Sometimes people get nervous and say the dumbest shit on an attempt to be funny or smart. It may be worth a second look into it if her guts say so. Given precausion is be taken and you do it w eyes wide open and a readiness to just cut it short. I have once had a similar first "date" experience, I gave the guy a second chance after I told him straight out what I thought of the first experience.and it turned out great - he wasnt at all the crass, selfish idiot the first impression gave. Firts date didnt happen just as Tarshis but I agreed to a quick drink for the "second" date in my area, I wasnt willing to put major effort in it based on the first encounter - which i told him. It worked out very well. Is that the norm? No, mostly its like you say, Im no dummie or pushover - but sometimes it might be worth it.. I think only the person, in this case Tarshi, can get a tru feel for what was going on. Tarshi is no pushover, I think she can read it well enough to see if its even worth a "second" date.
thanks for your thoughts gals & guys...!!! i've decided to give him a second go & like geeky said, make it close to me. before that text on friday we'd been getting along quite well, so fingers crossed
Good on ya. Make sure the bar has bathrooms w a window you can climb out off;-) Good luck and let us know.
J ain't no girl, he's the stuff of legends, I heard once that he, just to save time because he'd bag them anyway, talked to three girls that each talked to three more girls until the entire lot of girls in the club were his. I mean that man had an embarrassing moment just to see what it was like to have one...of course he spent time in tutelage at the same school I'm from lol
lol...you're supposed to start fairy tales with..."once upon a time" and end with a..."they all lived happily ever after...the end"
We aren't a fairy tale or a wet dream, we are the real deal. the on;y comparisons we draw to dreams are the ones you have after we leave at 4:30am.
