Random Conversation 2.0

Yea, i think that unfortunately you're right... the crazy thing is that you really don't notice this in real life but I guess people show their true colors in the anonymity of the internet

 

Oh, you notice it in real life but you actively don't/won't engage with it when you see it. The internet unfortunately just provides a platform for individuals who engage in all kinds of ignorance to display it and pretend that whatever ignorance they subscribe to is normal.

 

I've been with a black man for 10 years now and honestly I haven't really encountered any situations where such things were really noticeable... I've caught some stares/double takes etc but nothing crazy... also a few white women asking me all sorts of questions about what its like to be with a black man and talking about it like its something crazy extraordinary or exciting but thats is few and far in between... and that has been it. I guess people just behave differently online

 

This.

Online people will say & do all the untoward things that they are afraid to say or do IRL. They can spin the narrative that they were just being curious or what they said/ did wasn't negative when they get backlash. They become the "victim" and you become the "bully" for calling them on their bullshit.

 

And the fuckery continues. Latest member to join : CreampiesOnly2Get7Kids.

Profile says male, so ladies would you want to make him your king just off the screen name? If that profile said female, I know there would be at least 2-3 ashy dick lames about it off the name alone....SMDH.

 

Going to be "the hateful asshole" with this take: Why do we have individuals who are down with MAGA still wanting to come here & think they aren't going to be looked at & treated like the WTFs that they are? Why not go to some For MAGAs Only site? What's the appeal of coming here unless it's to troll & just be a contrarian asshole? Especially since none of them have any actual skin in any IR relationships or community IRL?

 

Proximity to legitimate IR couples/community. That's why the quest for other sites or discord channels and wanting folks (especially serious mined IR focus folks) to join.

 

I don't think it's for support of the IR community but more to try to legitimize whatever negative IR related fuckery they are about. Kind of like how racist white folks are okay with embracing self hating non-white folks to use as cover to claim they aren't racists.

 

Here's a question for everyone, how many of you have the movie "Jungle Fever" in your collection?

 

I don't. Even though it's a decent movie, it doesn't have any replay value to be in a movie collection unless you're a fan of Spike Lee movies and have it in a collection alongside other Spike Lee movies IMO. And "No" I don't watch or collect movies just because it has some level of IR in it. I watch & collect movies based of how entertained I was while watching it & if it has replay value based on how much I was entertained from watching.

 

I don't but, saw it many times after its release. I will try to get a copy in the future. Hope it includes deleted scenes.

 

Black Men, your opinion on this:

https://medium.com/@boukman.byrd/bl...fident-in-a-domesticated-culture-1aaf879ee7fc

 

Simply put: Self esteem, morals & integrity. Basic things that anyone striving to be a decent human being should have. We're seeing right now how people who lack those three basic things navigate through life.

 

Today is National Relaxion Day, let's all relax

 

Didn't want to put the spotlight on individual users with this but rather put the spotlight on just how deep "the rot" is even among black posters on this site.

Nothing wrong with enjoying porn, but why come here if that is your primary interest when it comes to anything in regards to IR relationships? Especially when it is abundantly clear you don't have an actual dog in the fight in regards to IR relationships & community as a whole IRL.