Quick question for black guys.

I'm completely respect where you coming from bro and you might be right. One thing I'll never do is pretend that I'm right on every issue. But let me clear a few things up so mistaken me for one of these "good" black men. I grew up in a black area and I've ran though plenty of black pussy. A lot of black women around here consider me to be sexy nigga. I can get up right at this second and go out there and get black chick with phat ass. So you're talking to one of these rejects that don't got no game and beefin with black women because he got ignored by them. In fact I'm the complete opposite. My issue I got with them has nothing to with bad relationships, their bad attitudes, or their appearance. Its about the bullshit that they do to black men and the trouble they cause. Its about the poor choices they make and want to turn around and blame black men for their lives being fucked up. That is the problem I got with them. By me never really desiring to date a black woman it's easy for me to hell with them all. I know most black men and people in general won't agree with me and respect their position. However, I don't give a fuck. In my heart and mind I feel that my assessment of black women is accurate based on everything that I've seen from them.

 

What he said.

 

Straight music I can't tell you how to feel but what you described are sorry ass women in general. As an adult I haven't much trouble getting any women I want. The girls I get are usually 5 to 7s maybe an 8 or a 9 when my swag is on a hundred thousand trillion despite race but I date ww because they just hold my interest better on a whole. Right now I'm dating several women and one of them is black. She's nerdy private school kid just like me so we have a lot of common ground. My point is a lot of sorry women happen to be black but not all bw are sorry ass women. Get out of the hood fam it'll make you happier all around.

 

About twelve percent of America's 300 million people are black, which makes for about 37 million. So we'd guess, of 37 million black people, about half would be female, right?

You know 18 million people well enough to say that each and all of them are pretty much worthless? Man, you really do get around.

Or is it possible there are black women out there that you actually don't know anything about?

 

Logic has no place here sir

 

Would it be too much trouble for us to go back to discussing white women please? If you wanna talk about BW then please go to one of their forums and knock yourself out.

 

Sorryrr fam it was the topic of the thread.

 

Then you're not who I'm talking about. I'm talking about the dudes who are fed up with BW, yet deep down inside want them. I'm not alone in my thinking, hence why I quoted LS. You're talking from a personal vantage point and I'm talking about what I've seen and heard.

I used one dude in particular as an example cause he would spew that 80% BW are blase blah (negative view). I know dude had mother issues too, so I know he also comes from a place of hurt, but like I said in one of my earlier posts, you KNOW deep down inside he wants to be with a BW. There are also some dudes who use WW, I'll just use this term for now, "to pass time". They'll be on some shit like, I'll fuck a WW, but I'm marrying a Sista. This is slightly different than the dude I mentioned, but still along the same lines of that thinking.

 

Uhm... so why all these black singers are all celebrating "indipendent" women with money and career?
I think some of the women you talk about are very affected by the mass media, you know...

 

Yay, more black guys for us! I kid, I kid

 

You're into Indian guys anyway.

 

I agree with you Jaisee... I was like "don't these guys have a black mother?" LOL. JJ rayer:

 

haha! I know, right? I'm such an ass, I can't understand how much they could bring to the IR cause. Lol

 

No, their mothers are hispanic and their dads are black.

 

You rarely hear BM saying that the WW is "a trophy" or the "paradigm" of beauty - that's just an unwanted commentary that has found traction. As far as today's BW is concerned, you will hear older BW warning younger BM all the time to be careful because they are NOT THE SAME as previous generations. That's really all there is to it...

 

1. do some black men? perhaps
2. well thats assuming that all are facing a litany of racial insults and abuse from white male counterparts. Its not happening to all of us, not saying some arent experiencing that, but not all of us. For me, its not about competition between WW and BW, its about whom im most comfortable with, shares my views on the world, values, and whom im most attracted to physically, mentally and emotionally.

I too have gone to a black college where the number of bw outnumbered bm 8 to 1. Its not that i couldnt find bw who were educated, were going to make money , etc. Its about whether i had anything in common with them to form a relationship, if she was or wasnt attracted to me and if we made a love connection--which clearly we didnt

 

O!!!!!! Ok I get it now. Thanks lol

 

Damn our circles must be identical lol...NY women can be a trip sometimes

 

Yeah I am new here, but the above was just silly. Preference, with regards to who you are attracted to is one thing, what you wrote above is personal and aggressive. If you truly want to understand why black women specifically and the black community in general is the way we are it is because of poor, pathetic, sorry tired lame as black MALE leadership. We leave them to head our homes and our community. We degrade them in our community, mannerisms, and speech.

Black women out earn us
They are more educated than us
They are the strength that we so lack.

...and then weak cats like yourself stand back and act is if the problem is with them and THEIR choices.

Nahh hommie the blame lies with us.

Now who you love, and are attracted to is your choice, but putting down your own, to justify that choice is weak.....real weak.

Just my two cents on it.


Can I add that I have been looking around the site and the ones dissin' black women are the males...and the ones defending them are the women. If you have to justified your attraction something deeper is going on.