Don't feel bad Julie. What you do with your personal life is definitely your business. There are several people on here who are married also. In fact there are some very whorish people here. All you need to do is look at the title of some of the threads to realize that. Enjoy your membership here. You don't have to leave because your lifestyle doesn't meet their criteria. You may not be an angel, but neither are they. Know that they do not represent everyone at this forum. They just tend to make more noise. Again, I say...Welcome to the forum.
This may be her first interracial relationship and she likely was looking for an outlet for her feelings whether they be guilty or not. I admit that saying you are having an affair is not something I would have done, but honestly this is a very mild post compared to some of the sexual posts that women here have made. It's different when you say I am having sex, compared to I am having sex with some besides my husband. Julie, your post will likely never be forgotten by the people who read it, but I say again, it was very tame compared to other posts. If you do not believe me, look for threads with sexual themes. Welcome.
I think the only part which threw me off was when said something like "this is where I met my black man". That sounded like she talks about a pet. I think it was just bad wording though. Its her business whether or not she is cheating and if she is getting a divorce or not. Im sure the guy she is cheating with is getting what he wants out of it. I doubt he feels like a victim when they are getting it on. Btw, who knows how he talks about her with his friends?
It figures a European would be the voice of reason here. Americans so willing to wag their fingers when they themselves live in glass houses SMH
LoL...a friend of mine refers to her BM as her exotic pet, but it's said in an affectionate way though.
another thank you Maybe I was wrong for telling my business, but I thought I was just being honest about why I was here. Since I started what I was doing I am attracted to the black man which is what the name of the site is. Yes I am married, but something new is in my life now and on this site I can express it. Wow I was wrong I guess, but I am not going anywhere.
Trust me...you are not the only white woman in America cheating on her husband with a black man. What you're doing is no more different than white men who have cheated for years on their white wives with black women. How dare anyone here try to make you out to be some kind of immoral freak when this sort of thing has been going on for centuries. Chocolate on any side, female or male is just too hard to resist for some people.:smt042
True. People like this just annoy the hell out of me. That level of selfishness is exactly what's wrong with the world. People choosing their cheap immediate needs over the well being of others. Its plain wrong.
Like I said b4 many pages ago, I am a nobody so it ain't my place or my fucken biz to judge you as I do not know your circumstances or care to butt in... just wish more folks on positive note of IR join our spot than down lows, trannys, women who want to strap on, BW with agenda, cheating spouses, expriemental WW or couples so forth. Anyhoo, as long as you're not here to cause commotion, welcome, pull a chair and chill.
Yeah but we can't judge. We only answer for ourselves. We can only feel for the kids. They are the only true victims. Adults have the power to say and do.....walk out or leave. Kids depend on the adults.
