Trust in a relationship is paramount. Otherwise, what's the point?

Also, if you ever get the feeling you can't trust your partner, you've probably got good reason...

 

suppose for me it would depend on the chemistry between my guy and his female friend.

some of my exes have had female friends. some were fine and behaved as friends, others openly flirted with guys ive been in reationships with and given me the evil eye, quite funny thou in the fact the guys hadnt really picked up on it and just felt the girl was of the touchy feely friendly type, lol

for the most part my friends have always been male, ive not been romantically interested in them but have had issues the other way round including being sexually assulted and beyond a few times when ive not given saftey a thought

 

Bingo, nail on the head, fabulous movie quote at the perfect time.

 

Always- Sir Nose

+1

 

And I don't know any such women. The truth of it being, all men, and all women want to get with all of the opposite sex they find attractive. Men and women alike live and breathe sex, everything we do boils down to sex, just think about it. You think you're strong and independent because why, because you automatically and efficiently cut a number of potential partners you deem unfit for you. You think you don't need a man or women, you're just lethargic from the "game" aka, nature's laws that are played out no matter how progressive people and time become. You think you’re wearing those shoes just because you like shoes; it's a psychological indicator for the opposite sex (as well the same) .

 

you should be concern because that is pussy in a glass. when things are foul then he breaks it in case of emergency

 

But I really do just like the shoes.

 

I won't lie and say that thoughts like that have never crossed my mind with my male friends.

 

Me either, but was it every single one of them Bookie? That's not the case for me. I can acknowledge that a man is attractive, but not be attracted to him, if that makes sense, and if I'm not attracted to him then the thought of screwing him isn't likely to enter my mind.

 

Then with your second answer you are saying the girlfriends of these guys do have something to worry about?

 

At some point or another, that thought enters my mind with every single male friend I have, whether I find him attractive or not.

Usually, they'll say something or do something and then I'll think: "hmm...I wonder what he's like in bed?" It never fails!! :smt026

 

Great, then it's just me that's fucked up on this. Why is that not surprising?

 

No. It's not something I'd act on. It's just a random thought that pops into my head that usually goes away as quickly as it arrived.

It's not always about the sexual attraction for me that makes me think it, it's more about my curiosity.

 

If I could get women to think that way...

 

Maybe I'm the one that's fucked up on this. :smt042

You're NOT fucked up on this. Everyone is unique!

 

People lie if they say they never thought of shagging their friend even if they are taken

 

I know right, I like shoes too, not necessarily the one's you speak of, but nonetheless I do like shoes

 

I'm sorry but that's BS. Why do people always believe that everybody has to fit within a certain bill. We are all different. I have some absolutely gorgeous friends that I had never had any romantic interest in them, at all. The minute you start putting the people lie, and the all women this and all men that, is where your stereotyping, and if we all know a valuable lesson, it's that stereotyping is a bad thing.

 

Try to convincing them to stop generalizing. That's the trouble.

 

I feel you, but this will always happen, because people with similar backgrounds, do act in similar ways. Call it what you want, be it negative or postive, it will always be, as "grouping" similarities within people and people themselves has happened from the beginning of time.