For one thing, his mother dogged him first. Secondly, you have no idea what happened between him and his mother. His mother could have been a very physically, verbally, and emotionally abusive parent. Maybe she tried to kill him with a coat hanger while he was still in the womb. Until you know more about him and his mother, I would hold off on automatically taking the mothers side.
SHE dogged HIM as a black man he was a kid, she was an adult - SHE had the responsibility to do the right thing. Why are you surprised he finally had enough. Being left to raise your kid on your own is not exclusive to black women btw. Assholes come sin all colors and so does great men with integrity - thats a trait that - surprise - doesnt sit in the skin. You probably would have more success if you werent so bitter.
You get tangled up in your own arguments dear. Oh and you reuse the arguments used against you. C'mon! Your not running out of steam yet are you?? :smt069
You know, most men who are diagnosed as hating a group of Women have been abused by their mothers. Now, obviously gen y doesn't hate his mother, or Black Women in general. None of these guys do. But one does tend to wonder what you've been up to, trollgirl. You seem to be obsessed with Black Men hating Black Women. Who have you been abusing? Like touching little boys, or something?
I'm starting to notice a pattern here: that women like you talk in extremes. You say he hates. You say he doesn't love his mother. You say these things over and over and over and over again. As if it were true. Are you trying to convince him? Are you trying to convince us? Or are you actually trying to convince yourself, because that's what you're most comfortable believing? Just like the fact that people keep trying to say that Black Men are criminals. We've understood for a long time, because of people like you that none of it is true of these type of Men. This type of negativity is being thrust upon these Men. By people like you. By women like his mother. What's wrong with you? Women of your type make Black Men look bad. Why do you do this? But, oh well. Entertain us some more. I guess that's why you're so lonely. Why so much negativity and over generalizing about the son? But you have nothing to say about the mother. Are you just mad because he can think for himself? It's not about gen y. It's just you.
I was watching the LBJ special on PBS and just came in on the break to check my e-mail and posts and I've been here ever since. Mimi22 is my new intellectual chew toy. I hope she sticks around awhile!
Nooooo Webmaster, don't lock her down yet! I'm having a ball. Mimi22 is the best thing to happen to this board since...well...I came back!
not all black women are demeaning and such. actually, it is the behavior of most black men that turns them that way. i know that all black men are not his way and all black women are this way either. but when people on this website say that black women have some sort of jealousy issue or are just plain mean, then that's stupid of them. especially when a black man says it about their own women. if black men can control their impulsive behavior and treat their women right, then black women won't be that way.
Oh, so grown black women's behavior is all the black man's fault. Wow, I've never heard that before EVER.
