't need to know every little specific. It's not an ignorance thing at all. Why would anybody want to know every little detail of their lovers past (especially sexual) is beyond me. What's important is who she is with now and what she's doing now.
Maybe he just knows a number.....and not details. Most guys will eventually say.....soooooooooooo how many guys have you slept with in your life or what were you like in college.......did you sleep with the whole football team. It's just something they do. :neutral:
Agreed. It's something I *used* to do, then I realized that nothing useful comes of that information. I've also had girls ask me how many women I've been with, only to have that number (2) thrown back in my face later.
All I'm saying is the number doesn't change whether you know or not. People change. So people shouldn't judge curley's friend because she has slept with quite a few more guys than most people ever will and will admit it. BTW I am "pretending" you are a virgin. Don't ruin it for me.
Lol I wonder if I repoer this insulting post what will happen? You said I was beinf ignorant as if I didnt know what i was talking about and I proved you wrong. You crack me up kid lol
_____________________________________________________________ O.K. cutey shoes, you can't have it both ways........what's it gonna be....
one Good thing about being single compared to when I was in my former relationship: -not having to spend free days sit on the couch to watch Terminator, Hitman, or some other crap he liked. Well I must admit I enjoyed "The dark night" (THE MOVIE!!!) though. LOL
Psychological is mental, wired is biological. Yes, culture has dictated (conditioned?) women to stick to one man and men to enjoy many women....but if you break it down to just base sex, a woman wanting one man enter her 100x = 100x. A man wanting to enter 100 pussies = 100x. Therefore, both men and women are wired to want to fuck 100x. So I agree with you on the physiological issue...which cover a gamut of reasons, good and bad. So suggesting a partner bounce (male or female), the reason WHY there is 100 sex partners should factor if they bounce or not, imo.
Damn Bliss. That's math I can get behind. Not the having many different men part. I'm not THAT kind of slut. I will slut it all up for that one man tho.
That's right Bliss. Good post. My most concerning thing is the STDs. If a girl has too many sex partners and gets a sexually transmitted disease, she could die and lose her life. That's the scary thing about sexual partners, in my opinion.
Really not yours or anyone else's business, now is it? Thanks for trying to blast me. We've been apart and seeing other people since Feb 2011. Had to technically be separated for 1 year since we have kids. Would you like anymore personal details?? perhaps that he was abusive...or that he left me and had an entirely separate life outside of our family... Point being you clearly have no idea. Really... petty to put me out there like that for the mere sake of making me look bad or give you and your peers someone else to talk about.
