Why You're Not Married

Stick to YOUR beliefs. Marriage is not for everyone. So many ups and downs and compromises. Definitely a roller coaster of emotions at times.

When you feel like you have met Mr. Right then go for it, but only when you are absolutely sure that all of your needs are met.

Dont think it will happen later. If your needs are not met TODAY then I advise you to please walk away, no matter how good you feel.

You will end up losing yourself (Giver) for some one who will never fulfill your expectations.

I have been there in the past and I dont want to go there again. Next time ( if there is ever a next time) I will be sure that my needs are met up front.

Hopefully the person you choose will be honest enough to tell you what they think of your needs/expectations up front, and not tell you after the fact that they can not or will not honor/comply with your needs.

Today I am fortunate to have someone in my life who I can talk to and get an honest response from. I am truly lucky. I hope that you will be too.

 

People in UNHAPPY marriages are sicker and have shorter lifespans an are more prone to depression than single people.That is from a proper study too.

 

Coz I have not found a rich dried up prune who is on oxygen tank with no relatives to divide her large bank accounts with.

 

Its funny how you never see men doing that to women. I wonder why.

 

uh, happens and its not terribly uncommon. there is even a term for that - in Sweden, its called "sol och varare" - sun and spring promises...

 

I guess the media doesn't show it because I never hear about it. Now young women with old men with money is like rain fall lol

 

what part of Sweden is that? I need to immigrate there and set up a shop.

 

These stories pop up now and then and come from all over the world. We just have a specific term for it.

I can chat w my grandmothers friends an hook u up - LOL - she is 92.

 

That sounds the right demographics, all one has to do is crank down their Oxygen and then viola laughing all the way to chase bank

 

Oh my LOL.....

 

I'm not married because I think it is overrated

 

Yeah is was...LOL....I am in a way better place now. I get a bit defensive when people ask me why I have not maried again. Answer is I am still finding myself as an unmarried woman. I married at 19 and gave 20 years of my life to one man that I had stopped loving long before the divorce. We thank god and still friends and love and can spend time together with our grown kids and our beautiful grandaughter. I am back together with a wonderful man who I have been involved, and he do want to spend the rest of our lives together, so I am changing my mind about marriage.

 

Shallowness is a problem for both sexes. Biologically speaking, women are attracted to men who are good looking -"healthy" looking, although the good-looking part can be compromised in lieu of the fact the man has much to provide monetarily speaking because it translates to offspring for whom are well-provided (as men complain, a "golddigger.") Men are attracted to women who appear to be healthy and fertile looking (as women complain, men only want big tits/ass.) An intelligent, well-rounded person understands that to be happy with your mate you need more than what your brain is telling you is biologically required. Some men and women are just less evolved than others.

 

Repped.

 

Aww thanks!