The Negative Thread

First comes the assumption of ugly/fat/dried up, next up, you're a seekrit lesbian man hater...I could go on, it's a simple pattern repeated over and over again.

It's typical attack mode, it's all over the internet where ever independent smart minded women gather and dare to disagree with men who are insecure and intolerant.

 

I couldn't, I have to spread it around first.

 

Persephone, how many points did you lose? Multiply that number by 2 and you'll know who gave you the rep.

 

Being open to dating Black men as you would any other man in the United States in 2011 is definitely a deviation from the social mainstream of this country. It shows maturity and open mindedness not the "I think all people are equal" lip service while you only hang out with people who look like you but true open mindedness.

 

I don't fully agree Andrae, I think it is based on what region of the United States you are in. In a state like South Carolina or Georgia for instance BW and WM would act more vocal towards relationships involving BM/WW because of racial hangups and the history of the state.

The Northeast is more politically liberal, so you would have to deal with less intolerance, although the intolerance isn't eliminated completely. Trust me man, your game is great in NYC, just as great as it is where I live as well, which is known as the DMV (District, Maryland, Virginia).

 

Yeh there are so many reps I want to send out but am also stuck and cant rep.

Errr no. It does NOT mean maturity and open-mindedness. WTF DK??? It is simply a preference.

 

Wow LB you didn't tell me you were moving to the states. How long you staying girl?

 

Ah whatever. Am unsubscribing from this thread. Can't even handle reading this anymore. Sorry DK but you've lost me right here dude.

 

Thanks for the rep, Mikey, I appreciate the thought, but most of the time I never even look at how many points I have...I honestly have no idea what number it is right now. I just look at the comments, because 99 percent of the time theyre pleasant and or communication from ppl I appreciate hearing from. I dont get negative rep often, and its not the subtraction of points that bothers me, its the fact that most of the neg comments have nothing really to do with the post in question, its generally an insult towards my weight. Its ridiculous in the first place that anyone would even stoop to such ignorant behaviour, but the fact that these reprehensible insults apparently stem from the fact that dumb assholes think they know what my body looks like when theyve never even seen it is pretty stupid. Just because Im not posting underwear shots doesnt mean I look like shit, and even if that were the case its nobodys goddamn business what I look like naked, except my boyfriend's, and he cant keep his hands off me.

 

Nah, don't sweat it, it isn't that bad. I also suspect that it possibly could have been another female on here that said that to you in the rep as well. Or it could be one of the guys that Nerdy Girl referred to. Maybe if we could figure it out, we could put him/her on blast.

Women deserve some more respect on the site. We know who's guilty of causing those problems.

 

Agreed. Theres way too much bashing going on.

 

Yeah, that's right.

Also, I'll name names of the perpetrators who caused it in all caps as well, give me a few minutes.

 

No need to do that. It would be helpful if you didnt.

 

We need to make it obvious, however. Some people still can't figure it out.

Like it or not, I'm posting it because I have the will and courage to do so and I actually give a damn about the quality of the site. If some people get emotional and bent out of shape about the truth with who's shown disdain to white women on this site, that's their loss.

- APPIAH
- IGGY
- GOODLOVE
- KARMA
- DARK KNIGHT
- YMRA
- PETTY
- FREDDY

(currently so far)

 

Hmmm. You're not ghetto minded, so you say, but once again going for the petty insult I see to put me in my place. Very rational & logical that was. I didn't know any better I'd think I got under your skin. "Dumb old man ain't givin' me my due respect." And aren't you the guy that's always quick to call others sensitive? Hmmm...

But anyway, I don't buy that you do all the things that you say you do. It's smoke & mirrors just like with everything you do on this forum. You've finally overplayed the I'm "intellect & logical" card that you have used to rationalize all the ignorant and petty things you say and it's catching up with you and everyone sees you for how you really are. And all because of stupid ego & insecurity. Such a waste, son. Such a waste. You're a prime example of why we as black men still don't get the respect we are owed.

 

lippy agrees...this isn't rocket science...not hard to figure out

 

Lol wait.....ra sux BBC now

damn homie

 

Before I leave this thread and not post anymore in it, I wanted to address this. I understand both sides of this equation. I've lived both sides. I just didn't feel the need to write out a long thesis explaining both sides.

I understand the highs and lows of being with men of varying financial backgrounds.

Also, when I stated about it not being in my top 10, I didn't literally mean my top 10. It's not that important to me, I don't have a set list of qualities I look for, I just rounded up to the next even number past 5.

It's not based on anything scientific. I was merely talking about my own experiences and feelings on the matter. My words were not meant to be taken literally. :smt023

 

I'm not trying to stir any pot, I just posted my initial reaction to Fredrick's post. Sorry if you took offense.

I have admonished Fredrick and others for the very behavior you are speaking about countless times (this is where you probably witnessed the many “accolades' from my female “lapdogs”), but alas, he can drop some truths no matter how scathing. I'm glad you swearing off Black men was not one of them.

I have male and female members that like what I post. I relate to them as people, not as representatives of “the men” or “the women”. This is not the virtual White Women Mixer for me. I treat my female friends in a sisterly manner, and have White Women in real life I think of as family. If and when I decide to dig into a female poster, it will be on her demerits alone.

 

Yeah, right. You'll be back. I guarantee it.


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