How do you deal with media/subtle society bias to prevent BM & WW of getting together

Please do not read thread if you don't believe racism exists.


How do you deal with the media/societal bias to make BM less attractive.

I notice a lot of subliminal programming in the media and amongst societal relationships when it comes to inter-racial dating and even in person.

I am tired of seeing W all day on TV, and when they show BM its in a negative context. I even see how it affect my WW, the conversation pivots, as if, now I am supposed to be subservient to her. Its a false sense of W superiority.

I think I need to turn off the TV.

I am tired of hearing W make random remarks on my conversation or in my presence. Their assessment of BM is so wrong...and I think it affect IR relationships...I really do. The WW starts repeating the words unconsciously/subconsciously.

How do yall deal, when there is negative information about each other in the media? Do you take a side? Do you sympathize? Or is it, us versus them mentality?

 

white woman still prefer black males so i dont care. i just ride dat white pussy and laugh at the racists

 

Yeah, I know...how do you deal with the subliminal out in public...or chick who done seeme something on TV/public tryna act up

just ignore em/talk with em

 

I only saw part of this picture and none of the member's avi and still knew who posted it! :smt043:smt043:smt043

 

Date women who don't pay attention to US culture and you won't have to face this problem. Seriously though, the environment you immerse yourself in can make this either easy or difficult.

 

communication. talk about whatever issue it is. Openness is key to any relationship.

 

European white women are the most open interracially, I find! American white women are much more affected by racial stigma's than European women when it comes to dating outside racial lines.

 

Why are you still watching tv?

 

I know this site is very US centric and that's cool. But honestly you guys both men and women need to "invade" the UK. You have no idea how stress free and common it is over here. We don't even call IR over here and never have. Just date and play with whom ever you want.

That being said its far too easy for me to say that as the history in both nations could not be any more different.

 

Well....yeah, obviously.

 

Caerdydd,there had been IR for centuries in the UK. Sure there was some prejudice in those years but,somehow it survives and thrives. That scene in the opening ceremonies of the Olympic games was fantastic.

 

Cardiff is but its no different to other UK cities, in fact I was recently in Torquay for the 2nd time and WW were more then open to BM. Norwich I have visited and that was the same. I still stand by what I said, Americans would have a field day dating us Brits. You Oz and Continental ladies are MORE than welcome too. :yawinkle:

Subtle racism is not something to be taken lightly but it is a place that is easier to make progress from IMO. Slavery, Jim Crow and all that is related to them wasn't just a Black holocaust, for the oppressors it was also a crime against their own humanity.

 

I'm looking to take a few trips out to London. I've been strongly considering the move for a few years now and its time I put things in progress and plan a method to making this happen soon. Should be interesting to see how it all plays out.

 

you will not regret it la....!!!! brilliant decision:smt003

 

Thank you, I am excited to get the experience!

Just a matter of time!

 

Sorry to throw cold water on your adventure but I don't think it's worth it. Arguably in some ways, London is actually worse with race relations than in America.

http://www.whitewomenblackmen.com/forum/showthread.php?t=22062

Plus we had the riot that occurred last year throughout London as well.

 

Have you ever been there? Have you ever lived there? For how long?


Thanks but I'm still going.

 

Mikey, I hope you are not the troll who disses the UK every time there was a chance.

 

I love the UK and hope to visit London soon.