Why Black Women Remain Single...

Take the hate back to blackvoives.

 

do you keep a notebook with all the details of my life:shock:you must be very bored:smt045

 

Just enough to stick you back in your place when need be. Been on Blackpeoplemeet lately?

 

that will be the day when you put me in my place psb...you are fighting with fire girlfriend...actually no, i haven't been on bpm for months...no time and my dance card has been clicking along nicely...were you there pretending to be an old black grandpa...calling me a cracker and wanting to give me some chocolate...i can assure you your chocolate is bitter and lippy isn't interested...

you might find some nice wm on match or plentyoffish...no problem...glad to help...let me know if you want some help with that profile:smt112

 

I've never even visited BPM but remember you mentioned posting your photo after the recent collagen lip injections. I don't meet men online.

 

i think you might have to fact check your resources...either that or you have been drinking and note taking at the same time...multi-tasking really doesn't suit you psb...no collagen in my lips...i am just lucky to have what my mamma gave which is beautiful lips...kiss kiss darlin:smt016awww come on girl give lippy some tongue.:smt096

 

Alrighty, that's two.

The third time you bring up my sex life I'm going to start explaining to you why it's fun.

You've already discredited yourself 7 ways from Sunday. What's the point in continuing? You think you get under my skin by calling me a female cuck? No shit, I've said much the same about myself. You think I'll feel bad if you suggest my husband doesn't want me? Nah, I'm pretty solid in my relationship, there's nothing you can say to make me worry about that. You think you can spark some racism by talking about Black Men wanting Asian Women? There's no "increasingly" in my circles -- I'm a nerd. Everyone I know wants Asian Women, from the first time they saw Lynn Minmei sing in Robotech. Who could blame them? Asian Women are awesome.

You on the other hand, are sad and looking worse for wear every time you post.

Usually when I confront you, you run away for a few days. Wouldn't you like to do that now?

 

I'm not absolving anyone of anything. Certainly, people are free to think what they want and do what they want. I find dating uniracially pretty odd or being deadset against dating any race. We all have preferences, but living in a day like this, it doesn't make much sense to me.

I'm glad you've had a successful marriage. Of course, I don't know you from Eve or why you do anything - That would be asinine for me to assume as much, as it would be for you to assume that about me.

I don't think that. I think she's just overeager not to be open to other people's views, but that doesn't make her a racist.

You and I agree completely here. As a WW, I'm a human being, not a prize to be won. No one wants to be fetishized if they can grasp the concept. And I can understand the process of fetishizing a group of people, but that's when it's time to sort one's own issues before you date ANYONE.

 

sure there could be BUT do you believe there is truth in what BM are saying....? Like how BW take us for granted and we became frustrated and decided you know what lets go take our business somewhere else and see if we get better customer service. well one brother came back and stated Brother she treated me like a king you may want to check this out. so another brother did and stated the same then another and then another. Now you sista are made because we started patronizing someone else and you are screaming foul. I say im taking my business some where else and see if i can be treated like a humanbeing

 

Sure. I can see maybe where that sense of entitlement deeply bothers you.

 

thanks. alot of bros are starting to say enough is enough of the male bashing. look at every relationship column or discussion and when cheating comes up they never,rarely or barely touch on the women but when it comes to men it is portrayed as tho all men cheat or do most of the cheating.

I will assure you if you polled all the atty's in the US they will say it is about 50/50 when it comes to cheating.

I have a theory on why it is.

I believe i will do a thread on this one.

 

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Wow.....where do I start

 

if 40% aren't married then that means 60% are. right?

 

Not exactly, but I wouldn't worry about it. If you watched the video there are just as many single Black Men as there are single Black Women. And when they start the count to come up with a percentage they start at age 15. So, you can guess how credible and accurate it is. That is the issue with statistical data.

 

You know what is interesting. There isn't a we the people(white people) or at least I can't find it at the census.gov. I also don't think there are as many single black men as black women. We have a much higher marriage ratio and there are less men in the usa.

 

There is one, it does take some work to find though.

 

I need to see ALL the video before I make my FULL judgement but from what I've seen the women were excited and the men . . . just standing around looking confused.

I love black women but I also want my options, that is why I am on this site.