Not usually, unless it comes up in conversation for whatever reason, but no, I wouldn't feel the need to tell people that I have a Black BF.. I've never had someone tell me the race of their BF/GF unless we happen to be talkng about race issues etc. It's not really a big deal.
Never said celebrity wise. I know most of them say its career suicide. And I never said there werent threads about black men on here, and those women who participate in those threads Im not even talking about. I said there arent any complaints the other way with black men loving them some white women. I simply saying overall there is plenty of love for white women in this country, so there is no problem with white women showing love for black men. And thats the bottom line I was trying to make here, even though I believe Amanda Bynes is just more fascinated with black men THAN attracted making those comments, there is and shouldnt be no problem with someone expressing love for black men. Some of the comments are excessive. Hope that cleared it up.
I agree with you both. I see no reason why you would ever need to say 'I've been seeing a black man', versus 'I've been seeing someone'. It's not something that I would ever feel the need to point out.
Yeah agree right there. But there is nothing wrong with loving what attracts you. Remember it was SIR-Mix-Alot that once said I LIKE BIG BUTTS AND I CANNOT LIE. :lol:
Yeah but my message was towards the broader topic, just to make that clear with everyone. Basically she was out of line words wise, but nothing wrong with showin the brothas love publicly. even though I think she goin through a phase *kanye shrug*
I think the guys here are happy to see such a beautiful woman declare her preference for BM, whereas WW here are a little surprised by her choice of words. On a related issue, we some times see unpopular WW (eg Sarah Palin) being portrayed in a sexual pose with BM.
I spent a good 25 minutes today trying to remind my husband who Amanda Bynes was. I even showed him the opening music & credits to "What I Like About You", which we watched a few times back in the day. He has no memory of this at all, and accused me of leading a secret double life (LOL). Finally I showed him some youtube clips from HairSpray, and so now he kinda remembers her. lololol