Have you ever been fetishized or felt like you were being fetishized by a black man or white woman?

Are these burnt dinners at least edible? Asking for a friend, lol.

 

Most definitely edible!

 

Well then, we’re in business!

 

Is fetishization bad, isn't that what draws us to forums like these. We all have our hang-ups, turn-ons, kinks...arent those like fetishes?

I think ppl should play with their fetishes (given consent and legality ofc) if they have that opportunity. If race is your fetish, why not take that opportunity to do raceplay? 1. slave master's daughter (too dark, my bad lol) 2. Black male intruder 3. White lady cop (shout out to Maggie Green and Joslyn Jane lol) 4. Black Pres and secretary...we only live once right lol

I think we all just fetishise each other anyway but to what degree? The internal struggle, right. Is your parter a real person or are they just an object? Do you really like them as a person or the skin they wear? How far are you willing to go with them?

I struggle with the last one, honestly. I get in my 'blackity black' bag as I age, and it's like should I even date 'out' or pursue ww? Would ww just be for fun: relationships/dating but not long term: commitment/marriage? Which leads to deeper internal questions but I'll leave that there.

Maybe I just like the idea of ir more than the practice. Am I just addicted to the visual of wwbm in media and pictures my mind paints from ir rom books. And this leads to deeper thoughts: white in laws, proximity to whiteness, mixed kids, etc. Don't know how this comes across to non US peeps (race relations are ever prevalent here)...So are ww just a fetish? Maybe, but idk how good or bad that is, but I do know how it made me feel in real life, happening to me.

I think I was fetishized a few times in life, 4 instances that i can think of, no deets cuz this shit is long enough. Once as a young man, I was so fucking down, very turned on, wanted that shit to happen badly lol. Twice mid 20s (best shape of my life so far, couldn't tell me shit lol) first instance was scary so noped tf outta that situation, same night same store was funny older white lady was drunk and willing to risk it all lol. And once as a late 20s/early 30s adult, was still very hot and that horndog male part of me was like damn, is this even real, but felt kinda like a turn off as well. Like damn she doesn't even know me or like me for me, I'm in the role of 'any black guy' rn. Not special, any dark dick will do. And that was on the heels of George Floyd...so yeah just a bitter taste feeling like a black body and not...me

 

I think that last example you provided is what some of us have been referring to - that feeling of being viewed by a potential partner solely in racial/sexual terms that rendered your personality or individual characteristics irrelevant.

 

Yeah I get that, just more of a thought exercise (thought vomit) with myself...sometimes u just gotta get the thoughts out. Reflection and all that jazz lol.

Then added some personal experiences and thoughts on how that made me feel at diff points of my life, again reflection. I noticed the differences in myself as I aged.

 

Good point. I have noticed how my attitude toward this sort of stuff has evolved over time and with life experiences.