are white women more aggressive online than IRL?

i have a theory that ww tend to be more aggressive online when it comes to online dating...

i have an online dating account of BBW site where most of the messages I get are from WW...

 

From my experience, it seems that way. I think that's how I got my 1st gf. Then after that I gotten more contact with them then any other race.

 

Nice some WW having guts in the US.

 

I am going to say yes to this. You can be way more real and upfront online (especially when it comes to your dating preferences).

 

As a (shy) white woman who used to be on dating sites, I can say yes absolutely!
I would have no problem starting a conversation or messaging first or complimenting men online, while I would admittedly do no such thing IRL, the most you could get out of me would be a flirty look or a smile lol, and that's even rare. Lots of reasons for that.

 

I think aggression is sometimes confused with passion. I'm a very passionate person period, but can probably come off aggressive, though technically aggression comes with being a redhead so maybe I'm the one confused The older I've grown the more confident I've grown so probably nowadays wouldn't have a problem speaking my mind IRL if I was so lucky to engage with a BM.

 

You are not like some Oz women who wants a booty call.

 

Hahah nah not my thing, relationship or nun life nothing in between.

 

On the internet people paint themselves to be something they're not. This is why you have some, not all white women posing. Playing the role they think black men or any man is after. Then on the flip side you have men doing the same thing. Then these two types meet and realize it's a cluster because neither side presented themselves honestly. Then that's rippled across the dating community as "there's no good men or women" out there.

So yeah, women come on strong like they're bossy bossy. I blame the rap music, Instagram and TikTok. I'm serious. This is not a joke. These types that come on bout it bout it online, I see them in real life and they don't talk the same at all. I've run into people from facebook and IG and all that energy in them pictures and videos, none of that is real.

Real world real life experience.

 

When I meet people like that, I always wonder why they felt the need to adopt a character in the first place. Many people have perfectly endearing characteristics naturally, without adopting a fake posture.

Question: does that confidence continue in the real world if you meet someone that you first contacted online?