I feel you on this one. Same here. Hey, wait a minute...are you saying some of us come here being on pms looking for a fight? LOL Just kiddin....
Oh Unique, thank you for your defense..but TDK and I will never find the same language, I cannot remember anymore, how much I asked him to put me on ignore. Normally I scroll over his posts, because it's hurtfull to read that degrading posts over and over again. What he calls passive-aggressive is minimal respect for me. Of course I could name him, call him what ever comes in my mind, but I am rational, polite and controlled and I will never change that.
Nice one lol but if you think I'm passive aggressive on any level you obviously don't read what I write lol
No, LOL! ALTHOUGH, with you as a world leader...hmmm But seriously, I do wonder with the exchanges you have had with a few of the women here, if you have taken anything from it..has anything perhaps made you see some things that might be worth introspecting on. And even if not on a personal level, just from a general perspective on how much delivery and approach mean to people in their desire to engage in a conversation with another....?
I've explained it on this forum before. If you people think I have gotten as far as I have in life without understanding social conduct then you guys really just see what you want to see. I come on here to discuss certain topics, mainly IR experiences, unincumbered by social convention. If I wanted to exercise proper edict then I wouldn't post on here to begin with. It's exhausting and in my opinion unnecessary to get ideas across. The one thing I have learned is that debates on any level is pointless with adults. We get to a certain point where we believe we know all we'll ever need to know about something and we cling to that. I've yet to see a debate end in "oh wow I see your point" or "wow I never thought of it that way". Its usually a bunch of know it alls(yes I know I have done it too) who stick to their guns no matter what. I honestly have tried to keep an open mind on some topics like BBW's ideas on atheism. That shit wrecked my whole world for an entire week one time after reading a series of his arguments because I was willing to learn about something I didn't agree with. I've also tried to see dating through the eyes of people on this board but am quickly reminded of where I'm from and where I live when I try to apply it. So yes I have tried to hear others but no one ever tries to hear me. Its easier to paint me as a rude asshole who doesn't get along with anyone. Its cool I'll play the villain but you also have to ask why so many women (and its only the women as far as I've seen) that have a problem with me continue to engage me. At that point don't they have to take responsibility for their own frustration?
Haha y'al a trip. I got a big fish to fry than to care about some stranger's opinion about my blk ass. I go out there in the real world hustle like a mofo at big boy's club in white man's world, I will worry when my boss opinion about me changes, internetzzzz opinion, hahahaha, come again.
I can admit that men can be mean spirited. But from some of the posts that women have made, I honestly cannot see how they did not expect to not be booted out of the forum. You have to realize that maybe keeping some of your sexual conquests a secret, atleast until you find someone who will not think you are a slut is a good idea. I remember some posts, where the women were trying to politely tell her "wow that must have been awesome, but don't post the details here." I admit this site is nothing without women, but somethings just need to be said in a certain way or not at all. Whether you are a slut or not, if you represent yourself as one over the internet, that is all people will see. Do 100 great things, and one horrible, the bad is all people remember.
