I have to agree 100%. I used to wonder as well how the bm "knew"... but a friend of mine told me one day: "Ummm... I don't know, Pearl, maybe he noticed the way YOU were staring at HIM!" I guess I hadn't realized just what message I was sending! And just the other day I leared that my man, who is Senegalese, doesn't consider me all that curvy... although I clearly am, by any western standards: I'm a size 12!! Anyhow, it made me feel pretty good about myself!
Is that American or English? I'm an English size 16...that's actually average now but quite big by western standards. I'm tall as well though so my friends say i still look ok with it...
I'm an Amercian size 12 (or Canadian!), which according to http://www.fashion-411.com/Size_Conversions.htm is the same as English size 16! So, we're roughly the same dress size... but I'm only 5'3", so I'm sure we carry it differently! :wink: In any case, I'm not complaining. Most of the time, I rather like my shape... and no man has ever complained about my chest and booty! 8)
Whoa whoa before you say embrace the thickness let's find out how much she weighs and how tall she is. Obesity is no joke we gotta stop encouaring that unhealthy behavior.
LOL @ you and the fat thing I agree though. There is a difference between thick and fat. In regards to the thread, as I've stated in other threads, I've always attracted BM. My moms even noticed. I've attracted other races and ethnicities, but I guess cause I wasn't interested, I overlooked it. Up until recently, I don't see BM showing interest as much as before. I don't know what about my vibe has changed.
Yeah, I did!...lol I used to be thicker...Now I'm not as "thick". (LOL @ thinking I fit "your" opinion) I had a bob haircut for a while till it grew out. That felt like it had something to do with it.
Dude, he was refering to me.. and Im 5'4" and 112 lb.. hardly even close to fat and hardly a wm reject and leftover - thats acctually funny .... you just missread his comment without even bothering to look what he was refering to... just to regurgitate your agenda.
Agreed. Take a *VERY* close look at *ALL* the posts by this individual calling himself ExMember .. and you *will* concur that there are *more* than a "few" issues (and maybe an agenda or two) that this person has in regards to IR. For some reason, I can't help but think that *that's* the *SAME MENTALITY* that a certain Black American female had towards Mellisa & I...that resulted in....THAT.... http://www.whitewomenblackmen.com/forum/showthread.php?t=12739 OpinionsCartoonStudios@Yahoo.Co.UK
