What is a BW loyalist?

settle down and relax, btw it's still a stupid thread.....

 

But I thought you said you live in Montgomery Country MD? I'm so confused. You talk as if you live in Iowa.

PLUS if you went to Montgomery Community College, its CHUCK FULL of black women.

 

Wouldn't hurt my feeling if Bubbalove or TerraStar Jones were to leave and never come back.

Oh yeah, take Little Mikey with you.

 

Ymra, I'm in Howard County not Montgomery.

I'd doubt they'd leave, unfortunately. I'm not really here just to agree with what they say about BW. I understand what they say but I'm not here only to defend BW and claim to have interest in WW. I really am trying to get somewhere with WW. It's already been stated by people on here that I haven't dated/have sex with anyone yet. Just give me a chance, I'll get with white women soon. Also, I know that BW would get upset, but nothing has really happened to me to cause me to have problems with BW. I just prefer WW over BW, that's all. My first few posts that I made when I joined here indicated that. I hold views that are similar to what Lippy's views are in terms of our discussions about black women. Discussions about black women, asian women, and misc races of women shouldn't be discussed within the Men's locker room. I agreed with you and the others about that.

 

Even still,

And the number of interracial couples are faaaaaaaaaaaar more than in Montgomery County. There are 12 highschool in Howard Country....

Howard County has a black population of upward of 20%, Far more than the national average.

So young brutha this is simply not true.......not true at all. I've lived in Howard county for the past 10 years. My nephew graduated from Oakland Mills and I have niece that graduate from Marriotts Ridge.

The idea that there aren't any black women where you live is incorrect. You live in the Metro DC / Baltimore area.

Hey....YOU DON'T HAVE TO LIE TO KICK IT.

 

Ok, man you're right. My parents weren't aren't really on-board with the idea of me dating white women. At least now, they aren't demanding that I shouldn't do it, they just state "No, I'm not into it". Also, I'm not sure if you knew or not but my parents are from the Caribbean, they aren't really African Americans, so that's a complication for me.

 

Well this is better than suggesting you don't see any black people in Howard County, that was just incorrect.

 

I never stated I dont love WW...where did I say that ? show me. I stated there is no need to degrade BW so you can feel good about dating WW. Its not cool. PERIOD.

Who are you at war with ? Is it the racist white guy ? BW ? who ? who are you soooo upset at and what about ?

Im just saying like I stated before in the other thread stop being a hypocrite and stop being so upset at BW.


Its a waste of time and energy. chill the fuck out. your tone from the start has been foul. should I take the blame on this ? a little . why ? because MY tone in that defense of my skin color. It is extremely disgusting that MEN have to throw another demographic under the bus and piss on em to justify dating outside their race. You dont have to do that shit. Fred douglass was married to a BW first then when she died he married a WW. did he diss BW when he married a WW ? Nope.

you dont see skip gates dissing BW. why ? because he is a Black man. A MAN.

hell WW have just as much reasons to hate WM ..... history of discrimination and abuse..look at the organization N.O.W. and what they stand for you dont see them talking slick about WM. no, they take it to the media and tell it. that is what BM need to do. WM are doing that samething now. they have mens advocacy groups to get custody and visitations and what not. so if you have a problem...then let your voice be heard in a proper manner

partner no need to do that shit. its one thing to have issues with them but damn dude. everyone critiques but its another to throw em under the bus.

 

that goes well with that thread you started about that gurl hiding her man

 

Due to the fact where you’ve repeatedly said that you’ve never dated a WW and you’re supposedly a "grown man", that would lead me to believe that you either don’t love WW or you’re too afraid to ever date one. Now you’re saying that I’m somehow degrading BW and throwing them under the bus because I’d rather look at pictures of WW? Wow. Really??? Is that your claim against me now?

I can see how others on this forum have made negative comments about BW in the past, but once again you’re accusing me of doing something I didn’t do which is very childish on your part. I’m not at war with anyone; I just wanna live my life peacefully and enjoy WW like majority of the BM on this forum. By calling me a hypocrite you’re resorting to the same kind of childish attitude that got you into this situation in the first place.

Yes, you need to take complete and total blame for this because you posted in my thread when I asked you not to. If I wanna post WW in a troll thread where that user has been banned then I’ll do as I damn well please. Who the hell do you think you are to tell me not to? I don’t diss BW on this forum and I never will. From this point forward I don’t care to ever discuss BW again. If others on the forum want to then that’s "their" choice.

Like I said in the past I was raised by two black women, both of whom I love very much and they both respect my preference in who I choose to date. Funny part about that is how they have more acceptance of interracial relationships between WW and BM than you obviously do.

I’m not the one who’s defending a troll thread, you are.

 

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Well said!!!

 

I hold my own POV about this (I'm not siding with anyone here) but to be fair to both sides, this question lingers over the concept of interracial relationships, in general. I would vouch for TS and say that he doesn't create hate threads or hate speech about BW so Goodlove is wrong, at least in that part of his argument.

Are interracial relationships based on love or self-hate?
This question would always be criticized by people who think they're based on self hate and there's really not much that an "outsider" can do to impact your relationship that you have. Even if some IRs are based on self-hate, there's nothing you can really do to "reverse" or "condemn" IR. The number of IRs are increasing rapidly throughout the country, so I think it's not completely about hate, it's a movement away from conservative social standards that we should embrace.