What do black men find attractive???

WHAT DO BLACK MEN FIND ATTRACTIVE IN A WHITE WOMAN?????

 

They have the prettiest skin and best legs...I know these are physical traits...but white woman have great legs they look delicious

 

sweetangel29 -

You may find that you aren't getting tons of responses on some of your threads because there are already active threads going on with many of the questions that you are asking. Take a look through the first several pages of each section and I think you may find much of what you are bringing up.

hope that helps

 

Pretty feet & toes.

 

I got a question for you, do you think most men, are at least somewhat turned on by women's feet? I mean even if it may not be a fettish? Do you guys talk about stuff like that?

The reason I'm asking is that I was working one day, (summertime in Arizona) and I had on a pair of gold collored glitter flip flops, I had painted my toenails and was wearing a skirt below my knees. I was also wearing a summer blouse with short sleaves. Anyway, this old man, (I had to go visit his wife who was ill that day) got all upset about my flip flops, and said that he didn't know why women had to go about "showing off their feet," and "why couldn't they just dress descently with shoes and socks, like men do". I joked if off, and went about my day, but he really seemed to be offended that I would go to his home like that. It was like I had been wearing short shorts, and a halter top or something that in-apropriate.

 

1) Sounds like he had a foot fetish and was frustrated

2) You must have very pretty feet

 

You didn't answer my question, maybe Tony will!

 

I've been wondering the same thing for a while ... what is it with men and feet ? LOL

 

There are quite a few threads on here where men have brought up their love of feet. I'm not going to say it's most men. I was married to a man who thought feet were disgusting.

I definitely appreciate a man who appreciates feet and can't imagine being with one who doesn't again, but I have my own stuff about that.

I don't think it's a true fetish for most. And for those who are into feet...it's like anything else - they are all individuals on what they like or don't like.

For some it's more like they just appreciate seeing nice feet and hands because they appreciate a woman who takes good care of herself. Let's face it though - many people do have a thing about feet and femininity, or the shoe industry wouldn't do so well!

As far as the man getting upset - maybe it was a cultural thing and he felt it was rude for you to have your feet showing.

(that's my take on things....hopefully the men will explain better or you can find more on those other threads)

 

I love slim women that have long hair and that know how to dress and carry themselves (heels, a nice blouse, slacks, a thin watch and bracelet; almost business attire). In my work, I get to see a lot of ladies in an office environment. So, this may be the reason why I like this look so much.

It's a sophisticated appearance.

Women of all ethnicities will pull this off well. But, Caucasian women (in my experience) are often slimmer or smaller, grow their hair longer, and can maintain a certain look even when they are dressed casually; as if you could take her right from the movie theater and into the office without anyone noticing.

Tied to this is a certain reserved personality that many "White" women seem to be raised with; fun without being too overt.

The reason why I and a lot of African-American men are attracted to this is that it is often the polar opposite of Black men (without being stereotypical).

Instead of being slight, we are sometimes a little muscular and physically gifted compared to other men, are much more pointed instead of being reserved, and tend to be more dominant as opposed to being shy. We (African-American men) are raised to take charge as opposed to letting others handle things.

A lot of us prefer to cut our hair short or even shave our heads (which can be interpreted as a sign of masculinity) while women grow their hair long.

I love White women because they are so completely opposite of the average Black man. I think this is why such relationships work extremely well.

 

I’m so sorry . . . we monsters are indeed scattered amongst you. . A firm 17% of us are stricken with this illness . . . the bad news is that there is no vaccine. . The good news is that for the most part. .we don't bite hard. And yes. . Whitewomen’s feet are a particular delicacy

 

The question is more about the other men, who don't have a fettish, are feet somewhat sexy all the time to most men, or only to the ones with a fetish. You know like they say some guys like breasts and some prefer legs. But both like both?

 

I love all these points! I am dating a black man, and I am white, and he is ALL these things, and I LOVE it! In fact, we were just discussing this very issue earlier at his house, after he cooked for me . He is confident and dominant without being arrogant or abusive, and I told him that is part of what attracted me to him. I am a woman with a VERY strong mind, and a more passive man.....na. Wouldn't work, nor would I find it attractive in the long run.

 

It's their hands and feet I find the most appealing. Their temperment also I find most fascinating.

 

It does seem consistent in the BM/WW relationships that I know of (although I'm sure there are some passive Black men out there...I just don't know of any personally).

Men love to conquer women. And a lot of women love to be conquered. But, I think that Black men love it more than most (based on what past girlfriends have told me)...as graphic as it sounds, it's almost like hunting your girlfriend down...I think Black men love the hunt and White women love to be the hunted.

My girlfriend is somewhat like you, very strong minded...she even gets into road rage incidents (I'm trying to stop her from doing this when I'm not with her cause she is little). But, she does put her middle finger to use when needed...which is funny to see cause she looks like an angel and is normally incredibly nice...It's like getting "the finger" from a nun...LOL.

But, when it comes to our relationship, she loves it when I make decisions for us or when I take charge of things in and out of the bedroom. What's cool is that only I seem to be able to tame her.

 

That's a very accurate statement I think. Ofcourse I'm sure not all would fit that but the majority I think do. I'll just say one thing, personally, yes I like to be hunted but not for too long. If the hunt becomes too long, I take over and start hunting back - LOL

 

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Okay let me explain... Some of us men absolutely love feet. We love to massage them, lick on them, suck on them, and even shove the whole foot in our mouths while you shudder and climax.

A woman is known to have many errogenous zones and her feet is known as a hidden gem. There are some women (majority WW) who are hip to this particular concept and will do anything and wear anything just to show off their feet to anyone.

This is why women go through such lengths by spending money on ankle-bracelets, toe-rings, spa-pedicures, nail polish, and foot-lotions. Some men have this fetish, not all. However I will admit that I have it really bad, and when I see a WW with thong-sandals and pretty feet, I'm instantly hard at full-mast.

The way a woman takes care of her feet says a lot about her personal hygiene, real talk.

 

All this real talk is making me hot!!!

 

Well, I have been well educated, thank you my dear tony, I really had no idea about all this before coming to this board, so now I may want to cover up my feet when out and about... nah... it's way to hot in Arizona.

Here I thought we ladies did all that to our feet, because we enjoyed it, shoot, I've worn the toe-rings, and the ankle bracelets, and I've gotten the pedicures, and I always wear nail polish and foot lotions, in AZ you have to wear lotion, or you heals will crack, very painful.

Well, it's no wonder men think I'm flirting all the time!!:smt043:smt043:smt043