Online rudeness vs cloying conformism

Happy new year one and all, first off!

Ok, I've given this one some thought, and to combat the groupthink and cliquishness I see across the web, I feel it's better to be not just in disagreement, but also, sometimes, disparaging with the other point of view.

Too often I've seen guys arrive here with fresh, unconditioned minds, express ideas that were refreshingly outside the average, then immediately encircled by the usual pack(s) of mainstreamist wolves, and shot down by their sheer numbers, cowed into silence or worse, into submission for the sake of acceptance.

This is just mindless conformism at its most disgusting, and though I realise the web is a parallel of the playground, I'll be confronting that herd mentality when I see it. At some point, the free-thinkers really have to tell the sheep, "Go fuck yourselves" for truth to spread.

 

learn to swimm good when u jump in the stream!!

 

Amen brother, General George Patton (my hero) once had a saying, "If everyone is thinking the same, then someone is not thinking".

 

As usual JB, you have managed to state positions at either end of the spectrum, while completely ignoring the existence of any points in between. Everything is not black or white, no pun intended, there are a multitude of shades of gray.

As you are aware, I have no issue with anyone saying what's on their mind in any fashion they choose. However you should be prepared for any response you incite. If you desire a discussion, rather than a riot, less rudeness will better achieve that particular goal. I don't feel that is conformism, it's merely more polite.

Lastly, though you and I have a number of vastly different views on pretty much everything, I have never told you to 'go fuck yourself'. There are two reasons for that:

1. Your opinion differing from my own in no way threatens me, as your ability to force me to accept your point of view is non-existent
2. It's just plain rude

I think we can all agree that your previous posts tend to be on one end of the spectrum almost entirely. I'm more a fan of a balanced approach, it doesn't mean anyone has to accept defeat, and all sides are heard.

 

I am continually fascinated at the difficulty intelligent people have in distinguishing what is controversial from what is merely offensive. -Nora Ephron

 

Now see, if I had used that quote I could have skipped the 5 paragraph dissertation. Jordan is such a smart lady!

 

I have been really rude to few ladies in the last couple of days ESPY, can you pls send me to Christine Dubois Spanking class. I will do my best to behave there.

 

Now when did I get appointed hall monitor GZ? I'll put a bad word in for you with Christine, but personally I'm in favor of handling my own punishments rather than sub-contracting.

 

This one is funny considering its comming from the by far rudest poster on here.
One that resort to namecalling at the drop of a hat, commonly unprovoked and merely just because someone is not agreeing with him.

 

I thought southern belles was suppose to be all lady like, with your big hats and a mint julep. When did the spanking culture start in near Appalachia states and dixie counties? LoL

 

You have it all wrong GZ, the true Southern Belle is taught to be all things. We adapt to whatever circumstances and environment we're in. Sugar, whatever you need, we become.

 

That what she said!:smt042

 

Dude, shut the fuck up.

 

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ROFLMAO at BA taking the advice and running with it!

 

This is very, very true.:smt045

 

WTF? Now look, my dear woman, this is the second time you've dissected my personality, and I'm actually getting frustrated. Which takes a lot of doing, so congratu-fucking-lations. I'm not having some female challenge me.

If I'd damned well wanted your opinion, I'd have slammed your sexy ass against the wall, torn off most of your clothing, ducked your slapping little hands, pinned them behind you, kissed the nape of your neck smoulderingly but forcibly, until you started to BEG me not to stop, then I'd stand back and just state, "Espy, I NOW want your opinion on something".

:smt003

 

Why does this make me laugh? You are outwitted by Espy and you try to use sex innuendos to try to weaken her. I suspect it wont work. Women can't be demeaned that way. Her brain is connected to that part so you have to get past that. :smt069

 

One of my good friends gave me a plaque for Christmas that reads Southern Girls know gracious talk is an art - We say what we please then add "Bless your heart!" I laughed so hard when I read it. I have a feeling that saying may apply to you as well, my Southern Belle sister.

Tony, you speak as if you have some personal experience with a true Southern Belle.

 

I really don't feel like I need to add anything to what has already been said. I just wanted to say that I love you ladies. :smt058

 

Mkay… JB likes to think of himself as dominant… big shocker there!

First off:

Disclaimer: This is directed at JB, and in no way meant to generalize the entire male gender, nor to insult, piss off, or offend the men on this forum in particular.

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JB, I imagine you spend a significant amount of your time frustrated, so really that’s no great coup for me.

As for your amusing example, let me just say JB, you have a really good head on your shoulders but it’s a shame you don’t use it. Though perhaps it’s that self-professed pacifistic nature of yours that’s to blame? As I don’t have a single pacifistic drop of blood in my entire body, let me explain something to you. Some people simply are not meant to be trifled with. There are many, many ways to subdue and/or dominate someone, and physical size and strength aren’t even near the top of the list. You are indeed considerably larger than me, though I’m in really good shape, however I can assure you that your little scenario wouldn’t go down that way.

In fact, I rather suspect that I could change your entire world view on pretty much everything in thirty minutes or less luv. When I finished with you, you’d have trouble remembering your own name, and certainly any opinion you once held would be long forgotten, and happily so.

Now I know you place a lot of stock in that whole Alpha male thing, and barring future evidence to the contrary I am willing to accept that you likely are one, however you should realize there are a number of woman who share that particular trait. I can say with unfailing certainty JB that an Alpha male such as yourself will never be a match for an Alpha female such as myself, regardless of whether you are larger and stronger. I will always have an advantage that you cannot combat… I don’t have a dick that does all my thinking for me. As Jordan pointed out, you’d have to disconnect my brain, and that can’t be done.

Unfortunately I doubt you’d even rise to the barest hint of a challenge for me JB. Which is truly sad as there’s not much I find challenging and there’s nothing I love more than a challenge. You see, the problem with men like you JB is that you always come on really strong, but you can’t maintain that. You start out a man, but you wind up a puppy… and personally I’m not interested in a new lap dog luv.