Why I usually don't look at BBW

What the H happend to this thread???

It is clear that the men on here drool way more over hot tight women pictures than the women drooling over hot tight men pictures. There are 5 such pictures for every picture of a tight man body.
Yes there is a BBW thread, but y'all know that BB have gotten a LOT of shit for that and there are a gazzillion comments on there with the "eww" type centiment.

I think its a well know fact that men are more visually driven than women... and to clarify, I dont say that women are not - but we are not to the same degree as men.

To drool over 2% body fat men, does not mean that is what we would go for in real life... and I realize that goes for men also.


Me, personally, as Ive said before - prefer a big man.... in the 230lb range... muscles but with some padding.. I take that ANY day over a Tyreese tyoe body. Anyday!

 

Get the fuck outta here. That dude is 15 lbs overweight at most. He's not really big guys, good try though lol. Can we a pick of Anthony Anderson without a shirt on please.

 

Looks like Ima have to start packing on the pounds.

 

But isn't that the point? Where are the sexy pics of bigger fellas? Please, find me some!

 

I'm a straight guy so I wouldn't know but I know the difference between big and a little chubby and that dude its big

 

I tried to rep ya, Geek. My goodness there a some amazing minded women on this board, starting with you and this post right here! Even though you have an incredible figure, you also see it from the other side for your thicka sistas, AND you adore a thick man.

 

Thanks chika.. I just dont get why its even a discussion. Why cant people like what they like.. why does some people think they have a right to put somebody down for what they like. The taste is clearly an individual thing. and people wont change their taste just because someone feel the need to chastize them. I just dont get it... Perception is reality, and its individual.. this discssion just seem to come back up like a bad heartburn.

I dont think I have an incredible figure,, but thank you!!! But boy do you!!! - omg do you ever!!! I think my eyes left my eye-sockets when I saw your pics!!

I honestly think the majority of men on here would prefer your figure over mine. But Im fine w that as long as I get a little love from a 230lb man LOL.

 

Anthony is not good looking to me, so I don't find him attractive.

Now THIS guy I do...



And I'm not alone. I love his body...


hes a 3x.




he's 250 pds and 3x

There's a member here who is a BBBM (he knows who he is).

And let me say this...I see BBBM all the time in my city, however the odds of big men uploading their pics online or posing on all fours, is 1 to every 10 BBW. Its just the nature of the beast. Blame society for that. It doesn't mean when I'm near a big guy with swag and nice clothes that I'm not admiring him, cause I damn sure am.

 

Not to go back and forth with the compliments, but I want to say I think the majority of men in this country favor your body. And I respect that. It's tight, fit, has its own curves and while I don't know your age, your body looks about 23. So again mama, mad respect to you for genuineness.

 

I get it....

Trey, I loved this post. I really felt and appreciate WHY you are coming from where you are.

I will just say this again and it applies for the flipside, too...When you hear a white woman say she runs to brothas because White men don't want her, it's a lie. You saw my stats - she has a greater chance of scoring a white FA (fat admirer) than a black one. And her competition is brutal...single Black big women are more likely the majority, or at least thick is. It's because she wants a black man, or is curious. The fact that he welcomes into her his arms only adds to her comfort level to let loose, ya dig.

On the flip-side, the Black man who gripes..."black women want thugs that's why I date white women"...frankly any woman that buys that shit is a fool. Think about it..Black men...can't find a suitable Black woman. Riiight. His pool availability of that option is waaaay greater than scoring a single white woman who's into brothas. It's his way of getting the side-eye off his back, so to speak. What can the sistas say to him then, especially when it's usually followed with "the white bitch can have him I don't want him anyway". Well I guess she's just reiterating his point, isn't she, which for him puts an end to any potential drama right there.

Except the truth is, she's only saying it to save her pride and he's really saying it to be left alone in peace...to do what he's always desired to do - be with a white girl.

 

Look who is talking!! It is even an embarrassment that you call yourself black. I am not even sure you know what black looks like and for truth, you don't deserve to be talking on behalf of any other black man whether in America, Africa or in Mars. You are seriously suffering from irrecoverable mashed up esteem issues dude. But well, good luck as your scatter your ignorance all over the net.

 

I see!!

A little decorum and bit of self-control (temper control) might actually change our perception of some of our American brothers. But if how you have been "doing it" is anything to go by, then you have a long way to earn my respect Brother SORRY!!:smt069

 

Except for the kind of queens none of those guys would ever be considered fat

 

I agree. For a taller man, like 6 ft or above, 230 - 250 lbs is usually not considered "fat". And yeah, KOQ guy is the only bigger looking one to me.

 

That's playgirl, I'm talking about the ladies of THIS forum, whiks.

At any rate, I hit the gym 3 mornings /week, it used to be more before I started taking morning classes. I do MMA 5 nights a week, and when it's not rainy season I bike about 10mi /day. My most recent ex used to hate that I worked out so much. Not once did she stress over 6 pack abs, huge pecs.... I've honestly never felt so desired in my life. It's also really rare to see a woman who desires and prefers a 'normal bodied' man.

As far as this site goes, I stand by what I say. I'm not saying the men here never post the airbrushed fake ass models.... I've stated my position on that many times. What I am saying is that the men have more varied interest in the type of women they desire. I've seen threads for damn near every single body type, flat asses, phat asses, BBW, you name it. In comparison, using threads here as indicators, the women have a very limited selection of what they desire in a man.

 

Well you can believe what you choose to believe, my friend. I still stand by what I said earlier. But you didn't choose to respond to that part... :smt110

 

basically

only difference between some of the male/female posters here, is that the males are generally upfront with what they like and don't like, and won't think twice before making it known. the woman sugarcoat shit like Nestle

 

y'all have just got your knickers in a knot. :smt016

and none of you understand female attraction, but that's ok, I wouldn't expect you to.