I been all around this country and I've seen all types of women with all types of men. Most of the time when I see a plus size white woman she's usually with a white man. It's common to see all types of men with plus size woman. In general everyone dates regular people for the most part. I don't see one group of men and women getting something that other groups are not getting. But how a person thinks ultimately effects their perception of reality. People usually embrace things that reinforces their beliefs and brush shit that contradict their beliefs. For example; my little cousin is a big girl. She believes that nobody wants her because she's big when I see dudes with big girls all the day every day. In her reality, these type of men don't exist even though they're everywhere. You got a lot of regular niggas who believe that black women only want thugs. When in reality you got lots of black women who don't want nothing to do with niggas who play the street. You would never convince some of these niggas that those type of black women exist. It's truth to all of the valid points you've made. But it's also truth to points that I have made. You got a lot of plus size white women who only fuck with us because they think no one else wants them. When in the truth is you got men of all races that would want them. You got a lot of lame ass niggas that pursue white women because they believe that all black women want thugs. When the truth is the black women they have been exposed them simply because they some clown ass niggas. PS. You didn't get back at me the other night.
Ok so I wasn't going to say anything in this thread just wanted to read it thru but this point really made me wanna say something. That being is that I'm just curious if you ever thought about the fact that some of the "bottom of the barrel" women aka fat chicks or whatever have AVOIDED dating black men who are hitting on them for the EXACT same stereotype and stares because people think that "he's only with her cause she's fat and so therefore he can use her and abuse her".
That's because you left me speechless. (I know right?) I said it when I first met you - I've never met a man like you before. I will though...
I find it interesting that posters on this board are overly fixated with not dating BBWs. All I have to say is that that means more women for me to choose from. LOL There is nothing in this world as sexy as a woman who is built for comfort and not for speed.
Come on, give her a BREAK! I think it was a coincidence that she was at a low point in her life when she met that guy AND the guy approaching her was black. It was not his skin color, it was his ATTITUDE towards her. If that guy would have been white or yellow or red and treating her like a goddess it would have been great too. Believe me, if that guy would have approached her in a pimp way, she would not have considered him, no matter what skin color. For me skin color doesnt matter at all. I feel attracted to a person because of what I like to call "the whole package" which means the attitude, personality and - yeah of course he shouldnt be too damn ugly. I dated both, white and black men and the qualities I liked about them had nothing to do with the color of their skin. When it comes to love we all should be colorblind! :smt060
One nice thing about African American culture is that it is not abnormal for BM to desire and admire women who are larger than average.