When you joined this forum - what was your story?

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by FEHG, Oct 24, 2008.

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  1. Patsound

    Patsound New Member

    I joined just for curiosity.
    I'm married, but looking for pure pleasure.
    That's the truth.
     
    Patsound, Sep 19, 2011
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  2. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    That may be the truth, but that's not what the forum is for. It's extremely doubtful you'll find that here.

    You could try the personals (click "site navigation" above, then click "personals") where you may have some luck finding "pleasure", or you could take the simpler approach & visit a brothel.

    Have a nice day. :cool:
     
    Tamstrong, Sep 19, 2011
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  3. Athena

    Athena New Member

    Although you and I aren't here for this Tam, truthfully there's plenty of long time posters who are married and here for this very reason...
     
    Athena, Sep 19, 2011
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  4. wtarshi

    wtarshi Well-Known Member

    indeed there are
     
    wtarshi, Sep 19, 2011
    #404
  5. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    Yeah, you're right, Athena. There seems to be several floating around in here. It's sad to me when folks seem to think that's what we're about though.

    I also couldn't resist being a smart-ass, but of course when it comes to me, that's a given. ;)

    At least the new guy was actually honest about it, & that doesn't seem to be a common thing with the married folks who're on that mission.
     
    Tamstrong, Sep 19, 2011
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  6. Patsound

    Patsound New Member

    True.. I know that I don't stand a chance finding anybody here. We are all scattered around the world.. I just thought it'll be great to join a forum where I can find a white woman who likes black man. (Openly for that matter).
     
    Patsound, Sep 19, 2011
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  7. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    I do appreciate the fact that you were honest about yourself. I don't condone cheating for any reason, but I know what other folks do is their business whether I approve or not.

    As long as you are respectful & continue to be honest about yourself, it shouldn't be too hard for me be nice. :cool:
     
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    Tamstrong, Sep 19, 2011
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  8. TreePixie

    TreePixie New Member

    We appreciate your finer qualities, Tam :)
     
    TreePixie, Sep 19, 2011
    #408
  9. Athena

    Athena New Member

    I love your smart-assedness!! :smt054
    And I totally agree, at least the new one was honest!
     
    Athena, Sep 19, 2011
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  10. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    Thanks, Pixie. It's nice to be appreciated. :mrgreen:
     
    Tamstrong, Sep 19, 2011
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  11. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    Thanks, Athena. I'm glad it's a loveable quality because I'm stuck with it. :smt080

    Yep, & as long as he doesn't act like a Jethro, there shouldn't be much need to give him a hard time. ;)
     
    Tamstrong, Sep 19, 2011
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  12. Patsound

    Patsound New Member

    I'm not sure who Jertho is, but I got manners lol..
    I added a small profile picture..
     
    Patsound, Sep 19, 2011
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  13. Blacktiger2005

    Blacktiger2005 Well-Known Member

    At the time I was dating the woman who eventually became my wife. I was scared to death to ask her at the time if she would marry me. I expected to be rejected. I originally came here to get advice by reading the threads for almost a year before I joined. She would surprised me later to tell me she would marry me, despite her family and friends. Like that old song by Percy Sledge "When a Man Loves a Woman", there is much truth to it. We would go through hell for the woman we want.
     
    Blacktiger2005, Sep 22, 2011
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  14. Caerdydd

    Caerdydd Active Member

    I've just recently joined..

    Status - Single - Was seeing a beautiful girl from Poland a few months ago but a death in her family meant she had to leave the UK and go home to support her mother.

    Reasons for joining the site - Hopefully to make new friends - Plus get an international perspective and understanding on white women and black men being attracted to and completely fascinated with each other.
     
    Caerdydd, Sep 27, 2011
    #414
  15. MiraiMi

    MiraiMi New Member

    1. What was your "status" when you joined up?

    Single

    2. What were you hoping to get from this forum/site?

    Good conversation.

    3. Has either of those changed since you joined?

    uhh... no... yes... maybe...

    @Caerdydd: I had the same deal but she was from Norway
     
    MiraiMi, Oct 4, 2011
    #415
  16. alexisnow

    alexisnow New Member

    When you joined this forum-what was your story?......

    Ms. Tamstrong,

    greetings to you maam, i wanted to let you know that i've always found your posts to be helpful, and loaded with common sense thinking. i also have appreciated your self effacing manner, and your humor too. i think you're a smart lady also. hope you're having a nice day today,



    alexis
     
    alexisnow, Oct 4, 2011
    #416
  17. jayxobsession

    jayxobsession New Member

    My status when I first joined was in a relationship. I was hoping to find some nice people to talk to, make friendship. Things of that nature. And yes, my status has now I'm currently single.
     
    jayxobsession, Nov 11, 2011
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  18. newfun

    newfun New Member

    well....

    I was and am single (divorced) but with a bf, and curious about an IR relationship. figured I could start working on my bucket list. LOL This is a fairly small town and not much opportunity here for a discreet relationship. SW MI.
     
    newfun, Nov 16, 2011
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  19. Black DeNiro

    Black DeNiro Well-Known Member

    So what's holding you back from leaving that small town? Why not move to a bigger city.
     
    Black DeNiro, Nov 16, 2011
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  20. TreePixie

    TreePixie New Member

    Implying that an IR is "on your bucket list" is kind of insulting to BM - especially as you're expecting it to be an "on the side" thing since you already have a boyfriend, and you expect it to be "discreet."

    It comes across like sex with a black man is something you want to "tick off" on your list - which is pretty objectifying.
     
    TreePixie, Nov 17, 2011
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