articles that disses black men or does it

http://madamenoire.com/22660/8-reasons-to-date-a-white-man-30188/

I have always stated that I dont care about who you date as long as you dont throw your peeps under the bus.

8 points are stated on why black women should date white men instead of black men.

what do you have to say about this wonderful article.

 

Im assuming her hubby is white so Im gonna ask why you think she was dissing her hubby

 

did she ? I didnt see it. if so ....wooooow. I just jumped to the countdown.

 

yeah really. I may need to go back and read it. We the bro have a theory and it does like this...(I will keep it as terse as possible) we believe that bw have absolutely no respect for black men because they look at us as losers because we are perceived in the media as losers no matter how much we succeed or what hinders our progress. BW want to dominate bm instead of being our partners. BM want women to love us like we love them ..... we date ww because of various reasons but one common thread is that we are searching for peace and love.

 

:smt023

 

What that bitch can do is diss these nuts in her mutherfuckin mouth. Angry black bitches like her don't realize how much harm they cause the black female gender. Black men like myself (who genuinely prefer white women) don't give a fuck about black women, who they date, or what they have to say. Most of these articles are usually directed toward black men like myself. What hookers like this fail to realize is that they can't get to me with their racist insults. Only thing that they're doing is giving the black men who actually want them a reason not to fuck with them.

 

I appreciate your remarks. I do not pretend to fully understand women in general of any color. But I think it is fair to mention that women can be very complex. For example the author states she is"... married to a Black man—dark-skinned, 100 percent cocoa. To me, there is nothing more physically beautiful on this earth. Notice I said physically." is her love & appreciation for her husband primarily physical then? Notice she talks up the attributes of white men but, says nothing of the character of her own husband. That kind of 'love & appreciation' is not sufficient for a healthy relationship.

I could not marry or seriously date a woman that did not have generally positive views of BM. I would not risk having a son that would have to endure a mother like that, it would not be right or fair (I see the remnants of it daily).

I was 35 years old (three years ago) when I heard for the first time in my life a black woman tell a black man she loved him. I am not talking mother/son, sister/brother, love songs etc., I am talking wife to husband, girlfriend to boyfriend romantic love. I actually spoke openly with the BW (she was a secretary at work speaking to her black husband on the phone) about the 'incident'. It lead to some interesting conversations between us you can imagine. She tried to excuse the fact, but I could tell she was not able to offer justification for it. We knew each other very well, she knew I had dated both BW and WW. Even though I was never 'in love' with any of the BW I dated I did have love for them, when I told two of them I loved them neither of them responded in turn. In fairness both had difficult relations with men and I understood their caution, even after months of dating.

If some of these BW would just cool it, they could see that there are many good BM that still prefer them for whatever reason. But every time they open their mouths and spew out this hatred one more 'good BM' realizes that the world is big and that there are women who will open their hearts and will receive him for the man he really is.

I have said it before so I know everyone is tired of me saying but, if it wan't for the WW that been in my life I would have never known what it is like to be loved. Many BW made a choice not to love or respect me because I am a BM, but a handful of WW made a choice to love and respect me because I am a MAN.

 

I think you owe your mom an apology.

 

Amen. I am glad a female on here mentioned this instead of me lol.

A lot of it has to do with self entitlement issues. A lot of American women have big time self entitlement issues. They think they DESERVE a McDreamy doctor type of husband that makes big bank. They DESERVE the finer things in life. They DESERVE 3 beautiful children, a huge house in the suburbs and a Benz. They DESERVE the moon, the stars and everything else.

Hate to break it to some females, but you dont deserve anything really. Neither do I or anyone else for that matter. Lucky for me, I dont have an unrealistic outlook on life and am thankful for what I got.

Its always refreshing to meet females that DONT have these unrealistic expectations and views on things.

 

the other variable is that some people are not mature enough to know what love is and how it works.

 

Oh no doubt there are a LOT of great women out there still. They just arent as loud as the the self entitled snotty ones haha.

And I should of wrote my post a little better. Everyone should absolutely be respected and treated equally. There is no doubt about that. I should of made it clear inregards to my post. You shouldnt feel guilty about deserving respect and a healthy life. Everyone should have that.

I was merely alluding to the superficial things in life (huge house, rich husband, the finest clothes etc etc). I've come across a large amount of females that think they deserve all that superfical stuff. Boy, are they in for a letdown.:smt043