Why I usually don't look at BBW

Thank you for this.

 

Damn girl I'm a little turned on right. I like how you dropped that. I will say this though its been said on more than one occasion by many ww "white guys don't approach me" a sentence like that will make any brotha wonder just a little bit.

 

Everything you said is pretty much on point and you're right convos like this can drive a wedge but I think the main reason of this thread was to vent on something a lot of us probably feel. I can acknowledge that quite a few of you are catches and any man white or black would be lucky to have you but its a little disconcerning when you work your ass off to be in shape and get a good education and it seems like your white female counter part doesn't exist for you. Karma made a great point when he said those creame of the crop ww are only holding out for wm and they don't always have to be creame of the crop. I get that its a myopic point of view I guess its easy to singular situations skew your pov. But I agree with you we have beat this topic to death so I'm tapping out beautiful.

 

You don't still own that catholic school girl outfit do you? Lol
I got mine

 

Sure do...it's always a good "go to" if I'm in desperate need of a costume on halloween lol:wink:

 

You are so right. This all any black man needs & I'll take it. I swear those of us black dudes that know how to treat a female, can get it done better then a lot of other races, we just have this ability, don't know how to quantify it, or explain it fully but we do. We see through the bs to the real shit, we are realistic with our desires, we admire beauty in way that can't be compared, and love strong and deeply. Any woman black, white or purple should be so lucky to fall in love with a black man--or any man for that matter, that can treat them right. But if you're having luck with a certain kind, why not exploit it, everyone deserves to be happy.

I understand that DB sparked an idea/repsonse from you Trey, but out all fariness, you could at least tell her that you're quoting her in/for a new thread.

DB, I would say it's not just wm that have this "date a fat chick, marry a supermodel" affliction, I would say that's most men. We sit here & ogle/drool/etc over the models, but in reality most won't get with these types of girls, & at the end of the day, that doesn't bother them because they like girls with meat on their bones just as much (they just don't want to admit to it because of social stigma). By the way, even if your experience is Disappearing from the white mans eye, I'd take you anyday of the week girl.

 

Ironically I'll be out by you around then so keep that costum handy sweetheart. Any resquests on your end?

 

As I said in another thread, I dont date big girls cause...

1) Not at all attractived to them physically. I'd of course be friends with em(which I am) but no way in hell I would date a fat/chubby/obese chick.
2) I think exercise and fitness is VERY important. My body is my temple. You only get one of them. Treat it well. It turns me off to see females completely let themselves go.
3) I like to pick up my gf and have her sit on my lap from time to time. With a big girl, that wouldnt be so enjoyable ya know? I am not a big fan of heavy lifting.

My type of female is the spinner type. Like Kristen Bell or that blonde cheerleader that was on Heroes. :smt060

 

lol when are you gonna be out this way? surprise me with your costume...although assless chaps are always a perfect Halloween accessory :butthead:

 

Sometime between the end of this month and the beginning of next month. I'm visiting my boy and his soon to be wife also team IR lol. Damn there goes my costume idea guess I'll have to be more creative lol

 

Awww man I didn't mean to ruin your ideas! Well, let me know if you want me to save the catholic school girl uniform for you instead. :smt061 :smt043

 

That's exactly what I'm saying Shephanie I think a lot of these women that big girls that claim to only date us are fake as shit.

 

Wow @ this thread

 

LoL, it always comes down to fat white women who are at the bottom of the barrel and the Bm that desires them, LoL. This place is a trip.

 

Same thread, different day

 

Ease up bruh. Although you do have a merit in your point regarding some obese, out of shape WW chasing BM due rejection from their own race and desperation but not all WW who are going after BM are left over of WM or bottom of the barrel of society. There're attractive WW who do go out with brothas, may not be a lot but they are out there.

2. Beauty is on the eye of the beholder, what is attractive to one may not be to another.

3. If an "overweight" WW is dating a BM coz she is attracted to him and always has been, then there should not be any big issues. She is willing to date BM wether she is a size 0 or 12.

4. I do not beleive in this divide and conquer shit, your staments about Africans being nothing but a jungle bunny is wrong. True there are Africans who do not have shoes or clean cloth on their backs but rest assure there are Africans in this country or Europe who are doing 100 X better than our fellow African Americans. Walk to any hospital, if you see 5 blk doctors, chance are 4 out of 5 are africans. Walk to any IVY league school 6 out 10 are africans, may be 2 or 3 are west indies. Whether you like it or not, they are representing you and me in higher places. The top neurosurgeon in this country is African (not Benjamin Carson no more), the top computer engineer in this country is African, most prestigious universities have African or west indies lecturers, even your president if you think about it, he is African (his father is Kenyan not African American). So I would not degrade fellow blacks so quickly. I am a big beleiver in black diaspora, they are our brethren and going thru struggle like us in this crazy world may be not the exact but similar similar struggle. How come the indians, chinese and the jews are willing to love and give hand to their kind with out regard to one's nationality or citizenship but not us, think about it bruh.