Cheaters

the ultimate betrayal??....

I could never feel betrayed. I mean, a woman can, and should do what ever the hell she chooses. If she tells me that she loves me, while simultaneously showing love to another brother, i wont feel betrayed at all,,,,,maybe a lil angry and/or disguted, but i'll call her a bitch and make sure everyone knows shes a bitch....and move on......

fuck a bitch..

 

BMJ

Speak for dolo, I have never nor will I ever need to step out on wifey...
So yeah fuck a bitch, but the bitch I am fucking is only my wife...

 

very true malik....

but why be with one when they are so many out there?....

The only reason a guy wouldnt step out on wifey is because he cant. Cuz those that can DO....In fact, even those that know they aint got it nomore,,,are still out there trying to get checked by other women....Its about getting the female attention, and even the sexiest broads cant keep a playboy in check man....cuz once you have her heart/attention,,what else could u possibly want/or need from her?..youve conquered the land my friend , its time to move to another.

 

BMJ

I am at the point in my life where I don't need nonsense. I don't need new pussy, don't need the aggravation to get to know it. I don't want to spend on it. Tell you a little story concerning a friend who's wife's brother was shot and killed in the doorway still running after new pussy. What you just typed was how he lived to a degree and unfortunately for him it cost him his life and that's something I cherish greatly; the ability to breathe yet again on a new day.

Most heads aren't going to run into some killing shit like I typed above. But most of the heads I know like to hit raw dog, that creates another set of circumstances I'd rather not deal with...

RING; RING, Hello, yeah malik I'm pregnant...

So now I'm married and I've planted seed in another woman, that's ok I don't need that either. I also don't need STD's, don't wanna hide my phone, don't wanna get caught out there sending stupid text messages like the dumb ass mayor of Detroit; your life is played out like "Kwame" and those fucking poka dots...

Now more importantly I don't need any of the shit I listed above because my wife's the TRUTH. My wife's Russian and I am married to a model that means I get to fuck a model every night and her appetite for intimacy exceeds mine, I am not trying to gas you; it is what it is. WE HAVE A VERY HEALTHY SEX LIFE. Insert 85% to 90% of your fantasies here, we've done it!

Furthermore my wife never leaves the house in sweats, she cooks every night, cleans my clothes and is my best friend and confidant. We also have a handsome son that leaves a number of folks awestruck when they see him, because he's such a good looking boy.

Now tell me why would I want to jeopardize what I've been blessed with for new pussy? I'd rather play with my son than to be on the phone just to get new pussy with some other broad. I'd rather talk to my wife about her day than to be out creeping for new pussy BMJ. Even if I was just married without a hot wife and a child; my family is more important than new pussy. With me BMJ you can remove the word can't from your lexicon and replace it with maturity. These very words from the movie The Matrix I believe applies to you and used to apply to me.

"Look down that road Neo, you've been down it before and you know exactly where it ends"

 

Applause from me! The presentation is a little crude but the message is right on point! Your wife is a lucky lady.

 

Do you mind me asking how you met your Russian wife? Was it online?? I'm just curious. I don't know too many couples where the black husband of a Russian wife is actually African American. The ones I know are African or black European.

 

Yup. And then she either cheats or goes through torture, depending on her character.

 

Moskvichka

I would say real not crude and to answer your question yes I did quite some time ago

 

This is NOT in reference to me. You all should know me well enough to know that I am honest. So a married woman goes out with her friends one night, plays pool and chats with a man and ends up making out with him, ONLY making out, is that cheating?

 

To me yes it is. I consider anything cheating that I would not do in front of my partner. If I found out my partner had been making out with someone.....bye bye. No need to explain.

 

Yes. :roll:

 

Nope and neither is giving BRAIN

 

Except if it's your wife of course.

 

I am talented but not that talented I can't give brain to myself, so in the words of "the dude"

Well, well yeah!!!

 

Yes.

I think the doing what you would only do in front on your spouse test is the best standard.

Transparency people.

 

And you know what? Bitches TALK so much about their men to their girlfriends. The good, the bad, the ugly and the sexual. Disclosing everything. I think it's disgusting! As bad as cheating.

 

Men are partly responsible for the importance of gossip among women.

Thousands of years spent in the home taking care of children and cleaning up makes women seek opportunities to alleviate boredom. The telephone and other modern communication devices reinforces the tradition of gossip.

Thousands of years spent in the home taking care of children and cleaning up also makes women seek other men who appreciate them for other things.

 

It's okay to crack on your dates with your girlfriends. But when you have a steady boyfriend or husband in your life, it's time to respect the privacy of the two of you, and the things he shares with you that he expects to remain confidential. Many habits are changed as you change your status from single to attached, and this should be one of them.

 

If it makes any difference, she regrets it, never contacted the guy or gave him her contact info. She is my friend and I have been through it. My advice was to not put herself in that situation again and to forgive herself.

 

I'd have to say abso-freakin'-lutely. It's cheating. I laughed because for a moment, I didn't think you were serious :lol: