thanks dude.

 

You're welcome.

 

Now that is a very accurate interpretation of what I said. I could not have said it better!

 

Being a good woman or a good man has nothing to do with looks. I was referring to a woman's character. But you know as well as I do that some skinny women are celebrated as trophies. Just take a look at mainstream magazines like Black Men, Maxim, Playboy, Sports Illustrated's Swimsuit edition, and any pinup calendar that is sold in a mainstream outlet.

With that said, I do not think character has anything to do with looks or that either a skinny woman or a fat woman was better than the other.


But you know as well as I do that we live in a society that equates human worth with having looks that are celebrated/approved of by the advertisers and the dominant culture.

 

Fixed

 

LOL! I love when you do that....

 

I am getting annoyed with all these big girls complaining about the pin ups in Maxim and FHM showing only lean, inshape girls.

Tell me big girls, what womens magazines show big, fat guys in them for you to lust over???

Thats right there are none. In fact, where are all the "plus size" male models at? Never see any of them on the catwalk do we?

Women want their cake and eat it too. Heck, big women want their cake, a side of fries, popcorn and a shake too.

I see the type of guys that they females on here drool over and they are all lean or musclar or ripped like superheros. And they expect us to drool over fat chicks???? Fuck that noise.

Oh and the reason why these magazines show only the hot, slim trim is cause thats what sells. ANd when it comes down to it, its all about the profits baby

 

gurl you look good in them jeans. thats a bro mans dream to see a shape like that in those jeans.

*like my rapping skills. LOL

 

You know if you pay attention to who revives certain threads, it becomes apparent that some people just love controversy. They aren't happy on WWBM unless people are arguing. Sad really, they must just truly have such a pathetic life to crave creating discord.

 

:smt023

 

Oh waah, its an internet forum. Cry me a river sheesh.

:smt042

 

Where did that come from fam?

 

Not really a big deal but it annoys me that all these "plus size" females want guys to accept them as the norm for what is sexy and what a "real woman" looks like...all while drooling over chisled, musclar men. Seems a tad bit hypocritical ya dig?:wink:

 

pfffffft those arent 'real men'

 

Bullshit hypocricies will always exist. You know how many times people have tried to tell me I'm not really black because I don't watch certain shows or listen to certain music or because I love snowboarding and white water rafting?
People always have ridiculous standards, I just let them rock because they have to live with their ridiculous notions I don't. If they can get those dudes they like more power to them as long as I'm not the one fucking them who cares, but one thing I've learned from this board is there is a lot more racial unawareness then I could have imagined. These women (and yes I mean every single one I've spoken to on here thus far) are oblivious to how that's racism in a sense. What's celebrated as beautiful through out the vast majority of the industrialized world doesn't seem to be as available to bm. It's kind of weird to me.

 

You need to watch it Andrae, I know for a fact that's inaccurate.

 

Excuse the accusatory tone baby girl but again its one of those things you don't have experience so you truly can't know. I'm not saying you can't be sympathetic but for the most part you guys can't see how that's covert racism. I seriously wish I had visual aides to support my point because words aren't enough for this one.

 

What is it that you think is covert racism? That some overweight women will only date fit men, and I'm assuming black men in particular?

 

I think its an obvious disproportionate distribution of wealth. It may be my own myopic view of the world but when I see average to healthy in shape bm dating overweight ww at a siproportionate rate than any other race in this country something in me says there's a problem. Granted I have no statistical proof to back it up but through out my life I've seen way more big girls with bm than any other race by far and I honestly don't believe all those men are chubby chasers. Like I said I wish I had some visual aides.